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Costa Rica has killed my dating life in the U.S.

I have posted a few times on this site. Last year I spent two months in Costa Rica and dated at least 10 different girls (Note: I did not meet any of these girls in the gulch and never paid them money, although I did monger around three times with other girls in the gulch). These girls were beautiful, sweet, passionate, etc and none has ever asked me for money even eight months later…One has even called me on her dime anxious for me to return (which I will do so for two months in May and June).

I live in Los Angeles and am not even interested in meeting anybody here. I am 35 which is old by some standards here and still very young in Costa Rica. I have girls in America (who I wouldn’t give the time of day in Costa Rica) act above me here. These girls are bitches, fat (by Costa Rica standards), cold, etc. After dating in Latin America, I have become a gringa misogynist. I also see our men sometimes as weak in how they respond to women in America. I even got a phone number of a girl here who was very hot, spoke to her once on the phone afterwards, and lost interest and stopped calling her.

Is there anybody on here that can comment about the dating scene outside the gulch (as opposed to the mongering scene)? I enjoy the mongering for a little while, but the dating scene is awesome and a chance to establish something permanent. Is there anybody that came to Costa Rica (and spent more than a few weeks) and began dating who returned to America and was no longer interested in anybody? Sorry to complain, but I honestly do not know how to date here anymore (and my friends do not understand). I am going to try and learn Spanish down there and continue to spend two months in Costa Rica and other Latin American countries every year. If anybody has any input, I am all ears.

Thanks.

Yeah, same thing happened to me, but it was a while ago, which apparently renders the information, not vaible in the eyes of some of our more "senior members"

Aside for the six month stint in CR (agaoin, about one hundred or so CRT years ago), I had two years living in Panama and dated some nice non-pros. All that time, however, I had this abiding belief that I would eventually marry a ginga. Why I ever thought that is beyond me; but I have come to really rue that mistake.

Even now I have opportunities to date gringas in my own age group and can't even fane interest. I mean they actually wanted attention during the Patriots Colts play-off game

Anyway, if I could offer some advice, it would be this. Find a nice Tica, get hitched and have a bunch of K*ds and leave the mongering to others.
Of course that is just my opinion.......

Harvoolio,

You're 35, mongering is great but don't write off your chances in the states. There are lots of latinas in LA. You just need to totally change your viewpoint and acquire some skills.

I like to monger, but I feel like I am young enough to bang hot chicks in my fair city, when I am at home. I suggest the following resources to enlighten you:

The Game by Neill Strauss (good read to start)

Tom Leykis - not a pickup guru, but he owns a pair of large testicles
http://www.leykisonline.com/leykis/view ... 7ba03b89b6

The Juggler Method http://www.charismaarts.com/

Real Social Dynamics is another http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/?gcli ... gQodwmHkew

Do a little reading about the Seduction Community and find some stuff that works for you.

Although I still dig brasileiras the most (and have some brazilian FB's locally in my life) and latinas, and I like to get away and monger; this stuff has changed my whole mental frame about American women.

They're still crazy bitches, by and large, but now they don't upset me anymore.

RHM

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Eu gosto de brasileiras...

Uh oh.... I hope NFlorida doesn't read this !!!

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You ALWAYS have an option ....... "NEXT" !!!

I guess the point is after Costa Rica, I do not want to read books and throw rap. In Costa Rica, you are merely nice to girls and they want to date you (not talking about the mongering where obviously no rap would be necessary).

I could discuss the usual stories of living in Los Angeles and renting a house in the Hollywood Hills throwing parties yada yada...

But after being in Costa Rica I lost the desire to try that hard in the States. Even with skills, picking up girls in America is a numbers game. In Costa Rica, you only talk to the ones that interest you because if you speak to the first girl you will then not be able to pick up another so easily.