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Mickey,

You tell her she cant call you, you will have to call her; and she doesn't call? Believe me she "knows"...no one would fall for that. Enjoy!

I think this falls more under "the body forgets pain category". I was married. I have been single now for about 8 years. Once in a great while I miss that constant partner. Then I remember the constant neediness, constant talking, never having a moment alone. The silly problems that were a crisis. The need to socialize with her friends men.

I chuckle and book another trip. There is a reason 50% of marriages fail and the other 50% of men live in "quiet desperation".

MS,

Brother, I am the last to be judgemental but how in the hell do you claim a successful marriage when you are repeatedly forced to lie to your family
so you can spend money that should be going towards your wife and K*ds on your own pleasures.

Good Luck
Rainman3

Good point Rainman3! Maybe successful was not the right word. I call it success because we both are relatively happy and we are successfully raising four young boys. Here in the States, I very rarely cheat on my wife and we spend more than enough quality time together. My one vice is that I love Costa Rica and Costa Rican women. I travel to CR every other month for five days and then when I am home, I spend the next 55 days with the family. Sure, I will probably end up getting a divorce at some point; but until then, I am having fun having the best of both worlds.

As for money that should go to my family; my wife works and has her own money. When she’s broke, I make her grovel, but I usually will give her a loan. My flight is generally free because of my frequent flyer miles. I have one main chica in CR who has never charged me any dinero. I think that she is setting me up for a big payday! The other chicas are reasonably inexpensive and the hotel bill is not that bad.

I truly enjoyed reading all of the posts for this subject. For me, it’s all in good fun and someday I will be on your side of the fence offering words of wisdom to some guy in need.

I will see everyone in CR at the end of this month! Pura Vida!

Come on, not every relationship is like this

I know I'm in the wrong forum to be preaching about successful marriages, but obviously all your guys' was not meant to be. Maybe it's a generation thing?

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While a lot (maybe most?) of the guys cheating on their wives in Costa Rica, where cheating way before they ever got there, I have met some guys that NEVER cheated on their wives until they took a fishing/hunting trip to Latin America and saw all of the fresh, young pu*sy they could get.

Think about it this way. You are in your late 50's/early 60's. Your wife, who was hot when you married her, has still managed to keep her body in good shape for a woman in her late 40's/early 50's. You're not rich, so even if you did want to cheat, for the most part it would have to be with women about the same age as your wife, because the younger girls aren't interested in you. Besides that, cheating in your hometown is bound to get you caught.

What is the point of ruining a "successful" marraige to a "beautiful" (as beautiful as you are going to get) woman and losing everything you have spent your life working on for some 40 something year old pu*sy? You have a happy marraige because your wife hasn't gained and extra 100 lbs since your wedding day and lets you go on your fishing/hunting trips whenever you want.

Now, you're going on one of your fishing or huntiing trips you go to the Dominican Republic, or Panama, or Costa Rica with your buddies. Once you are there, your experienced buddy shows you this smoking hot 19 year old girl that will do every nasty thing you have ever dreamed of for the whole night for $100. You know you aren't going to get caught, so you won't hurt your wife. And this girl is hotter than any woman you have EVER been within 10 feet of. This is a chance of a lifetime and you know that if you say no you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Whose going to turn that down once?

You do it, and it is FANTASTIC! Not only the sex, she also took great care of you and treated you like a king. Guys tell you about other places to go for this type of fun, including some mythic castle called the Hotel Del Rey . When you return home, all you think about is that hot chica you were with. You previously beautiful wife now looks like what she is, a a 40 or 50 something gringa . Next thing you know, you are planing another "hunting" trip for next month and your wife notices that you are much more excited about this one than normal. Pretty soon you are going on your "hunting an fishing" every month or two, yet you havent actually held a rifle or a fishing rod in a year .

I've know several guys in multiple countries that turned out like this. It is just too much temptation. A guy who has ben a 4 or 5 for his age group his entire life can have a 20 year old 10 Phuck him all night for less money than he spent taking his family to dinner and a movie. To top it off, the chance of getting caught is MUCH lower than doing this in the U.S. I just don't think most husbands can handle that temptaion. I don't see how they could be.

Phucker is always on vacation and never says where he is going~~~~

Yeah, Costa Rica, Viagra and Redtube are doing their part to ruin the institution of marriage. Oh well. What a world, what a world.

I'm widowed. With marrieds one way he can get caught if it he brings back bugs to his wife.

Hard lesson to learn.

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Actually Phoenix I think society and the femi-nazis already were ruining marriage...with CR and viagra etc, alot of men just dont have to put up with their shit is all..


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I guess number 6 on Mikey's list should be:

Make sure she is getting enough sex when you ARE at home so that a) she is less likely to think you're getting your rocks off elsewhere and b) doesn't go off somewhere else herself while you're gone to get what you aren't giving her.

Or it could be, "Hey bro, I'm knocked up, it's not yours obviously and I want a divorce. I know you've been bangin' hookers in CR. Get the f*ck out." This isn't an "I told ya so post. It's just that I've seen the movie and I know the ending.

dapanz1

Maybe Mikey Styles did get caught and the wife knew and had some fun on the side? I'm speculating. I feel for you Mikey Styles. I loved your reports. Good luck man.

As always the phucking vultures come out to tell you so. Why is it that some people take that much pleasure to see a brother down? Nobody in this board is that dumb that they do not realize that you could get caught, by wife, girlfriend, employer, etc. For those that say “I have none of those to worry about”, you could get caught by an STD.

My point is that mongering is a very risky behavior. We all got something to lose, relationships, health, liberty. So before you go about dumping on Mr. Styles, consider your situation. I’m one’s of those that preaches that we have warned members on the perils of mongering and the board is full of sad stories and bad endings. But please do not take pleasure on Styles’ tribulations. The next one could be you.

BTW – Mikey, keep the chin up. You never know if your current problems are a blessing in disguise. Good Luck!

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Amen JOsie...I applaud the guy for baring his soul and telling everyone about it all. Even if it helps 1 other person either cover their tracks better, or at the very least not be so arrogant about it...then maybe some positive can come from the mess. <shrug>

Isn't that why we are all here? To share and help?

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