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Any problems bringing in gifts for the girls such as Perfumes and clothing and most important of all...toys

gifts are for special girls who have earned them.

Propinas are in no way required. If you feel like it, great. If you would rather just deal in cash, they go for that, too.

I've taken the advice from the board and I have taken all of the items mentioned in this thread and given them out. The girls do like them but then again...They like cash too.

At any rate recently I started thinking more about the practice of gifting. I think it is also possible that in giving stuff like this away we re-enforce the notion that we are to be used for what they can get out of us. There are as many views on this as there are mongers. To each his own. I suspect I'll continue to give things to the girls I really like or the ones that are outstanding in the way of performance. That's just the kind of guy I am.

Having said that though I think we need to think about how we want the girls to view us...As someone to be manipulated for gain or as guys that are cool to hang out with and party with when we are in town. I think it is a delicate balancing act. Just my 2 cents.

KenLee

Author:	TomRG [ Sat Sep 12, 2009 11:45 am ]
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Any problems bringing in gifts for the girls such as Perfumes and clothing and most important of all...toys

Author:	SnapperTrapper [ Sat Sep 12, 2009 12:00 pm ]
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TomRG wrote: Any problems bringing in gifts for the girls such as Perfumes and clothing and most important of all...toys None at all, bring them chocolates. They love chocolates and it doesnâ€™t have to be anything special. Hershey chocolate will do the trick but make sure you bring plenty.

Author:	JazzboCR [ Sat Sep 12, 2009 8:33 pm ]
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This whole topic (and propinas too) has been debated here repeatedly and heatedly. Me, I say do what you want though I think it's undeniably true that over-gifting and overtipping adds an inflation factor and can lead to begging for tips. The gist of the no/ minimal tipping argument is as I said the price and expectation inflation, which hits the Brothers living here especially those on fixed incomes particularly hard. That said, a small appropriate gift to an outstanding performer is surely OK. Other suggestions for gifts have included Victoria's Secret panties which are frequently on sale on their Website, and inexpensive vibrators. "Search" this Topic for other suggestions and consider a cash tip or gift, but not both--a sense of proportion here please.

Author:	LocoHombre [ Sat Sep 12, 2009 9:05 pm ]
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TomRG wrote: Any problems bringing in gifts for the girls such as Perfumes and clothing and most important of all...toys i brought a few old Tickle Me Elmo dolls, they were a hit

Author:	LAdiablo [ Sat Sep 12, 2009 9:57 pm ]
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unless you know what perfume the girl wears its kind of silly. and buying clothes? idk about you but that has never worked out for me. at least unless the were standing there looking at them. chocolates have a no fail factor i agree

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Author:	CLN20 [ Sun Sep 13, 2009 12:33 am ]
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On 5 trips, I've never given a single gift, and have always had a good time, so I'm against it.

Author:	El Ornitorrinco [ Sun Sep 13, 2009 7:27 am ]
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I find that they always appreciate images of dead presidents.

Author:	Pacifica55 [ Sun Sep 13, 2009 6:31 pm ]
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Just my opinion, but gifts are for special girls who have earned them. They are not to buy special favor with. A gift should always be linked to what she did to earn it or the message is lost (she thinks you just like to give things away...muy tonto!). Little "pocket-rocket" style vibes are a hit, don't cost much and are more fun than watching her unwrap Hershey's Kisses and expand. Victoria Secret panties can be had at 5/$20 or such. Just buy the thongs ("strings" I think they call them) and "small" is generally correct. The VS lip gloss tubes are also big winners and they like the pinks more than the reds, about 5/$20. Again, don't dump your load of goodies on the bed and let her take her pick. She'll pick most of it and you'll have to fight to get half of it back. Instead, choose a gift for her while she showers and give it to her because she looked so nice with goober on her chin, not just because "she's hot, gosh". For extended stays: I bought a large stuffed animal. They grabbed it every time they entered the room. I told them I was going to give it to a special girl before I left. Didn't let go of it for several weeks and several girls were in the running. Propinas are in no way required. If you feel like it, great. If you would rather just deal in cash, they go for that, too.

