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The "don't pay up front" rule is bullshit
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Author:  TheUnderdog [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 10:42 pm ]
Post subject:  The "don't pay up front" rule is bullshit
What really matters is that you treat them right and make it very clear in the negotiation everything you want.

I always tell them I like non rushed experiences, 2 hours or so. If they react positively with something like "sure! no problem!" then I take her and it doesn't really matter if I pay up front or not. If she hesitates for a second then I look for other one.

When I was starting out I used to tell them that I didn't pay upfront and always got negative reactions. It kind of killed the mood.

I am tico though, so I guess this is a "gringo" rule, but it doesn't make sense to me.

The experience you get is a result of her personality, you smelling and looking good, you treating them right, negotiating and making it very clear what you want.
Author:  Juilliano [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 11:36 pm ]
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I'll politely disagree. My mama always said, "Cuando el musico cobra adelantado, no toca bien". So far she's been right on. It's not quantum physics, square root of pi, rocket science or anything like that, just a fact of life. You mentioned that you are a tico, so that might be working on your favor, and I say might lightly. Telling them that you don't pay up from killed the mood?? Once the money is in her hands there's no mood, you're at her mercy. Thats all Im gonna say about that.....
Author:  K-Paxian [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 11:40 pm ]
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Well my experience is 50/50 with paying up front. I've been scammed half the time when I pay up front - I get told oh baby I'm going to rock your world, with lots of details, then after I pay, here come "the rules" which immediately turn things cold. That's my experience so far - so yours may differ from mine. I'm always nice, a gentleman, have immaculate hygiene, and sweet talk them well, but half the time, when they insist on payment upfront - they're a shark, a liar and take full advantage of you. So I never pay up front anymore.
Author:  BlueDevil [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 4:03 am ]
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Quote:
I am tico though, so I guess this is a "gringo" rule, but it doesn't make sense to me.


I'm 1/4 tico, so should I put 25% down, and pay the remaining 75% after the session? :wink: BTW, I've never paid up front. :|
Author:  50strokes [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 7:58 am ]
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Unless she is your regular. Do not! I repeat! Do Not! Pay up front! Please?



fiddie
:shock:
Author:  Orange [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 10:08 am ]
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TheUnderdog wrote:
If they react positively with something like "sure! no problem!" then I take her and it doesn't really matter if I pay up front or not.

Ohhhhh, if she says "sure, no problem" without blinking than we should believe her!!! Silly me, I thought there was a possibility she may just be saying that to get a guy to take her. But they never lie, so I stand corrected. I just had an epiphany, I will change my whole approach. :roll:

GRINGO OR TICO, NEVER PAY UPFRONT...
Author:  Papa Smerff [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 11:51 am ]
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Do you pay up front in a cab?
Do you pay up front for a meal?
When shopping do you give the money to the cashier first.
And what happens when you go to the casino and put your money down first.
Most of the time they take it and give you nothing in return.
Good things do not happen when you pay first.
Author:  WordWiz [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 12:07 pm ]
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rule no. 1 if you pay up front you will get burnt and are a moron
rule no. 2 see rule no. 1
Author:  Xman00 [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 12:13 pm ]
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"When shopping do you give the money to the cashier first."

YES when I am buying a ice cream cone, But it really messes up the cashier and there directions from the Bossman , but holding onto a cone and dealing with money at the same time is asking for problems IMHO --- and so is paying a lady first.

Also what about paying her before you get married? Would you Give her every thing you own before the wedding (maybe you will avoid that messy divorce that way) No you wait until the divorce, then divide up everything into two equal parts and then give her both half's
Author:  Irish Drifter [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 12:20 pm ]
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Papa Smerff wrote:
Do you pay up front for a meal?


At most fast food outlets yes. :lol: So pay a chica up front you can expect fast service. :P
Author:  Irish Drifter [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 12:24 pm ]
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50strokes wrote:
Unless she is your regular. Do not! I repeat! Do Not! Pay up front! Please?



fiddie
:shock:


Why would a "regular" ask for the money upfront? The main reason chicas ask for pre-payment is the concern for getting all the agreed on money. Should not be a concern of a "regular"
Author:  50strokes [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 1:53 pm ]
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Because you already know that yo regular is going to take care of yo bidness when the time comes! Plus she got her mama, abuelo, abuela, those bebes need ropa and stuff for escuela, the sick cousin, sick aunt, sick somebody in the family that needs her help. It dont hurt to give your regular up front payment cause you trust that she will do right by you when it is time to do the nasty dance.

Last but not least. Regulars dont want anybody else to get the leche, lingerie, or the benjamins before they do!

fitty
ryhmes wit titty

:shock:
Author:  Thirdworld [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 2:09 pm ]
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I would say a regular asking you for upfront is a slap in the face. "I don't trust you". BUT, it is important before going back to the room to let her know, have her repeat it to be sure, that you will not pay her up front. I don't have a problem if a chica demands this, it is her right. But no need in us wasting each other's time.
Author:  Irish Drifter [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 2:11 pm ]
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50strokes wrote:
Because you already know that yo regular is going to take care of yo bidness when the time comes! Plus she got her mama, abuelo, abuela, those bebes need ropa and stuff for escuela, the sick cousin, sick aunt, sick somebody in the family that needs her help. It dont hurt to give your regular up front payment cause you trust that she will do right by you when it is time to do the nasty dance.



That a whole lot different "upfront payment" then this thread is about.
Author:  50strokes [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 2:26 pm ]
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ID for me it is the same. My regular is a hookah too! She is hustling me just like the rest of her clients. All da time. There is no break in the hustle. Just different people being hustled. That is the game we play in CR. Even your regular is a working girl when you in or out of town or not around unless things have changed in CR! LOL! Probably more RFM then at any other time in the history of CR right now!

That being said she is only slightly more dependable than the random CR chica asking for pay up front.

mi dos centavos no mas

fifthy
:shock:
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