One of the most common "problems" treated by sex therapists is so-called premature ejaculation. Here are a couple points that might help.
1. As stated above, the average time from entry into the vagina until ejaculation for most men is around five minutes or so.
* Porn movies are definitely not a case of "what you see is what really happened." The director frequently stops the action to make adjustments to camera angle, etc. So, what appears to be fifteen minutes of hard banging might actually have been a half dozen cuts.
* Desensitizing creams, including the original Monsieur Prolong work well for some guys. Don't overdo it; a little dab will do ya...
* One commonly prescribed technique is called "the squeeze technique," or "the pinch n' stuff." As you feel yourself approaching the point of no return, pull out and squeeze just below the head of the penis with a finger pressing very firmly against the frenulum (the indentation at the base of the mushroom). Once the urgent feeling has gone away (along with some of the hardness), stuff it back into her, relax a moment until you get hard again and pump away.
* As others have so wisely said here, remember that she is a.) your employee for the hour and b.) not a woman you need to impress. As long as you're having fun and getting value, that's all that counts!
