Pops wrote:
The attraction to Jaco for the girls are the high rollers who frequent Los Suenos.
Very true. I have seen a lot of talk on the board, when reviewing older posts, that what people pay has no effect on what a guy can get. If you don't have your heart set on one particular girl, that is true. However, the talk about places being "dead" in SJ is directly related to this subject. I know many girls that are simply not in view any more. If you don't have their phone number (it has probably been changed anyway), you will never see them again.
Most of them have learned their lesson about cheating on their source of income and would kick the hottest, coolest, suavest guy in the world to the street and tell him to come back in 3 years when she has made her fortune. Word gets around, and most guys are simply not taking their shit anymore. CRT and the guy network in general has definitely made it a buyer's market. I dumped a girl on December 24 a couple years back with no cash for cheating on me. Locked her out of the house and told her to get her own taxi or start walking. She must have cried a million tears about her K*D's christmas being ruined. Her fault. She broke the rules, she got what she deserved. Now all the girls that know her know that you do not Phuck with BBF. Some of them think I'm scum -- Perfect, because those are exactly the kind of girls that I don't want talking to me. Others still approach me and obey the rules (which is whatever you and the girl agree upon). We have a great time together and I treat them very, very well.
In summary, both the guys and girls have gotten much more unforgiving and opportunistic. In CR, the days of finding a sucker on every corner (for both the girls and guys) are getting much harder to find.