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Author:  ositoDelNorte [ Sun Jul 16, 2017 11:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Don't be THAT guy
I'm sure I am preaching to the choir here. And nobody reading this would be jerk enough to do something this...

Last Friday, there was a guy in Jaco acting like a big shot. He was throwing money around buying liquor and drugs. He had 6 ladies that he was taking from place to place in the VIP sections. Then he took the 6 ladies back to his house for Todo La Noche, offering each girl as much as $600.00 for the night.

Then after a long night of partying, when it came time for the ladies to leave the next afternoon he refused to pay. Needless to say the women were pissed. A fight ensued. The police were called. But in the end, the ladies worked all night and didn't get paid.

As a rule, I always push for paying my ladies after. That way they have an incentive to perform better. Every time I pay up front, the performance is always mediocre at best.

But word of events like this spread fast among the ladies. And not only does it make us all look bad and increase the unlikeliness of a woman accepting payment after, but it can ruin entire opportunities. I personally know several women who left Jaco after this to back to San Jose because in their minds "Jaco has too many drugs and bad men to work".

After enough jerks like this in an area and the pu*sy can dry up. Or at least any of the decent pu*sy.
Author:  Orange [ Mon Jul 17, 2017 10:16 am ]
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Did you actually witness this or hear about it second (or fourth) hand?

Because I m having trouble believing that none of the 6 chicas had a "friend" that would pay him a visit to collect and adjust his attitude. There would be no need for police to get involved. They would get whatever was owed to them and then some.
Author:  ositoDelNorte [ Mon Jul 17, 2017 12:39 pm ]
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Orange wrote:
Did you actually witness this or hear about it second (or fourth) hand?

Because I m having trouble believing that none of the 6 chicas had a "friend" that would pay him a visit to collect and adjust his attitude. There would be no need for police to get involved. They would get whatever was owed to them and then some.


I was not there, so I didn't witness it first hand. But I saw the aftermath a few hours later as the girls were screaming about it with each other.

Two of my regulars were involved and I heard the story through them. I saw first hand the steaming anger in their eyes and the bruises. I tried to console them, but they wanted nothing to do with any man at that moment. It took a while just to get them to open up to me and tell me what happened. They finally just went back to San Jose, too angry to work Saturday night as they planned.

I certainly don't know all of the details of what went down. But I know these girls and they didn't use it as a ploy to get money out of me. So I do believe them.
Author:  LAdiablo [ Mon Jul 17, 2017 2:07 pm ]
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that guy better hope he skipped town or they might be finding pieces of him
bruises?
Author:  nosejelly [ Mon Jul 17, 2017 3:50 pm ]
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Maybe the "Bad Men" in Jaco story will keep more Chicas in the Gulch! Fine by me :o :twisted: :arrow:
Author:  Rico1040 [ Mon Jul 17, 2017 5:49 pm ]
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Orange wrote:
Did you actually witness this or hear about it second (or fourth) hand?

Because I m having trouble believing that none of the 6 chicas had a "friend" that would pay him a visit to collect and adjust his attitude. There would be no need for police to get involved. They would get whatever was owed to them and then some.


We all agree that he's a di*k. He doesn't realize that this isn't his country. The 6 girls should do something to remind him of that.
Ruins it for all us gentlemen here, treating the ladies right. Ugh
Author:  Pops [ Mon Jul 17, 2017 8:44 pm ]
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It would only take one of them claiming that he struck her and making an official complaint and his days of being a big shot in Costa Rica would be over. When he got out of preventive detention in two or three months he would be more than happy to never be seen in Costa Rica again. Put a bruise on one of them and let her complain and kiss your ass goodbye. Be stupid enough and refuse to pay one of them and you risk more headaches than you can imagine. If I was one of them and got stiffed, knowing what I know, I would make a complaint that the guy assaulted me. I know a guy who was assaulted by a girl and called the police just wanting to get his things out of the room. He went to jail. She might get barred from some hotels, depending on her relationship with the hotel. She might not even get barred. Best thing to do if a problem arises with one of them is to pay them and send them on their way. Use it as a learning experience to do a better job of selecting who you take to your hotel. Getting drunk or wasted on drugs is not the way to enjoy Costa Rica. You are asking to get robbed, have misunderstandings with girls, get injured or end up in jail.
Author:  just121 [ Mon Jul 17, 2017 11:51 pm ]
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I agree, that's bad news if the guy didn't pay. I'd think there is more to the story than that. I know I've had gals scream at me for a tip after I paid them the agreed amount. They would yell at me until I guess they felt I wouldn't cave, then just leave. Some even said sorry. I'd say 10% or more were real aggressive with the tipping issue. I'd always say hi and be as polite as possible when I'd see them later, they seemed to have no hard feelings and at least say hi back.
Author:  hotdogg [ Tue Jul 18, 2017 5:43 pm ]
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just121 wrote:
I agree, that's bad news if the guy didn't pay. I'd think there is more to the story than that. I know I've had gals scream at me for a tip after I paid them the agreed amount. They would yell at me until I guess they felt I wouldn't cave, then just leave. Some even said sorry. I'd say 10% or more were real aggressive with the tipping issue. I'd always say hi and be as polite as possible when I'd see them later, they seemed to have no hard feelings and at least say hi back.



