Pops wrote:
Life is a game. You can't win if you don't play. Connecting requires playing the game. Will a working girl play you? In a heartbeat. Remember they are all working girls. In the states they charge different. They expect you to buy it not rent it. Doesn't mean you can't connect. You have to play better than her. Will the connection last forever? Not usually. But you enjoy it when it is there then look for the next connection.
Looking for love in all the wrong places. Physically there is no right or wrong place. It is where you find it. Most working girls are damaged goods. Most non working girls are damaged goods. Most people are damaged goods. People play games because they don't want you to see who they are. They know they are damaged.
Just because you want to connect, doesn't mean that others want to connect. Connecting requires trust. It is hard to trust if you have been burned too many times.
We journey through life trying to discover who we are and to find happiness. We acquire things thinking they will make us happy. The new car, boat, house, wife all felt good when we got them but they don't make us happy. If we are lucky we learn to look in the mirror and like what we see. We can't make anyone else happy nor can they make us happy. We have to learn how to be happy on our own.
Very well said, Pops....many books have been written about it, you condensed the whole philosophical message in four well written paragraphs!
