Obi Wan, your wise words are truly Jedi-esque and my buddy appreciates the prayers.
My perspective on the matter is that my buddy has loving wife and plenty of K*ds that are pretty much fully grown and self sufficient. He is from the Midwest so he was raised with the beliefs of family first and supporting your community (aka church). I have nothing bad to say about either and if that's where his happiness lies then good for him.
I, on the other hand, grew up in California and learned early on in my career that a divorce can be as debilitating, personally and professionally, as a major injury. I saw two guys I respect and admire go through it, and it totally soured me on the institution of marriage before I even hit 25. I am lucky enough to have a good career and be financially stable on my own. I do what my financial advisors tell me and don't sweat the small stuff anymore. I live a simple life of balance and moderation when at home, but I party like a f%&kin' rockstar when I'm on vacation.
Appreciate the kind thoughts brothers,
Allister1369
_________________ Q: What is best in life?
A: To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentation of their women!
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