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PostPosted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 11:21 am 
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What I can not believe is that we, a bunch of gringos, are sooooo concerned over how much or how little these chicas make in terms of how it effects their availablity for 'play'. You must remember a couple of other very important factors:

Most of them are supporting an extended family, K*ds, a boyfriend or husband (yes, some are married); one, at least, is paying her way thru college. And although they may be maknig a lot of money by Tico standards, they know it will not last forever, they are hoarding money for the 'rainy day, or maybe they just want money to buy some "little" extra that they do not have. They see the working chicas making 'cien' for a hour of sex so why not them?

They work crazy hours and many times do not feel like partying or have to party when none of their friends or family wants to. they are hotttt blooded Latinas, and want and need love and affection just as much as the Latinas working in any other job; they get horny, they want to be held and kissed, they want to feel wanted for more than to be made feel like a whore, and they want to be able to please a man.

And, sadly there are a couple of them who are "cold blooded" men hating, revengeble chicas who hate men and the way men have treated, and are treating, them. They love to "play the men" get them all worked up with hope, take them for all they can, and then brush them off, all the while laughing at how stupid men can be.

In other words, some times how much they make as a bartender has little to do with what they will and will not do after hours. I personally feel that they work hard, have to put up with a LOT of mostly unnecessary shit especially from customers, and many times, especially in the night, are under staffed and under a lot of pressure. For you guys complaining about not getting your change or being over charged, think about what it must be like being groped, hasseled, sometimes almost attacked, by a 100 men while trying to remember who wants what drank and who has paid and not paid and who has change coming. And only one chica can work the regester and she may be busy, but some drunk is giving another bartender hell because he has had to wait for 2 /3 minutes for his change.

Also, not sure who gets the money if the regester comes up over at the end of the night; knowing John, probably the house not the chicas!!!! But I do know that if it is short, the bartenders have to fork over the shortage. And it is a constant problem with drunk customers trying to leave without paying

I personally feel that for the most part the bartenders are just a bunch of chicas (yes, hot and sexi) working very hard, just trying to do their job as best as possible. And they deserve the money they make and deserve the right to decide if they want to "play" or not. If she says "yes" to a guy great for him (and hopefully for her); If she says "no" that should mean "no" and guys should not continue to hassel her.

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If your statements, ID, are based on actual conversations with a DR employee then say so. I don't believe they are so find a bartender or other employee with the DR and post their side if it differs.

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I think you have misinterpreted what I was referring to when I posted:

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Then the HDR is an unusual operation. Most bars/restaurants in Costa Rica use the 10% servico in exactly the way described by the Mad German.......


I did not indicate that I was saying the HDR used a method different than you described. What I was saying that most bars and restaurants use a different system in that the take the 10% service charge and distribute over a wider range of employes than just the bartenders in a bar or the wait staff in a restaurant.

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Berk when ID needs a lecture from you he will let you know. :lol:

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Berk when ID needs a lecture from you he will let you know. :lol:


Again you miss the mark Paco. Berk and I were exchanging differing view points in a gentlemanly discussion.

Your wise ass comments add nothing to the discussion and would best be left unsaid.

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Again you miss the mark Paco. ... Your wise ass comments add nothing to the discussion and would best be left unsaid.
Point taken sorry Berk and ID I will go away. I forgot it's only humorous when you post it after ripping some newbie a new one for asking a question. https://costaricaticas.com/phpBB2/viewto ... c&start=60 But don't think for a minute the same couldn't be said about some of your abrasive, angry, useless comments.

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Again you miss the mark Paco. ... Your wise ass comments add nothing to the discussion and would best be left unsaid.
Point taken sorry Berk and ID I will go away. I forgot it's only humorous when you post it after ripping some newbie a new one for asking a question. But don't think for a minute the same couldn't be said about some of your abrasive, angry, useless comments.


Sorry I still do not think questioning the writer as to what the point was in his post was either ripping the writer or abusive. But obviously you disagree which is fine.

If you feel I make abrasive, angry, sarcastic, inane, useless or whatever adjective you want to use when replying to one of your posts then call me out on it. I can handle anything you have to say.

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...... and now to change the mood... check out my new thread "I might be gay - part 2"... I'm hooked on that "So You Think You Can Dance Show" :lol: :lol: :P :P :lol: :lol:

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My buddy dated her Mia for a few months quite a while ago, said she was nice but he dumped her for Fernanda the colombian bartender in the DR.


If you buddy did Mia and is currently doing Fernanda he's definitely my hero !!! :D


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My buddy dated her Mia for a few months quite a while ago, said she was nice but he dumped her for Fernanda the colombian bartender in the DR.


If you buddy did Mia and is currently doing Fernanda he's definitely my hero !!! :D


I think I know who you are speaking of...Ron J...the real estate guy. Meet him, he's a pretty cool guy.

Yes, alot of the bartenders do play guys. Why not, wouldn't you if you were a bartender? It's always about the coin. Do this trick with them if they ever start asking you to buy them a drink or champagne (they make a huge commission from selling the champagne)...hold your right arm at a right angle (90 degrees, bent at the elbow) and rub your right elbow with your left hand. They all know what it means....and you will probably get a laugh out of it while getting out of a tough situation. (It means 'Cheap Gringo')

With regard to 'hooking up' with a bartender....think about it this way...they get hit on every night by every single type of gringo you can imagine. The enormity of it all does put them off, and you stand little if any chance. Anything under $750, you might as well forget it.

I know alot of the bartenders, and most gringos don't really stand a chance. Don't try it, and just stick to the chicas working...it's your best bet as far as time expense and money expense is considered.


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$750 ??? You can do Pornstars like Stevie and Brook Banner for that.

Isn't $200-$500 the norm for TNL or at least several hours the norm ???

Probably best to stay on our side of the bar.


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The sort answer is yes - you can get a bartender like any other available woman - it takes time, money, skills, etc.

My advise is to go for it, just don't plan a trip around it or let the chase get in the way of other fun.


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I still don't see the fascination with bartenders as there are MANY girls with= or better looks working.


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I still don't see the fascination with bartenders as there are MANY girls with= or better looks working.


We are a greedy bunch. :P :P :P This is one of the pre-requisites to be a monger. We can probably do 90% of all the working girls but we are always trying to score with the 9-10’s of the bunch that might consist of only 5% of the working girls. Monger psychology. :? :? :? :?

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Have the bartenders a bit o gringa in them? They are in high demand, so therefore can be choosy? They make enough money off tips that they dont need to "work" like the other gals?

Or are there two different jobs and two different type gals that are drawn to each? What makes the typical woman along the wall at the HDR almost beg the guys to take them home (or usually a much closer place) & the typical woman behind the bar mostly ignore the offers for dates from the same guys? Is there much movement by the girls between the two groups?

Similar to the cocktail waitress and dancers in a US topless bar? I note though that the dancers usually are commanding more $$, but I get the impression in CR that the bartender is making the "easy" money compared to the "working" gal.


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The bartenders at DR are miserable bitches! Who cares what they're doing with all the other friendly tail that's around !


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