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Author:	JAG [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 3:43 am ]
Post subject:	*Dios mio, man* *My first trip* Did I get played??
So I went down, I finally did it. In anycase towards the end of my trip I meet a lovely tica at the BM. We connected on an extremely personal level. I felt that this may be one of the most intimate of personality connections that I have ever experienced. But, Maybe she's just good at creating that kind of atmosphere through acting. After all, where did I meet her right? We agree for one hour for 50, and we get back to my hotel and just chill for a long time and talk and bullshitted until she took it upon herself to put a condom on me and do it. Long before that point, we had been tongue kissing like crazy. Now we bang for a while. I like her, she knows how to move it. Either she cums real hard, or fakes it. I can't tell. It seemed genuine but who really knows for sure? She could have good acting skills ( and she admits to me that she does). She tells me that she never tongue kissed a customer of hers, nor does she climax. She could just be throwing gasolina on the fire. Like every other girl there, she claims not to be working at the Del Rey for long, and is soon stopping to pursue some other more socially legitimate occupation. This of course , is a lovely idea, in that I care for her already, and want a better life. I think that's where I got sucked in. I mean I think they have it all planned out, they know how to play it. Or maybe it was genuine. I want to know if I have been played by this chick. And you know what, I don't mean if I was played for money, but I want to know if my feelings have been played. We spend a total of 22 hours together (from approx 8pm-6pm following day) together, aventually split up with plans to meet out downtown somewhere that evening at 9. Before splitting up however, we eat the most delicious dinner I've had in a long time. Truely exquisite Costa Rican food. Eaten off big leaves and all. Delicious. She gets calls on her cell phone, and finds out she is having problems with her bank. At dinner, she seemed genuinely depressed, but hadn't mentioned that her depressed attitude and her bank problems were related. After we split, she asks me to come back to give her some cash. I felt played. I feel heartbroken. Perhaps I just caught feelings for a professional? What scares me most is I can't decide if I have been played or not. Am I that naive? Hard to believe.

Author:	Orange [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 7:24 am ]
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JAG, I'm not a vet or anything, but I think you got hustled. This chica probably noticed you drooling all over yourself when you were with her, and saw an opportunity to hit you up for some extra dinero. I think that more experienced mongers will agree, but I'm curious what they'll have to say. -Orange

Author:	Berk2302 [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 8:24 am ]
Post subject:	Trouble with my bank??? Yea... right.....
Jag...... you were played. You forgot the one thing that I myself recently forgot.....it's always about the money. I feel for you man. These are working chicas. Some of them are very, very good at what they do. Their job is to extract dollars from your pocket. Now, there's no problem with that, per se, as long as you don't forget what the game is along with the rules. Chalk the entire thing up to experience. She didn't give you all that time and lovin' cause you had a pocket full of personality. She did it cause you had a "pocket full of greenbacks". Never forget......it always starts with the $$$ and it always ends with the $$$ 99.99% of the time. Next time.... you'll be that much more wise... just like me! Berk......

Author:	CaliforniaMonger [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 8:31 am ]
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How much money did you give her and how much did she ask for? Given that she spent 24 hours with you, $200 would not have been unreasonable. She does have to make a living.

Author:	Hazel [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 8:33 am ]
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Jag I would have to say you just got put through the normal motions that they try to put evey gringo through. These women are experts at their craft and if you do not remember to check yourself now and again you can be sucked in. They can and will work on your emotions if givin the opportunity. I don't think you got played, but just put through the CR Initiation. Take it as a lesson learned. I'm an emotional guy and I think the chicas can sense it like blood in the water. HAZEL

Author:	Surfdog [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 8:38 am ]
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How much more did you give her? Seems to me you got a damn good deal for 50 bucks. Maybe you should have gone back to the DR and got a different one instead of falling in love. If you only gave her 50 or 100 bucks more you still got a good deal. Surfdog

