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Author:  Brendanowens [ Tue May 12, 2009 11:05 pm ]
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You were right. I said, I'm going back to CR and just come back and that's it, move on. But I can't. I came back 2 weeks ago, and as soon as I came back I bought my plane ticket to leave june 11th to june 14th. Also, I have noticed myself not caring about the women here at all. I have noticed how horrible the gringas here are.

Author:  Klockman [ Tue May 12, 2009 11:07 pm ]
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Brendanowens wrote:
I have noticed myself not caring about the women here at all.


That's one of the biggest effects of this hobby. For me it's not an issue of not caring as much as I simply have no patience. I can date, no problemo. But the moment she comments on my condo, my job, my car, my well, anything. Then it's toodles!

And I come home and start sourcing flights

Author:  Brendanowens [ Tue May 12, 2009 11:22 pm ]
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Exactly bro! I 'm tired of taking a woman out, buying dinner, etc. I'm pretty young, late 20s, and I in the process of going through a divorce. I 'm glad it's going over amicably and I don't have to pay up any Ch*ld support ( no K*ds ) or alimony. Sometimes I think there's something wrong with me and CR has just ruined it for all the gringas here lol.. I don't even go out to any clubs anymore, just saying, for what? Waste money buying girls drinks to just get a phone number? I've become numb.

Author:  Cujo's [ Tue May 12, 2009 11:28 pm ]
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Damn, more gringa bashing :cry:

Cujo

Author:  Brendanowens [ Tue May 12, 2009 11:43 pm ]
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I know, but i've come to realize that it's all for nothing here.

Author:  Nhhank [ Wed May 13, 2009 12:13 am ]
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I will add fuel to this fire SL today at 4:30 17 chicas 4 hombres
Karin and Pamella in adendance I was just waiting for 3 guys to leave....

Author:  Livincr [ Wed May 13, 2009 12:28 am ]
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you young guys need to work more....afterwords you'll appreciate how great this place is

Author:  Dean [ Wed May 13, 2009 12:48 am ]
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Brendanowens wrote:
Also, I have noticed myself not caring about the women here at all. I have noticed how horrible the gringas here are.


I have found some positive effects. I simply tell ladies how happy (with out the details) I am being single and if they want to have a sexual relationship, I'm ok with it (Why do I think the fact that my being happy is something they want to ruin?). If not, no problem. I am actually getting some good responses. But, even with that said, I agree, they are still gringas. Their neediness is greatly outweighed by a ticas need to make some money and fulfill a guys simple sexual needs (or fantasies).

Author:  Rainman3 [ Wed May 13, 2009 8:44 am ]
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Brendanowens wrote:
Exactly bro! I 'm tired of taking a woman out, buying dinner, etc. I'm pretty young, late 20s, and I in the process of going through a divorce. I 'm glad it's going over amicably and I don't have to pay up any Ch*ld support ( no K*ds ) or alimony. Sometimes I think there's something wrong with me and CR has just ruined it for all the gringas here lol.. I don't even go out to any clubs anymore, just saying, for what? Waste money buying girls drinks to just get a phone number? I've become numb.


Breandan,

If you think it is bad here now than wait and see how intolerable it becomes after you have spent time in Colombia. This hobby has a way of changing the way you view things and can very quickly become an allout addiction.

Im 43 yo have a good business, nice home and very bright future but all my efforts here in the States are focused on my work and family. There is no way I can go to Medellin for 2-3 weeks and spend time with gorgeous 18-23 yo Paisa cuties and than return home and be content with some 40 plus yo gringas and the myriad of baggage that comes with them. Thanks but no gracias ! I prefer to just book and plan my next trip, work on my Spanish and focus my efforts here on my work.

You have to be very careful and stay focused or you will quickly lose sight of everything else and be 100% concentrated on "the hobby". I am very lucky because I am in a situation that allows me the money and time to travel frequently, albeit not as often as I would like. I know that there are many CRT brothers here who would love to have my situation and believe me I know how lucky I am.

Anyone else have any ideals on how to maintain focus when stuck here in the good ole US of A ?????????

