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You know who you or so read this.

Costa Rica is a wonderful vacation destination for the single American male. You can travel south to a wonderful climate step off a plane and for a week or so be the man you wish you were living the life you wish you could. For the price of little more than a dinner date you can spend the night with a sweet young thing that will satisfy your fantasies. Sounds good doesn't it. That's what it should be. Now for the real world. Some overweight socially inept loser who's never had a date with an attractive woman much less been to bed with one shows up in San Jose gets laid for the third time in his life by some marginal girl at the blue Marlin and by the end of the week she's got him down at the embassy applying for a visa so they can go to the US and get married.

Yes its true love. No matter she has Ch*ldren she went to bed with him more than once no one else has ever done that she must love him. He's over 30 and wants Ch*ldren no matter they're not his what the hell they don't speak the same language who cares he'll have a family.

He is in love. Can't wait to get home and show his friends the good-looking woman that made love to him. No matter she's already planning a divorce. She knows it's not going anywhere. Suck every dollar out she can. He loves her and he's going to pay for it.

Guys this is a game you cannot win do not play it. My little scenario is worst-case. The easiest thing in the world to convince a person is something they want to believe. Yes your 40 or 50 or as far as that goes 20 something. You meet a beautiful girl ( or you think she is we do not own of the same taste ) she rocks your world. Great have a good time with her, stay in contact and see her on your next visit. Not a thing in the world wrong with that I do it myself. Do not pay her not to work she will continue to work and collect money from you and several other guys to.

She will call you at home or e-mail you with a request for money there is some emergency she does not know who to talk to. You are the only one that can save her. Not likely guys. She's made it this far without you she will continue.

If you think I'm just a old guy with an opinion that you don't give a blank about that's just fine. Read any thread with the word visa in it or request for money. You will see many stories about guys with regrets. You will be hard-pressed to find a success story. Be part of the group that enjoys Costa Rica for what it has to offer do not add your name to the list of those who have exhausted their financial resources trying to save a San Jose working girl whose only intention is to make you as poor as she once was.

Lee

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Pacoloco:

This is your fault you got me stirred up with your PM.

Lee

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I'm sure he read through all the responses in the first couple of threads, no need to start a new one every other day.

Lee.....good, educational post. A lot to be learned from it.

yes Orange:

I'm sure "he" got the message although respecting it is another question. The original is no longer available to the general population who may be the group that is in most need of the message. My post made no reference to any individual and dealt with circumstances that can be shared by many. In fact the entire purpose is to keep as many as possible from experiencing those circumstances.

Lee

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The sad truth is that there could be a thread started and responded to everyday and guys, notice I did not say newbies, will still think that they have found the one chica there who is different from all the rest.

When you play a sport, on any level from HS to pro, the same thing is drilled into your head every single day at practice.Do the players still make the same mistakes on game day? They sure do but hopefully not as frequently as the season wears on.There is a need to drill the same thing into some guys, and yes, everyday if necessary.

Will they all listen and learn....NO....but if one does then the post was worthwhile.

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Like so many of us Lee cares about other men getting used because he really does know what lurks in the streets of CR & any place for that matter. You really can't help stubborn people that live in a world of denial any more than it appears they can help themselves but I do feel better warning others whether they listen or not. God I have seen so many men used & abused & they just seem to go back for more like this one will be different .

It is even hard enough finding a real good woman that has never worked P$P before & have it work out well but at least that type of woman is worth the effort where at least you increase your odds greatly that something wonderful might happen. You hate to throw cold water on all relationships but I don't mind doing this with relationships forged in the gulch. I KNOW OF NO SUCCESSES THERE AT ALL! I agree Lee that enjoying what is offered is great but I know when to saddle up & go on with a real life. You just can't live in fantasy land too long as it is generally not healthy. Balance things out somewhere in middle. If you are a guy that goes off the deep end with things you better never enter the clutches of the gulch. If you do I am sure you will not have a happy ending but just add to other miseries you have. Just my 2 cents & after countless years of travel I might very well be wrong .

