Pay..???
What is all this pay stuff you guys talkin' about?
Cujo
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| Author: | Dickslapp [ Sun Nov 27, 2011 3:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Payment after the deed |
Often I find the girl will push/demand money up front. Anyone have any sure fire ways to make the girl agree to accepting payment after the deed? |
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| Author: | Orange [ Sun Nov 27, 2011 3:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Payment after the deed |
Dickslapp wrote: Anyone have any sure fire ways to make the girl agree to accepting payment after the deed? Yeah. Saying "Do you want me to call you a taxi or will you be walking back to Del Rey?" seems to work wonders. For me, there is no compromise with this. I will never pay up front again. It may turn out ok, but the chance is too high that she will lose all her interest in pleasing you once she has secured the cash. I will go as far as showing her the cash and the putting it back in my wallet. And then if it's still even a hint of an issue, NEXT! You need to be in control of the situation at all times or you will be eaten alive by these conniving pros. |
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| Author: | Ready4fun2006 [ Sun Nov 27, 2011 8:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Payment after the deed |
I have been to Costa Rica several times over the last year or so, and I only had one girl (out of maybe 40 to 50) ask for the money up front. She was happy with seeing the money on the dresser and her performance was very good. I am kind of curious as to how many guys this happens to - since it hasn't really been an issue for me. |
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| Author: | Rover [ Sun Nov 27, 2011 9:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Payment after the deed |
Never has happened to me....yet. Many trips Many girls |
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| Author: | SinCity [ Sun Nov 27, 2011 11:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Payment after the deed |
Dickslapp wrote: Often I find the girl will push/demand money up front. Anyone have any sure fire ways to make the girl agree to accepting payment after the deed? I tell them that I never pay beforehand & she will get paid afterwards if she holds up her end of the deal. If still at a standoff I turn off the lights, open the hotel room door & say let's go, I headin back to the sl or dr to find someone else. If they're so insistent on being paid upfront, I don't want'em anymore-probably a scammer/bad performer. |
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| Author: | Zunbake3 [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 12:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Payment after the deed |
Does not seem like a problem anymore! |
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| Author: | Medellin Paisa [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 1:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Payment after the deed |
Ready4fun2006 wrote: I have been to Costa Rica several times over the last year or so, and I only had one girl (out of maybe 40 to 50) ask for the money up front. She was happy with seeing the money on the dresser and her performance was very good. I once had an experience when I was staying at La Amistad where I left the money on the dresser that still makes me laugh. I was on top of the chica doing my thing when turned my head to one side & saw the chica reaching with a free hand for some of the bills. I didn't know whether to start laughing about how "sneaky" she was or get really pissed off so I just flipped her over so I could keep an eye on her. I never put the money on the dresser ever again! Lesson learned! If the chica does not have enough confidence in you to know that you will pay her you will probably not have a good session. Medellin Es Una Chimba! |
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| Author: | K-Paxian [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 1:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Payment after the deed |
Never pay up front. I will show them I have cash but not give it to them or put it out on display. If they insist, the no money paid, not even for a damn taxi. If they want the money up front, that is a red flag that the service is going to less than desired. |
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| Author: | Cujo's [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 1:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Payment after the deed |
Pay..??? What is all this pay stuff you guys talkin' about? Cujo |
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| Author: | Nhhank [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 3:12 pm ] |
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Cujo'S wrote: Pay..??? Por supeusto  What is all this pay after stuff you guys talkin' about? Cujo You Block head RTFF |
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| Author: | Spock [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 3:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Payment after the deed |
K-Paxian wrote: Never pay up front. I will show them I have cash but not give it to them or put it out on display. If they insist, the no money paid, not even for a damn taxi. If they want the money up front, that is a red flag that the service is going to less than desired. +1. ONE time I had the girl ask up front. I showed her the cash and put it WAY out of reach at the far end of the room furthest away from the door and got down to business. No problem from that point on. She explained to me that sometimes the gringo doesn't HAVE the $$$ and that's why she asks up front. Both of us happy, no problem. 
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| Author: | K-Paxian [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 10:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Payment after the deed |
One time my pay-up-front-girl said she needed it now before she takes her clothes off. I asked her why and she said because it was $100. I reminded her we agreed on $60 and she started to get pissy. So I booted her and ended up with her giving me a deaths head glare the rest of my trip. Just more evidence that payment up front will result in poor, rushed service. Phuckit, yes she was very hot and had a slamming body but I don't want a 10 that lies there and keeps asking where is your leche, papi? |
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| Author: | Miamiheller [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 11:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Payment after the deed |
Dickslapp wrote: Often I find the girl will push/demand money up front. Anyone have any sure fire ways to make the girl agree to accepting payment after the deed? Easy. You say, "NEXT!". I've noticed this situation usually happens when: 1) the chica doesn't know you and you haven't taken the time to develop a little chemistry before pulling the trigger 2) she is a hardened merc (in which case I will stay away anyway - not my type) OR 3) you are somewhere where normal business practice is to charge the customer up front (e.g. an MP) When a chica demands payment up front, I typically stop whatever we were doing and politely tell her, "We are done. Bye", then see her to the door. When you do this, 9 times out of 10 the chica will relent, say "I'm sorry", then tell you some story about how she's gotten ripped off before by customers who, having done the deed, give her some story about going to the ATM to get her money and never come back. Even so, I usually cancel the deal anyway unless she is EXTREMELY remorseful and demonstrates how remorseful she is.  No matter how hot she is or how horny I am - it's a matter of principle. Someone on this board recently posted a great line he uses when asked for payment up front - he pulls out the cash, puts it somewhere visible and tells the chica, "You see that money? That money is mine until I leche. After that, it's yours."  Wish I remembered who it was so I can credit him properly.mh |
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| Author: | Cujo's [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 12:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Payment after the deed |
I think stripping away the business aura is always the best way to go despite it being business.. Any sort of abrupt "time to go" regardless if she relents puts an ugly energy in the air. One of the biggest reasons can be because a female doesnt know you, (take at least sum time) to at least ease her mind and show your there for a good time. I think a big problem can be if the encounter is a meet/greet off to the room in 10 minutes etc.. I mean, having to take money out and actually put it on the table should not only feel mongerish as hell, but the absolute last resort.. There is no right or wrong way and we all have our ways and this would be mine. When a chica gets ugly don't make her feel bad, make her embarrassed  Cujo |
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| Author: | Zunbake3 [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 2:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Payment after the deed |
My experience in the States was with Craiglsit only during the heyday of Craigslist. Since it is illegal I would always leave an envelope out when the girl come into my house and tell her that envelope there is for you before she took her clothes off. Just some legal protection in case of a police sting. of course in CR since it is legal there should be no rpoblems with pago despues. |
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