www.CostaRicaTicas.com
https://forum.costaricaticas.com/

lowered expectations
https://forum.costaricaticas.com/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=20027
Page 1 of 3

Author:  Oblique1 [ Wed Nov 07, 2007 9:17 pm ]
Post subject:  lowered expectations

Just got here so maybe I need some educating but I ASKED the Columbiana I met at the BM if she would give me an unrushed GFE and do EVERYTHING when we went upstairs. So, once we got up to the room at the DR, she started to rush, then when I asked for Greek she went f%CKING ballistic, spat at me, kicked me, told me I needed to talk to her God, etc. etc. All the while I'm telling her to gTF out. Then she threatens to have some columbian brothers cut my throat. I had tossed $40 her way which was more than she deserved because, in my opinion, this is complete BS. I have enjoyed this style with every girlfriend I have ever had and not sure why a whore thinks itś above her to do what sheś paid to do. What blows my mind too is the DR security staff who look so cool in their suits but arent too concerned with someone who is so drastic. Sheś plying her wares at the BM again after using up all my towels.

'm trying to cool out and am pretty calm about it, having another $2 Budweiser equivalent but am a little freaked out and considering saying hasta manana to San Jose and taking in the beach scene at Jaco as the hole wild sex scene here seems a little grim. I might just take another crack at a spinner and cool it instead with the three orifice tag but is a bit disappointing as a newbie.

Any advice' :(

Author:  Orange [ Wed Nov 07, 2007 9:33 pm ]
Post subject: 

That sucks, but I wouldn't give up so easily. You had one bad chica. It happens to everybody.

A couple of things... you should always bring up things like GFE (kissing, slow, etc.) and anal ahead of time, before you get up to the room.

And secondly, maybe try finding a good looking Tica instead of a over-priced, over-inflated-ego, full-of-attitude Colombiana.

Author:  Spanky [ Wed Nov 07, 2007 9:38 pm ]
Post subject: 

You picked a hardcore Columbian. That would be mistake #1 right out the shoot. Not to say that the Colubmiana's are horrible, I've enjoyed a few, however, they aren't for newbies.

Mistake #2 was you didn't negotiate everything upfront before you got to your room. This is a must no matter if what country she is from. It also leads to a better experience since she knows what you want and you know what she is willing to do or not.

You gotta remember, that the girls are independent and the security at the DR don't care for the most part. The guards provide security, and if she did not steal form you, harm you, or prevent a guest from spending money, it really isn't their problem.

Now with that out of the way. Go find yourself a nice Tica or a Nica, spend a few minutes talking to her and getting to know her. If you feel comfy, discuss what you want ahead of time so you both agree to what will happen and a price. Then go do the mattress mambo with the love of you life for the next hour.

Trust me, you will have a better time the second time around.

Author:  Igualmente [ Wed Nov 07, 2007 9:40 pm ]
Post subject: 

Quote:
secondly, maybe try finding a good looking Tica instead of a over-priced, over-inflated-ego, full-of-attitude Colombiana.

That's just what I thought- hardcore... :?

Find a Tica and start over... :wink:

Iggy... :P

Author:  Berk2302 [ Wed Nov 07, 2007 10:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: lowered expectations

Oblique1 wrote:
Just got here so maybe I need some educating but I ASKED the Columbiana I met at the BM if she would give me an unrushed GFE and do EVERYTHING when we went upstairs. So, once we got up to the room at the DR, she started to rush, then when I asked for Greek she went f%CKING ballistic, spat at me, kicked me, told me I needed to talk to her God, etc. etc. All the while I'm telling her to gTF out. Then she threatens to have some columbian brothers cut my throat. I had tossed $40 her way which was more than she deserved because, in my opinion, this is complete BS. I have enjoyed this style with every girlfriend I have ever had and not sure why a whore thinks itś above her to do what sheś paid to do. What blows my mind too is the DR security staff who look so cool in their suits but arent too concerned with someone who is so drastic. Sheś plying her wares at the BM again after using up all my towels.

'm trying to cool out and am pretty calm about it, having another $2 Budweiser equivalent but am a little freaked out and considering saying hasta manana to San Jose and taking in the beach scene at Jaco as the hole wild sex scene here seems a little grim. I might just take another crack at a spinner and cool it instead with the three orifice tag but is a bit disappointing as a newbie.

Any advice' :(


"O"... brother, you've got alot to learn or you hooked up with a nut case. :? There's a possibility it may just be you when you consider your statement that I "highlighted" in bigger type. You may be "paying", but they're still women. :D

Berk....


Author:  Irish Drifter [ Wed Nov 07, 2007 11:08 pm ]
Post subject: 

Oblique1,

Sorry to say you come of a a newbie who did no research before coming to CR. A few hours reading the posts on this board would have alleviated a lot of the problems you ran into.

That being said don't take to hard amigo and run off to Jaco. One, the girls there are just as hardcore. Two, make the same mistakes the results will be the same.

Hook up with some CRT guys at the HDR or wander over to the Sportsman's Lodge and hook up with an experienced wingman. Spring for a couple drinks and get some solid advice that will pay huge dividends.