I'd wager there is less to the story. Two chicas and $60 each is probably closer to the truth. I met a chica once who would exaggerate once in a great while.

Like I caught a fish THIS BIG...

Still, a douchbag is a douchebag.
Author:  Jackal [ Mon Jul 31, 2017 9:13 pm ]
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Appreciate the post and with all due respect to the OP, but I wouldn't believe in the details of events told to me by Chicas.

Unless he has influence with the authorities which is always possible, I mean wouldn't they just simply dial 911 and then you'd have to bribe those corrupt fellows as well.
Author:  budmon44 [ Tue Aug 01, 2017 7:39 pm ]
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As they say, there are always two sides to a story and then the truth.

I find it strange that not one of the 6 girls asked for the money up front, statistically speaking.
Also if he offered a few $600 from the get-go, did not one of them even ask for at least a partial payment up front ??? If they'd even managed to get $200 up front, and he couldn't afford the rest it would be at least somewhat worth their time. Why didn't any of them have this mindset ?

Not saying that the guy wasn't a douche, but women do have a habit of exaggerating details to prove their stories true at times.
Author:  Netgems [ Fri Aug 04, 2017 1:30 am ]
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Pops wrote:
It would only take one of them claiming that he struck her and making an official complaint and his days of being a big shot in Costa Rica would be over. When he got out of preventive detention in two or three months he would be more than happy to never be seen in Costa Rica again. Put a bruise on one of them and let her complain and kiss your ass goodbye. Be stupid enough and refuse to pay one of them and you risk more headaches than you can imagine. If I was one of them and got stiffed, knowing what I know, I would make a complaint that the guy assaulted me. I know a guy who was assaulted by a girl and called the police just wanting to get his things out of the room. He went to jail. She might get barred from some hotels, depending on her relationship with the hotel. She might not even get barred. Best thing to do if a problem arises with one of them is to pay them and send them on their way. Use it as a learning experience to do a better job of selecting who you take to your hotel. Getting drunk or wasted on drugs is not the way to enjoy Costa Rica. You are asking to get robbed, have misunderstandings with girls, get injured or end up in jail.



Or all 4...then get killed... :evil:

I was lucky to never have any serious problems but once when I lived there I took one back to my apartment. I told her she gets $80 if she performs well, $50 if just mediocre, thinking I was dangling an incentive which works well with most girls. She surprisingly gave a lousy service and I let her know, early on, trying to encourage her to do more. :evil:

This was in my early days before I learned to lay down the law about what I expect before agreeing for a playdate... and when I handed her the $50 after we were done, she demanded the $80. I told her she sucked and not literally, I was disappointed, she led me on blah blah blah. :evil:

My apartment was 2 story, bedrooms on the top floor, we could see guys hanging in the courtyard including the owner, he was real prickly about who we brought over, had a set of rules, wanted us to get a copy of their I.D., etc.

She told me she would start screaming if she didn't get $80 and she let me get away with more than most other guys. Based on how bitchy she was, she might have been honest about that. What could I do, I paid it and cab fare too, I just asked her to allow me to escort her to the gate fast so my nosey landlord doesn't approach with questions. I got that much out of her... :shock: :? :oops:

Years later I would see her at HDR, she had a cute face and decent curvy body with big n naturals, her mediocre service was worth $50 but not $80. She had the gall to approach me and say "Remember me? You been with me...let's go again now..." :shock: :shock: :shock:
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