I have no empirical evidence, just a lifetime of trying to figure my woman out. Let's see: been together 31 years, saw lawyers aroung year seven, tried the swinging thing, ph**ked around for years behind her back, bedded her best friend and wished the wife had a sister

. We have been there and done that. The most important thing is keeping it all together.
It does not surprise me that my lady looks at my magizines when I am gone. I dont care whether she looks at the girls or the guy doing the chick in the photos. I do know that my woman has radar- she can tell in 5 minutes if a guy is gay or a woman is bi. I cant sense these things like they can. We are open and honest with each other and have no secrets now. I know which neighbors are divorcing and which of the wives are having an affair. I know what she tells me about other women and have had her select chicas for me while I was back at the Presidente with one already. What she does not understand is the criteria I use to select a girl, thats OK, I don't either. Junior responds to different things like a pretty face or the innocent types.
If I want to know about a car problem I ask a mechanic. If I want to know about women I ask a woman. I have scored more gringa a*s in the last 10 years with my girl, sometimes using her for bait.
We evolved to this point. I wish I could tell you how to get a woman to dive in so to speak. Maybe it's like hunting, she got tired of staying home so she joined me and learned to hunt. She can now hold her own in a blind with a 30/06. She can also bag a dear in the Blue Marlin with her skills.