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Negotiation how to?
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Author:  vinsanto [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 2:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Negotiation how to?
I have read a lot of posts and many say always specifically negotiate what you want before you move forward. Trouble is that we speek in abbreviations in formus, but my question is what do you actually say if for example a guy wanted dfk, gfe, 2 leche, Greek, cof, bbbj? These are embarrassing things how do you bring them up? Could anyone write a little script of how the negotiated?
Author:  Jackietrehorn [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 9:17 pm ]
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First you can't negotiate GFE. I suggest you do what everybody else has done, give it your best shot and learn along the way. A script? That's silly. Takes all the fun out. This is not like a prom date my friend.
Author:  BangBang57 [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 10:20 pm ]
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Jackietrehorn wrote:
First you can't negotiate GFE. I suggest you do what everybody else has done, give it your best shot and learn along the way. A script? That's silly. Takes all the fun out. This is not like a prom date my friend.

To add to this, there is nothing these chicas have not heard before - they are in the business of selling sex; therefore there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to be embarrassed about. I mean it is not like you are trying to get in that small town USA high school prom date's pants!! Secondly, most of these chicas have all these basic questions down (from having heard them so many times) and will know what it is you are asking for. While you are here you will be in a foreign country where no one knows you, everyone in the places with "working chicas" will know what you are here for, and all you need to do is forget how things are done in the USA, relax, and have fun. Everyone makes mistakes, everyone has had problems communicating at some point, and it takes a while (short while hopefully) to relax and adjust to a very different way of getting what you came here for!!! And, above all else, do not over plan! The minute you walk into the Rey or one of the other places for the first time all your plans will go flying out the window. Your whole world and outlook on life will change, and almost always for the better!!!!
Author:  BangBang57 [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 10:29 pm ]
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Oh, forgot one other thing!! Even though they are "working chicas" and you can ask them questions that you would not/could not ask that prom date, always treat them with respect! Doing so will very often go as for or farther than the dollars in your pocket towards having a good time!!
Author:  Jawanker [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 10:46 pm ]
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Great advice BB
Author:  Orange [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 11:05 pm ]
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No need to blush. Just speak to them in a normal manner. Forget monger abbreviations.

This may help with some basic Spanish words/phrases related to the game: viewtopic.php?f=11&t=12923&p=114045
Author:  vinsanto [ Mon Sep 07, 2015 11:28 am ]
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Thank you very much for your responses. I really enjoyed reading them and I appreciate the fact that you took the time to respond. I am used to USA ******* where you know what they do via their websites so you don't really need to discuss it, in advance. But I think that the negotiation, the hunt, the discussions are what makes costa Rica fun even if I don't get it perfect. Thanks again everyone!
Author:  vinsanto [ Mon Sep 07, 2015 11:33 am ]
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Orange wrote:
No need to blush. Just speak to them in a normal manner. Forget monger abbreviations.

This may help with some basic Spanish words/phrases related to the game: viewtopic.php?f=11&t=12923&p=114045


PS that spanish words post is awesome, thanks orange!
Author:  Whitecat [ Mon Sep 07, 2015 5:14 pm ]
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Good link, thanks, Orange. the one I like the best is "Nunca pago cien por una hora."
Author:  LAdiablo [ Mon Sep 07, 2015 5:31 pm ]
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The questions need to be asked especially if they are deal breakers
Its how they get asked that makes the difference imo
If you are laughing and relaxed and you ask "te gusta besos ?" she will probably say something like "contigo si" but know that unless its qualified con lengua she just might be pecking you on the cheek and turning hers...
Not like you can just read a list and at some point its just a leap of faith based on your own instincts
Guys that lead with how much?, do you suck my dick sin condom?, etc. have no idea what gfe is
Author:  Orange [ Tue Sep 08, 2015 11:58 am ]
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LAdiablo wrote:
Guys that lead with how much?, do you suck my dick sin condom?, etc. have no idea what gfe is

Yeah, if you start a conversation discussing business, what you gonna get is a business fugg
Author:  BashfulDwarf [ Mon Nov 09, 2015 4:17 pm ]
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vinsanto wrote:
I have read a lot of posts and many say always specifically negotiate what you want before you move forward. Trouble is that we speek in abbreviations in formus, but my question is what do you actually say if for example a guy wanted dfk, gfe, 2 leche, Greek, cof, bbbj? These are embarrassing things how do you bring them up? Could anyone write a little script of how the negotiated?

Somehow I missed this thread, so I'm late to the game.

I met a guy that told me his method. He'd chat to em to sus out the personality, and then he'd ask them about their rules "las reglas". As they go through the rote of "no this, no that", he'd listen for his pet peeves, and then tell them that, say, "chupa con condon" is not 'good' with him. This gives her the chance to adjust, or let's him know to ring MG's NEXT! bell.

Some guys never let the chicas lay down rules, but instead state what they want and expect. So it's all down to your comfort level in talking about this stuff in public (unless you have the whole bar area to yourself, which is rare in the Rey).
Author:  hotdogg [ Mon Nov 09, 2015 5:18 pm ]
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Jackietrehorn wrote:
First you can't negotiate GFE. I suggest you do what everybody else has done, give it your best shot and learn along the way. A script? That's silly. Takes all the fun out. This is not like a prom date my friend.

+1 on this. The script/menu thing makes ME feel dirty. I'd rather save that for the cama. :lol:

I try to go just a touch more subtle... find out what they like to 'do' or 'have done' in the bedroom. Most exciting thing you've done, yada yada. Specific? Not at all. But in my experience, responses are directionally correct enough to make decisions.

I prefer the 'like' angle over 'willing' angle. True, no chica will say, "I prefer to lay motionless with my eyes closed chanting 'si papi' until it's over." But... more colorful/candid responses get my attention.

That and I go for volume on my trips, which for me is 2x a day. Get a little of everything I like that way, GFE, PSE, etc. Maybe I'm lucky, but I rarely have more than 1 regrettable in a trip of 10-12 sessions.

This is a hobby and not a science. There's no one best way... other than what you find to work for you.

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Author:  just121 [ Sun Nov 06, 2016 5:30 am ]
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How do I say in spanish that I want to pay after we are finished? I looked on the board and only found how to say half now half later. I typed a few phrases in google translate about paying after, but am not sure that it is right. What are some phrases in spanish to describe the pay later concept?
Author:  just121 [ Sun Nov 06, 2016 5:40 am ]
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Nevermind. Found it.
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