Author:  Tman [ Thu Nov 08, 2007 9:37 am ]
Post subject: 

There seems to always be a lot of OVERGENERALIZTION on this board. Especially when it comes to sex, I think we should recognize it is a very personal and sometime private thing. Not every Brazilian likes it in the ass...and some Colombianas probably love anal. One representative of a certain country or race doesnt hold for them all...no more than one heavy, drunk, angry gringo hopefully doesnt represent all of US. I have found women I love or loathe from all nationalities. People are people...

I also think there are often two sides to some of these stories. Not taking away the possibility that this chic was a real bitch and didnt measure up to her sales pitch...but I also think some guys dont know how to treat these ladies to get what they want either. And many of us have big language barriers to make sure they understand what we are wanting. Any of us who have been down here a while have talked to and heard some of these ladies horror stories about their clients as well. So, lets just keep perspective and realize that SOMETIMES the girls are just reacting to our poor attitudes or lack of respect. I'm not saying thats what happened here ( we werent there )...but I know this is the case sometimes.

Another point I have made before that might bear repeating here is...it is difficult to find real GFE with a seasoned hooker. My experience has been generally that GFE comes with newer, fresher chicas who may not have the experience or comfort with various sexual positions or appetites. On the other hand, some of the hard core pros may not be kissy touchy...but some of them know what buttons to push when... DONT BE UNREALISTIC IN YOUR EXPECTATIONS...especially for $50-100.

Author:  Mucho Gusto [ Thu Nov 08, 2007 10:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: lowered expectations

Oblique1 wrote:
Any advice' :(

Here's some advice.

Walk a few blocks to a place called ZONA BLUE. Once you get inside, have a drink, relax, and then do a session with Pamela and Lorena. And make sure you hold on, because you'll be in for the ride of your life.

Trust me.... by the time you're finished and catch your breath, you'll forget all about your "other" experience! :wink:

Author:  TicaFan [ Thu Nov 08, 2007 10:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: lowered expectations

Oblique1 wrote:
when I asked for Greek she went f%CKING ballistic, spat at me, kicked me, told me I needed to talk to her God, etc. etc. All the while I'm telling her to gTF out. Then she threatens to have some columbian brothers cut my throat.



Do Colombianas consider anal disrespectful? I'm not sure what makes them believe they are above it or why should couldn't have pointed to her ass before you went up and said "never" if she was so averse to it. I asked one Colombiana who was all smiles and hand-holdy if she would kiss and give BJ without condom and she went ballistic on me. I was not rude about it, just asking. These are typical questions. So she threw my hands away from her body and yelled how much she hates "phucking Americans". I'm thinking, geez girl, stay off the coke or get out of the business. There's a reason most of them walk around HDR all night long without getting any business.

I'm not sure what to think of Colombianas in SJO. Some guys have had good relationships with them. I remember having one in my room that was stealing and threatened to have me put in jail cause her "brother" works for the police. I told her I'd pay him twice what he makes in a year to put her ass in jail and she shut up.

I think they're mostly just snakes and stuck up c---s.

Author:  PacoLoco [ Thu Nov 08, 2007 10:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: lowered expectations

Pack up and go home, the hookers don't like you! :lol: Forget her and move on, follow the advice posted- remember one bad experience does not a trip make (or something like that)
Oblique1 wrote:
So, once we got up to the room at the DR, she started to rush, then when I asked for Greek she went f%CKING ballistic, spat at me, kicked me, told me I needed to talk to her God, etc. etc. All the while I'm telling her to gTF out. Then she threatens to have some columbian brothers cut my throat.
Well according to Sparkchaser69 that is the perfect unrushed GFE session with a hot Colombiana, hope you saved her # for him! :lol:

Author:  Dapanz1 [ Thu Nov 08, 2007 11:28 am ]
Post subject: 

T-Man, always the voice of reason. Good post. I suggest you go to Idem and ask the manager which girl will do anal. I had a Nica there last Saturday night that was just a freak! Name is Cindy. Really good looking. The third hole really isn't my gig but I would guess she is up for it.

dapanz1

Author:  Cujo's [ Thu Nov 08, 2007 11:34 am ]
Post subject: 

Damn, what terrible luck for a first session. Almost congruent to a virgin getting pregnant after her first time.

Listen, I won't state the obvious and say if you knew the languange, the lower probability you would have of having a bad session (but I just did) :oops:

Good advice given here, I just wish more guys would approach/talk to these girls as if it wasn't just P4P and instead go about it as if you were really trying to pick her up in your own hometown. It makes such a difference in trying to ascertain if she's full of shit or takes it in the shitter :wink:



Cujo

Author:  Terminator [ Thu Nov 08, 2007 11:44 am ]
Post subject: 

Someone told me a similar story about a colombian woman and when she got to the room she wouldn't do what she said she would. Then she told a story of getting columbian gansters after the poor fellow. It seems that this has happened before to other people.

Author:  Tman [ Thu Nov 08, 2007 12:05 pm ]
Post subject: 

If they think they can push you around, they will. Gringos need to get a little more Latino/macho in them and keep the women in line (not meaning physically). These stories also remind me why I dont like taking P4P to my room. If done in a neutral place, there is no room for these "games". Zona Blue and IDEM...sounds like the perfect solution if you cant get the Delrey girls to cooperate.

Page 1 of 3 All times are UTC - 5 hours [ DST ]
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group
https://www.phpbb.com/