8) 8) 8)

Author:  El Ciego [ Wed May 13, 2009 2:07 pm ]
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Hey Brendan... Yes, I was right, but my sentiments certainly are not original. I was warned in advance by those who preceded me to Latin America to find hot sex. :D

Fact is, gringas can be a lot of fun, but you can't play their game. Now thankfully, you don't have to. If the pressure in your loins gets too intense, you can blow off steam with a chica instead of trying to find gringa company.

Don't blame the gringas. The way they behave toward is a product of their conditioning but also of our behavior as immasculated males. We've turned over the power to them and are now regretting it.

What I find amazing is how much easier it has become for me to score non-p4p gringas here. They seem to sense my total lack of desperation, and it intrigues them. I was just hit on, yes, hit on by a lovely woman in her early 20's (and I'm a fat, blind 51). My newly-acquired "take it or leave it" attitude has put some gringas on notice that a.) I can't be manipulated b.) I['m sexually satisfied, therefore probably competent and c.) choosy. In other words, C.R. mongering has helped me regrow my testicles, and the gringas around me can sense it.

Naw, gringas ain't bad. You just have to be a stronger man than whtat they've become accustomed to. :idea:

Author:  Cujo's [ Wed May 13, 2009 3:42 pm ]
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El Ciego wrote:


What I find amazing is how much easier it has become for me to score non-p4p gringas here. They seem to sense my total lack of desperation, and it intrigues them.


Indifference even in Costa Rica can go a long way :idea:

Cujo

Author:  Ace [ Wed May 13, 2009 5:18 pm ]
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You have good insight Brendan.

Author:  Miamiheller [ Wed May 13, 2009 5:44 pm ]
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El Ciego wrote:
Hey Brendan... Yes, I was right, but my sentiments certainly are not original. I was warned in advance by those who preceded me to Latin America to find hot sex. :D

Fact is, gringas can be a lot of fun, but you can't play their game. Now thankfully, you don't have to. If the pressure in your loins gets too intense, you can blow off steam with a chica instead of trying to find gringa company.

Don't blame the gringas. The way they behave toward is a product of their conditioning but also of our behavior as immasculated males. We've turned over the power to them and are now regretting it.

What I find amazing is how much easier it has become for me to score non-p4p gringas here. They seem to sense my total lack of desperation, and it intrigues them. I was just hit on, yes, hit on by a lovely woman in her early 20's (and I'm a fat, blind 51). My newly-acquired "take it or leave it" attitude has put some gringas on notice that a.) I can't be manipulated b.) I['m sexually satisfied, therefore probably competent and c.) choosy. In other words, C.R. mongering has helped me regrow my testicles, and the gringas around me can sense it.

Naw, gringas ain't bad. You just have to be a stronger man than whtat they've become accustomed to. :idea:


It's not just gringas. It's any woman who lives in the States, regardless of origin or ethnicity. I find it also carries over to the P4P scene here.

My local "harem" has noted the "fock it - I can't be bothered with your crap" attitude I brought back from my first CR trip last month. Not only are they intrigued... they are upset and jealous ("Do you have a g/f now? Is that why you won't answer my calls anymore?").

It's good to feel like a man again.

Author:  Beachbumm2006 [ Wed May 13, 2009 7:18 pm ]
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At the end of the day it comes to confidence. Sure having a large pocket of money but I think you attract more women (working and non working) when you have a spine. A lot of good can come from that. From price to level of performance. That doesn't mean you act like a doucshe bag but you don't act like a pushover either. You can be a gentleman and still be strong.

After my last trip to CR, I stopped putting the p*ssy on a pedastle and have been with many more women. I would say the problem more than anything is the performance.

The question in my head is, "Am I enjoying the women more in CR than civilian women because I'm paying them? or because they are actually much better in bed?" Of course I don't have the illusion that I'm Peter North but the last civilian I was with actually asked the question, "Am I doing something wrong?" I was "up" to the task but was lasting too long and she thought she was doing a good job. In CR it would have lasted half the time.

I will continue my study this week...12 more hours till touchdown....

BB

Author:  Berk2302 [ Wed May 13, 2009 8:37 pm ]
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I think the gulch should BAN anyone under the age of 40. Simply because anyone in their late 20's "don't know jack" about what they're getting into... remember ROLLTIDE? :D

Berk....

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