Author:	PacoLoco [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 8:57 am ]
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What restuarant did you have that great meal at? Hey Hazel- que tal amigo? good to see you posting... Sounds like a normal day in paradise to me... Here Jag- read this to put it all in perspective- https://costaricaticas.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=3914

Author:	CapoD2TCapo [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 10:21 am ]
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I wrote this story some time back on an old site and I was naÃ¯ve enough to believe back then it was all about me & not the moneyâ€¦. I wonâ€™t bore you with the entire details again, but it goes something like this. 2 years ago met the ever present â€œsemi-proâ€â€¦ enjoyed her company for many a couple of TLNâ€™s at reasonable #â€™s 20 to 30k. The outpouring of love and affection via email & phone calls was without a doubt as believable as it gets it was thinking back enough to make me sick it was so candy sweet. 3rd trip I head down call her and she meets me at the Balmoral. Nice afternoon romp and she indicates she needed shoes; off we go where she purchases MY CC 5 inch stilettos as she indicates she needs more money so she is going to start dancing. If I wanted her not to dance well give her some moneyâ€¦ hmm. I bought her the shoes and gave her some money for the afternoon and invited her white water rafting. Off we went the following day, and had a great time. All day long she kept saying THANK YOU THANK YOU, Iâ€™ve never been out of SJO, this was such a treat oh my god thank you. We showered and went to dinner and then she had to be home by midnight she was gone nearly 18 hours and her little one was home alone. NOW I DID NOT HAVE Sex with her during the 18 hours due to rafting, etc. SHE TOLD ME I OWED HER $300.00 bucks for her time for the day! You could have knocked me over with a feather, I wonâ€™t get into the details of the final result, but she burned her bridge, and I never saw her again ever. Stupid on her part and even dumber by my standards as I have made similar mistakes much smaller in nature over the years, but I keep going back to lesson #1 ITS ALL ABOUT THE MONEY!You were played; move on, use the VP method, go hit 5 more and than think if youâ€™re missing something.

Author:	JAG [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 12:50 pm ]
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Ok I have a bit to ad to the post, as I just got home last night and I left a few things out. They probably don't matter though. As for the name of the restaurant....I'm not sure off hand, but I will definitely ask her and post it again. I had some delicious beef and chorizo, what an F'ing surprise. I wish I could eat there again today. Here are a few other ways I was fooled. She took me to her apartment, which I thought maybe unusual for a professional woman to do. I thought I was "special." She told her father about me. Anyway, honestly, I'm not quite over the high I've been getting by being played, so I'm going to continue to go with it until my head comes around. I only gave her 40,000 colones. Believe me, she was worth a lot more, and I will be sending her more money to make up for it. I'm young, and ran out of cash, I should have stayed out of the casinos. Live and learn I suppose. Thanks for all the responses.

Author:	JAG [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 1:25 pm ]
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Come on people, we need a better support system here, let's get a chatroom, like a hotline for played newbies. The elders lend a hand to the newbies. kidding.

Author:	Traveler0818 [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 1:49 pm ]
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Jag, If you were played is irrelevant. What counts is that you are playing along and having fun. If you treat this in any other way than a game, then "we" will get you a support group. Meanwhile, play along, dont make any sacrifices (specially financially) that you would later regret (like giving up your retirement fund ), do a sanity check once in a while, and enjoy!

Author:	JAG [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:11 pm ]
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I just talked to her on the phone. She's such a sweetheart. I'm gonna need help climbing my way out of this hole.

Author:	Traveler0818 [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 8:30 pm ]
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Jag, one more piece of advice, pay the 39 bucks and become a VIP.

Author:	Witling [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 9:39 pm ]
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JAG, You pay one way or another. The key is to keep the transactions in CASH only. If you start paying in emotion you'll never get your money's worth.

Author:	JAG [ Thu Jul 21, 2005 10:26 pm ]
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I hear you. You make complete sense. However, what if I'm passing up on something real? I know the chance of that is remote, but what if? I think I'm going to let my emotional guard down for a moment and see what happens. I'd rather risk hurt, then never love. Ha how gay, now I'm starting to play myself.

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