Orange wrote:
Also, I would add one other rule: Use your gut instinct. Sometimes, we get fooled. The chica says all the right things and has the right attitude, but our guts tells us that something is off, but we ignore it and then she turns out to be a dud. It's not 100% accurate, but accurate more times than not. Your gut can sense bullshit even in the mildest form.
Yep - very trueBigdan1173 wrote:
The two big ones for any newbie are the aggression and the group. The aggressive ones can sense a newbie and they smell blood. Just say "No gracias". Don't qualify it, no "Maybe later". Just NO. If they don't get it the first time say over and over and over again. They are trouble waiting to happen.
The ones who always want to bring in a third player annoy me. Several times I'm hitting it off with a cutie and she tries to bring her not so cute friend along. I fell for it once...never again. If you want a three way, make it your idea (or at least let her think it's her idea). Have her pick the girl out.
True - especially if the "friend" is not that good looking - its admirable to help out a friend, but it is annoying - and the girls who do so tend to be shitty - in fact, when I open my "Whore Skool" in SJ, the 2nd thing I plant to tell the "students (After making it manditory they drop the famous lines such as: "Bacation", "Where ju stay, baby?", "Ju firs' time, baby?", "I wait fo ju, Baby" - as well as not allowing more than one "Baby" every 30 seconds......) - is not to travel in a pack - especially with an ugly friend.