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The only appearance the chicas worry about is the faces on the money you pay. Just practice
good personal hygiene and they will love you for that. Treat them with respect . There are many
that are very fun to be around. Always Chica proof your room and your wallet. It takes a while before trust
can enter into the picture. Read as much as you can about how to negotiate with these Chicas.
Once you do this have fun!

I know you don't mean any offense Smelvis, but I think insinuating me getting anything free is something that is my point behind a thought is a bit of a stretch. Its true I can come off a bit, but thats just because it bothers me how this board can foster false pretenses.

My point was, don't be a guy any trick could have, and conversely..have fun and monger down but at the very least hold on to whatever shred of charm or guile you may have left when its not a point and shoot for $35 situation. I understand I can often come off as a buzz kill to the monger nation but also realize, I know exactly how these chicas do you. I feel like ending (every) post by saying become fluent in spanish, time to know what you don't know...yea man, that kinda stuff..


btw, hooking up in CR isn't all that tuff anyway..btw, (mongers) say its p4p location not so much the chicas...the chicas will do it for money sure, ergo everything in between...

P.s. Pm sent monger isra..soft bob


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Now you make sense. When you do the one liners to people who do not know you it comes off offensive at times. Maybe I do not quite get your slang.

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I just can't understand how some guys insist it is all about the money. Money gets you laid easily- the rest improves the quality of the experience. As I have said before (I am too lazy to find the post, it was a bit more extensive than this), if you think this is not true, to an experiment. Dress like shit, don't shave, look as bad as you can for a few days, and then do the opposite for a few days. I am willing to bet that your overall quality of your expereiences and the time that the chicas spends with you will vary greatly.

Yes, for the chicas the primary motivation is money, but the more you can do to get them to let go a bit, and enjoy themslves, the better the experience you can have. The factors that we can control include appearence, setting up a fun and GFE context, ect. I want the best time I can have, so i am willing to put in the extra 15 minutes I need to be most appealing (or less unappealing ).

If all you want is a 20 minute pump and dump, of course you don't need to do anything other than sling down some cash and point to your junk. If you love all night Phuck fests with mad GFE, you have to put in a bit (or at least I do).

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I've never been mongering in Costa Rica yet... but I spent 5 good years in Argentina and have traveled to many Spanish speaking countries and done my fair share of P4P, and in my experience appearance matters far less to chicas than you might think. But really everything matters. They are human beings and want to have a pleasant experience, its only natural. If they enjoy your company some will go to great lengths to demonstrate their affection for you. But some girls are purely motivated by financial concerns... so the clock is always ticking. That's not to say that they are bad people, just that they are extremely conscious of the fact that if it weren't for the money in your wallet they wouldn't be spending any time with you.

The ranking is different for every girl, but here are some other things I have found that chicas like.

-your generous (not just financially, but cheap and selfish people are a drag to be with...)
-your respectful (just because she's a whore doesn't mean she's not a human being)
-your well groomed and well behaved
-you speak spanish well (if she speaks english well this matters less)
-you have a good sense of humor
-you are playful and fun to be with
-you are a decent lover (i.e. you aren't a 500 pound man sweating profusely on top of her)
-you are honest (the situation is what it is... you shouldn't be making any promises or trying to possess her. You rented her for the hour or the night.)
-you aren't a weirdo (i.e. you don't ask her to do things that she's not comfortable with)
-you aren't a drunken slob or a jittery coke fiend who can't get it up.

Its probably a bonus if you look good, but I have been told by many chicas that they prefer older guys... probably not dude's in their 80's but many like a 40 or 50 year old dude over an 18 or 24 year old K*D.

Thanks for answering and that Sir does explain it a bit better for me. I also am bothered by some stuff and sorry your stuff was the main one but I will now read them with this new information and take it all into account. Take care and Thanks again.

Dave

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Opp I am known for typing like I think and often for that reason people don't get what I mean often so I want to add put in that context I agree with you.
I have never been a how many can I do one or two a day on vacation is fine, Now that I am retired and can do what I want a couple or maybe even less a week may be plenty. There is a tourist hiding in me and I want to do other stuff as well as. Anyway Thanks again.

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LOL I would Love to never hear the word game used again ever again! :)

From another post I wrote....

"n terms of GFE and out of the box expereinces, A command of Spanish helps in this regard. Far easiler in Latin America or in the PI to have these grey area and “normal” experiences for me than it was in LOS; mostly though, I prefer to pay. I am not single, and have no desire for a relationships. However, I do love GFE, and these expereinces tend to lead to some off the charts GFE. GFE to me is as much about an attitude as it is about a specific list of servcie. A GFE “feels”as if she wants to be with you, regardless if that is true or not.

There are multiple things we can do to encourage a GFE; those factors can be broken down into three area: selection, personal charicteristics (of monger), and context. The first of course has to do with good interview skills, and making sure YOU are the one that sets the tone. It means being able to put your needs and desires out there, and be willing to walk away if you get sense that she will not be “down.” You have to have a really good sense of the “vibe” between you and the women. In this sense, there is some wisdom to the notion of letting a chica select you, only IF you are hot for her and you get a sense that she is diging your chile, not that she is coming on to you because she is an agressive pro.

Some personal charicteistics you can control, some you can’t. Some you can control in the short term, and some take longer. I make sure that my normally funky nails and toe nails are in good shape, that I don’t dress like a tool (jeans and dress shirt for me during the evneing, no matter where I am), have a good cologne (kill the old spice home slice; and grey flannel will only attract 50 year old suburbanites, Phuck that!) and just in general look as good as I can. Some guys say “Phuck it, I am on vacation, what you are describing is more work than I have to do on a REAL date. Why bother?” Well, fair enough, but again, I bother to make my money go as far as it can, to have the most outragious, fabulous sex that I can have. For that, I need to be as attractive as i can for the chicas (or at least as not repugnant as I can be).

Of course, some personal variables such as sense of human, way with women, intenllegence, gift of gab, ect, are harder to change. However, you can be confident and warm, masculine without being an asshole-these are sexy to women. "

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I said hey baby, take a walk on the wild side.
Lou Reed

"Jerry, just remember, it's not a lie if you believe it." (Costanza)

I think chicas are great actresses (liars) because they live with a few simple truths (hungry baby, I want a new cell phone) and let the rest of their lives be adaptable realities.

True as far as that goes but the good news: that smell is only distinctive not offensive. For more:
http://healthland.time.com/2012/05/31/o ... tists-say/ << the pic is at odds with the text
Bottom line: few Chicas will be repelled and a certain per cent might actually enjoy it (no, I'm not going there...).

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"Amen, brother"-ED

Well said.

Saw some guys on my walk home from my bus today and they could definitely use an appearance tip. Ok, if you aren't gonna do anything to be in decent shape, at least watch your posture and stand up straight. Even if a guy doesn't have a good physique it helps immensely to stand up straight. Wish I could have gotten my camera out of the back pack. Pitiful. Three sunken chest guys with pregnant like bellies and slouching just pushed the belly out farther and the chest sunk in more. Use to have a chica that bugged the hell out of me about standing up straight. Pain in the ass but it got in my head and I paid more attention to posture.