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hey fellas. 32 year old professional here...first timer.

Lets say, for arguments sake, that I don't want to deal with strippers/working girls every night and try my hand at picking up a nice local chick? I'm a good looking guy, in great shape, and do well with the women in the United States, but need a change of pace. Do the local ticas dig American guys, given that they are attractive and in shape?

I plan on going in april or may. I may need a wing since every guy my age is married with 3 K*ds and a biatchy wife that won't let them come out for a beer let alone go on vacation!

I have run into numerous guys in your situation who wanted to focus on non-woking girls. I told them not to be too sure that a girl who is receptive to you isn't a working girl. In several instances the guys admitted that they went some place like El Pueblo and found girls who were interested but once they got back to the room, the girls would ask for money.

These girls are good actresses. Unless you want a long-term girlfriend (DANGER) the general concensus on CRT seems to be that with some game you can pick up non-working girls, but why look for your fish in the sea when you can shoot fish in a barrel. With limited time in CR, you might end up wishing you spent more of your hard-earned vacation phucking than playing the game.

How is your Spanish? If you don't speak the language, your chances of picking up a non-working girl drop. Sure, you may have some success finding a girl who seems like a non-pro, but don't be pissed when she asks for some cash to pay for her son's operation (apparently, all Ch*ldren and grandmother's in costa rica need operations ).

This subject has been discussed here many times. There is no total definative answer; it depends on a lot of variables- As mentioned by CG and CR, and to be trueful, there is almost no such thing as a totally non pro. Atleast not that a guy is likely to find without being proficiant in espanol, having some local contacts, and knowing the local culture. Even then your quoted good looks, age and 'game' with the women will not mean nearly as much here as in the states. Chicas generally are not as hung up on those things as in the states. And yes many "dig" americans--they dig your wealth- and they tend to associate wealth with age. Thus many older guys actually do better with the chicas than younger ones; not always the case, but frequently.

In the San Jose area, the odds of finding a chica that will not ask for money at some point is nil. The culture and costumbres are such that most have no problem requesting money from the 'rich' gringo, even if they have never worked the REY/KL or a MP. And here, those that have not ever worked those venues are very rare or very young (illegal). If you do find a sweet young thing that does not directly ask for money, she will in all probability "fall in love with you the first day (or night)" and be ready to get married the next day. WHO NEEDS THAT DRAMA?

Just stay with the pros and simi pros; atleast for your first few trips down here. AND DO NOT FALL IN LOVE WITH ONE. Many have and many have regretted it (and yes a few have not, but very few). just my 2 cents worth

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Hey new guy, welcome aboard. How long are you going to CR? If you do well with the ladies in the US, and have a problem forking over between $3.50 and $300 (I recall the September TOTM allegedly asking that price, wonder if anyone paid it) to get laid, I would encourage you to enjoy the natural beauty, tours, and fishing of CR. Unless you speak Spanish fluently I think the odds are stacked against you tremdously in finding a non-pro to romance. And even if you do, it seems all the chicas in and around the gulch see $ signs in Americans.

I would, however, defer to those who responded previously in this matter as their knowledge of, and experiences in, CR is vastly greater than mine.

I did great with only basic spanish, if your conversational is decent and you find a girl with basic english (pretty easy if you hang out in the college areas) you can do ok.

As for the gulch, that's your first problem... Plenty of non-pros in Pueblo still (even though at least 50% of them are pros). Most of Calle Amargura (college area in San Pedro) will be normal everyday college girls.

There's tons of dance clubs in CR which are havens for hot girls who want to have fun, try any given bar on it's "ladies night" (most offer free drinks for the girls which is great).

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yup i agree with fuze

If you do not speech Spanish very well stick to the working girls. Non working girls take time and money to get into their pants just like gringas. If you are going to be in CR for a short period of time for vacation or monging stick to the pro's and semi pro's in the gulch.
Good luck and be safe!
Zeus

You can meet "normal" girls here if you try. The question is do you want a normal girl? The normal girls here are very self respecting. They are not sex crazed jungle creatures.

Of course, the kind of girl that is going to be attracted to you depends how you look. The average 20 year old latina girl doesn't have fantasies about middle aged bald fat guys. No offense but do you have fantasies about 40 to 50 year old fat women ?

Many of us don't want a "good" girl. Some of us want a "Bad" girl.

My experience has been favorable in terms of meeting some local women. First thing you need to do is stay in a local area on the outskirts of town and meet the locals. I would suggest a minimum of a month stay to even get settled in somewhere and have a chance.

I have meet girls from several shops/stores when staying in certain areas. Speaking spanish is key since these girls are not trained to ask you some ridiculous questions about vacation...blah blah Del Rey ?'s ..B@llsh!t.

