I received exactly the same message.
As I believe that the operating word in private message is "private," I wouldn't post it as Wit did, but i understand his frustration. My reply to the guy was pretty much word-for-word to Wit's above.
Another reason some guys make solicitations like this is that they are a.) jealous boyfriends whose novias have abandoned them and changed phone numbers b.) are asshole stalkers who simply want to harass the girl c.) are clueless. I'm going to give this newbie the benefit of the doubt and select option c.).
postscript added... To date, this newbie, who is a V.I.P. member has only one post after joining August 4, 2005. His only post was a similar request made in the V.I.P. Forum. Newbie, what's your deal?
