"Do not spend so much time trying to be a monger that you forget to be a lover."
ChiliMike, nobody (inclouding Rainman) said that you need to put up with their drama, bullshit etc. And certainly, no one has suggested getting into a long-term relationship with any of these girls. That isn't the point.
Let me put it another way: Which would *you* rather f*ck:
Hooker A. is nicely dressed, clean, smells great. She is poised, not overtly loud or aggressive, relatively sober. She projects the attitude that she wants to have fun, not that she's desperate for your cash.
Hooker B. doesn't smell that good. She appears to be drunk or high. She's dressed sluttily but not well, and her manner in the HDR is all business, topped with a large dollop of cynicism and a sprinkling of anger.
Newbies: Never forget that money aside, this is in many ways no different from hooking up with a "civilian" (i.e. non-pro) woman. The man/woman dynamics will always be there, money or not.
Yes, she may be screwing you "just for the money." Let's for discussion's sake agree with fellow CRT'er Berk, that it's all about the money. Even if we accept that as truth (and I do not), it should be obvious that the clean, put-together, sober and lighthearted gringo will get more mileage for that money than "Drunk Bob."
BTW, if you as a newbie want to judge the value of any other poster's contributions, read their experiences. I am a rookie, not a newbie...and I still make mistakes. However, I *never* have to pay cien for an hour, I frequently get TLN for amounts ranging from free to around $100.00, and I bat .700 when it comes to getting great (not just "okay") performances from my chica-friends.