Author:	Mike321 [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 12:21 am ]
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Special girls get special gifts,but i always bring little gift bags with some candy and a pair of VS panties and hand them out pretty freely.I give them to staff, girls i know and have/have not sessioned with+ some girls i run into a lot and are always friendly not pushy. Maybe i'm a fool but it spreads a lot of good will.

Author:	J0sie [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 1:11 pm ]
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Pacifica55 wrote: gifts are for special girls who have earned them. Propinas are in no way required. If you feel like it, great. If you would rather just deal in cash, they go for that, too. Agree. Unless she is favorita or novia, which I always take something, they do not get anything unless a spectacular experience.

Author:	Santas Bro [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 1:41 pm ]
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Aren't multiple orgasms enough???

Author:	Cujo's [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 2:50 pm ]
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Good advice here. Yea, don't worry about little gifts or trinkets unless you specifically know a girl. Every trip I take I buy a new Tommy Hilfiger throw blanket (really soft). At the end of every trip I usually spray some cologne on it and give it to a chica I feel will appreciate it. So far every time I have done this small gesture it was better received then any perfume or lingerie would in my opinion... Cujo

Author:	KenLee [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 2:52 pm ]
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I've taken the advice from the board and I have taken all of the items mentioned in this thread and given them out. The girls do like them but then again...They like cash too. At any rate recently I started thinking more about the practice of gifting. I think it is also possible that in giving stuff like this away we re-enforce the notion that we are to be used for what they can get out of us. There are as many views on this as there are mongers. To each his own. I suspect I'll continue to give things to the girls I really like or the ones that are outstanding in the way of performance. That's just the kind of guy I am. Having said that though I think we need to think about how we want the girls to view us...As someone to be manipulated for gain or as guys that are cool to hang out with and party with when we are in town. I think it is a delicate balancing act. Just my 2 cents. KenLee

Author:	SnapperTrapper [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 3:02 pm ]
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KenLee wrote: I've taken the advice from the board and I have taken all of the items mentioned in this thread and given them out. The girls do like them but then again...They like cash too. At any rate recently I started thinking more about the practice of gifting. I think it is also possible that in giving stuff like this away we re-enforce the notion that we are to be used for what they can get out of us. There are as many views on this as there are mongers. To each his own. I suspect I'll continue to give things to the girls I really like or the ones that are outstanding in the way of performance. That's just the kind of guy I am. Having said that though I think we need to think about how we want the girls to view us...As someone to be manipulated for gain or as guys that are cool to hang out with and party with when we are in town. I think it is a delicate balancing act. Just my 2 cents. KenLee Spot on! And that is why cheap chocolates are the way to go in my opinion.

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Author:	J0sie [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 3:05 pm ]
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KenLee wrote: I've taken the advice from the board and I have taken all of the items mentioned in this thread and given them out. The girls do like them but then again...They like cash too. At any rate recently I started thinking more about the practice of gifting. I think it is also possible that in giving stuff like this away we re-enforce the notion that we are to be used for what they can get out of us. There are as many views on this as there are mongers. To each his own. I suspect I'll continue to give things to the girls I really like or the ones that are outstanding in the way of performance. That's just the kind of guy I am. Having said that though I think we need to think about how we want the girls to view us...As someone to be manipulated for gain or as guys that are cool to hang out with and party with when we are in town. I think it is a delicate balancing act. Just my 2 cents. KenLee I think you spend way to much time with Cujo. On your next trip, do this experiment. Show up to the HDR, what the heck, any MP also included. Announce that you are there to have sex without paying for it. Let me know how that goes. How they see us? Can you spell ATM? OKâ€¦just busting your chops but this is P4P. We pay they spread. Anything in between is just for our fantasy. Never forget that.