Just don't let the local girls know you visit San Jose for the Del Rey, Sportsmans Lodge...MP's etc....major turn off for them. They are "good" girls but will give you the time of your life for some true affection.

Well last suggestion and some great places to meet local women are on the BUS...yes the bus and Spanish=FREE....Grocery Store (Pali)......Bakery (Mus Mani)......Local Pizza Place.......Internet Cafe.......Local Bar.......Friends Girlfriend hooked me up with her sister....All non working girls from local community.

It is possible, depends what you want. I still also like the MP 4 blocks from the apartment also....ZB...NF.....etc....

I can say that once you get a local girl that wants you for real.....you will know it.

That was one of my thoughts. Do I really want a local girl to fall in "love" with me. God forbid you decide to break it off. You haven't seen jealously until you've experienced Latin girl jealously.

Getting seriously involved with a local tica is like driving an 18 wheeler up a curvy one way road. It's easy to drive up there but trying to reverse is a real bitch.

Not true actually. My ex-novia is not now nor has she ever been a hooker, and beyond fronting her a little bit of blackjack money when we went gambling, never asked for money. Those of you who know whom I'm talking about I believe can corroborate me on this.

I don't see anything wrong with the original poster giving this a shot if he's so inclined. Sure, speaking Spanish helps, but the better educated girls are more likely to speak some English as well. You may want to contact someone like Chi-Trekker to show you around to some of the better nightlife venues outside the gulch.

Buena suerte!

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It's a bit harder to find girls for a "one night" that aren't pros or semi-pros. Like in the states, you gotta have game (but the game is different here, most tico men are nothing but macho jerks, so you can go a long way by being nice, but not a pushover... they don't respect people they can walk on because of the culture).

If you have some time, you can get pretty far in a relatively short period (a few days to a few weeks) but meeting girls for same night sex is far less common.

That's not to say that tica's are stuck up, or hung up about sex, but they do like to know a guy before jumping in bed with them. Ticas are, on average, much more sexual than gringas in my experience, and a lot less hung up on it (though finding non-pros that will do more pervy stuff is rough).

GetRythem
Sorry, I inadvertly left out a word in my last post that you quoted and justifyable took issue with. I t should have read ' is "almost" nil'



Now to back up some of what I and others have posted here; I have not posted for the past 2&1/2 days because (and I am bragging) I have just spent about 60 fantastic, unbelievable hours in bed with a 32 year old nympho from Guapiles. And, yes, this 'old man' is about dead

A few points about meeting her, getting to know her, and how the relation developed: Actually met her on a dating site. chatted with her (in espanol) on the internet for a couple of hours. She is an office manager, educated, and intellegent. Her early comments included; "do no chat with gringos because they are arrogant and want to write in english which I do not understand"; " I have no problem with age differences as long as the guy has a good heart and loves uninhibited sex"; " I am looking for a husband, but till I find him, I want a very sexual guy to have fun with". "Looks are not that important; the heart and how the guy treats me is what is important"

So far, she has not asked for a penny; infact she would not even let me give her taxi money to the Guapiles bus stop nor money for the bus back to Guapiles. But I am a synical old fart;;still think that at some point the request will raise its ugly head And yes, after only a few hours, she brought up the subject of living together and marriage--not even in the rim of possibility Will I go back for another wild ride? Hell YES, at least till she pushes the relationship button tooo many times

Guess the points are: IF you look hard enough, you can find a non pro chica. You really stand little chance if you do not speak atleast conversational spanish. Educated intelligent chicas do exist and are to be found if you look. Thou I agree that with most non pros, age difference is a facter; many do not have a problem with the guy even being older than their father, Many are looking for a father figure. They tend to fall in "love with Love" very quickly. There are some that, thou never a pro, are just as sexually liberal as the DR putas. As long as you keep your senses and do not "fall' into her trap, you can have a ball with some non pros.

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Most of this discussion is pretty basic for humanity. If you are young and "attractive", you will have an easier time meeting young and attractive members of the opposite sex. If you have game in the USA, it will work in Latin America. At the same time, you might find you need to not only understand the language, but the culture as well. You can be conversational, but still come off as an "ugly gringo" if you assume a superior position with Latina women. They also tend to run in packs of girlfriends and even guy friends...so they wont usually just run away with you to your hotel room one you've hooked them. You're going to have to "play the game".

In my younger days when I moved and live in Mexico 3 years, I was able to date alot and get further sexually than the local guys could...if only because many of these women were curious about "gringos". BUT...they also can be very jealous, clingy, demanding and with expectations. Thats why the old saying in CR and elsewhere..."We dont pay for sex...we pay them to go away AFTER sex". So...ya just gotta decide what kind of game you want to hunt. You'll pay something either way...in time and dating costs...or bedside clock watching. You decide...

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