You know Pu$$Y is just to easy down there! Every time something is too easy LOOKOUT there is a hidden price to pay. Common sense should prevail but with sex & a Varity of stimulants working on the male mind many succumb to what they want to believe. We really want to believe in fairy tales that we heard as Ch*ldren but this is real life & that shit just doesn’t happen in Gulch City Latina Ville.

These Chicas puck us all alike whether we are handsome, fat, smelly, bald, ugly or tri color green as long as we pay them they will do it & many just like they do their boyfriend. None of us are so special like we want to believe but our stupidity & money is very special to all that seek the poor week sap to make their latest victim. Cruel world out there if you let it be.

Nothing wrong in helping those that help themselves but keep an eye on it & expect the worst so anything above this will not be such a disappointment.

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Sorry Orange and Admin 1:

I unknowingly made to post personal when I opened with the phrase . That was not directed at an individual but a group. I was confused about the ridicule but now I understand. Please forgive.

Lee

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I have a friend that fell in love with a Delrey girl,he took her on beach trips,bought her a cellphone so they could talk and was buying things for her K*ds and her mother's house.Then a used car for her and paying her rent so she would stay out of the Delrey. Every time she wanted more money or they argued she would threaten to go back to work at the Delrey which infuriated him and he would give in. My spanish was better than his and I heard her family ridiculing him one day, he's a nice guy but weak with women and working girls use guys like that and laugh about it every day. One day he came down a couple days before he was supposed to and she's in the new bed he bought with another man, some local. I think she was still screwing gringos too but can't prove it. This seems the norm with working girls not the exception. But why they do it who knows, they really don't need more money but maybe they're greedy. Or else they just like to screw as much as we do, either way unless you're there full time or bring her home you never can trust them and if you're weak you're made a fool and disrespected. Pay while you're there and let the next guy pay after you leave.

Guys,

My two cents... I agree that Lee's message is one that should be read and re-read by everyone, no one is safe from possessing a fool's heart, even if only on a temporary basis.

Drifter also has a point that no matter how much it's drilled into people, there will always be that one person who thinks "MY situation is DIFFERENT."

Just food for thought...I've been out of the game for a year now, but I still frequent the gulch about once a month, and I have maintained platonic relationships with almost every kitten I have ever been with (there's alot of them, trust me). Since they feel safe with me, I get to ask them pretty much anything and they are very blunt with me, they also tend to speak freely amongst each other in my presence... It's sad to hear how they manipulate and scam gringos left and right. They literally boast to the other girls about how they have this gringo sending them this amount and that other gringo sending them that amount, and while the gringo thinks that they are, one, at home behaving, and two, NOT working the gulch, they are out spending the money carelessly and STILL hustling in the gulch.

Guys, for what it's worth... YOU'RE situation is not unique... She IS out there still working and using you as a punchline to the other chicks... This has been said a million times before, and I know I may be coming off as mean, but quite the opposite, I'm trying to look out for those who are blinded by a fool's heart and/or passion. Shit, EVEN I once fell for a working girl for two trips... it happens to us all. But learn through OTHER'S mistakes as opposed of learning the painful way, which is through making your own. Those who fail to study history tend to make the sames mistakes of the past... Consider CRT your history book in this game.

Wisen up, bitches... Ruffnutz out!

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"Just when I thought I was out... They pull me back in." -- Ruffnutz on trying to quit CRT

Excellent reminder Lee, you keep doing that.

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Those who think that the gal they had was great, I can tell you this: the next one will be even better.

Lee, you're so right, but don't let those working ladies find out who you are. You're making their "catch a fool (I mean novio) game harder, and hard work is not something they enjoy!

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SHE LOVES YOU R MONEY! And what's not to love, you sexy-bitch!

The ILLUSION of LOVE comes with a PRICE. It's all up to you how much you want to loose.

If you find one that you believe is truly special take a step back and look at them all from a distance and you will see they are all special, so she is not really that special compared to the rest of the chicas.
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"If I was to live each day as if it was my last I would have been dead a long time ago." - Traylor Park

TO Lee and others
I just want you to know that it is posts like these that have educated me and have helped remind me in times of weakness NOT TO SEND MONEY. I am a big softy, but thanks to these posts I haven't sent a DIME EVER! AND NEVER WILL!!!

THANKS