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When your old and on that porch you don't want to have regrets that your life wasn't all that it could have been.Make a list of things you want to do and start doing them!

I hear ya Doc-

Guess I'll make a bucket list while in my 30's

Cujo

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"Pain is the fuel that fans the flames of my pyre. A battle plan is only as good as the general carrying it out on the field. This is my war son, and I have the biggest bombs and the smallest conscience"...

I'm all about that, too. Just need to weigh the consequences of your own actions. No one is promised tomorrow and we should all live life to the fullest. But, just in case tomorrow does come we have to have a little foresight in to what could be the ramifications. I mean, of all people, my mother knew I was in CR and had a good idea of what was going on there. One day she said to me, "One day you are going to come home and your wife and daughter are going to be gone and I'm not going to feel a bit sorry for you." Sobering? Uh...yes. To say the least.

I just keep going back to the point of the sneaking around. Eventually, it will catch up. Frankly, it gets old. I am impressed by the creativity I and others have been in covering our tracks. Brilliant thinking. I just think you will feel much more relief by either quitting (not likely) or putting an end to your commitments. It really is a weight off your shoulder and adds SO much more fun to the trips. Just my 2 cents from someone who has been there.

dapanz1

I don't think she could get your itinerary. I remember my father was picking me up once and they wouldn't even tell him if I was on the plane. Maybe CR airports are more relaxed in their security.

I swear to my personal God. It was as easy as picking up the phone and calling Copa in order to get the full itinerary and the confirmation number. I just pretended like I was calling to confirm a flight for my friend. I only needed to know the name and the date and approximate time of departure. Maybe it is a function of which customer service rep takes your call but, I doubt it. I would think giving out that kind of info would either be allowed or not allowed. Period. It just must be true that that info is readily available. In my most recent experience, no one knew I was returning to Minneapolis. No one except the airline that I was flying. But, yet, it was known by my female friend that MSP was my final destination. I wouldn't count on your flight itinerary being private.

I went to our local airport to pick up an ex g/f. I had doubts that she actually was coming back. I got to the airport and the flight was late and I hadn't heard from her all day. I asked about the plane, they said it was delayed. I asked if "F" was on the plane. They confirmed that she was. I have to mention that this was pre-Twin Towers. But, all the rest of my experience is post. Take it for what it's worth.

dapanz1

Damn, this thread really opened my eyes... I have to ask you guys, is it really worth it? I mean personally I'd rather be honest and get the divorce than put so much effort into sneaking around...

Some interesting in here though with the itinerary thing, good to know.



This made me giggle out loud though

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I remember a few years ago on the old CRS site, a fellow monger was offering to pay for sessions here for anyone that could come up with excuses for future trips. As I remember he got a lot of ideas. One excuse: I was mugged on the streets, they caught the mugger, and I have to return for the trial. My idea not only for the next trip, but all future trips was: Just divorce the gringa before you get caught and end up with no money left to return!!

Anytime you lie, you are eventually going to get caught, and a divorce for incompatability is a lot less costly than one for adultry. Been there, done that

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Old and retired but still bang, and bang, and bang!!!

But if it is out of the country it doesn't count right?

Jeesusss,
Just file the papers, pay the best divorce attorney you can't afford, give her 50% of the equity of the home, keep the home yourself, go through the custody psych eval, you win (because oh well most of us are sane to a certain degree), love your K*ds treat them well. And yeah you do get Ch*ld support, it takes approx 4 years to get back to where you were financially, and then, well the K*ds do visit mom, and then, well I'll buy you a beer at the SL
Been there done that.
Regards, 911 Driver

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The happy hour is a device either for getting rid of social obligations hurriedly en masse or for making overtures toward more serious social relationships, as in the etiquette of whoring.- Brooks Atkinson

Reading this thread reminds me that if it weren't for things like alimony and community property, the divorce rate in this country would probably be 80-90%

I often wonder just how many guys go to sleep every night wishing they could get rid of the fat gringa laying next to them . Bet the true figure would be staggeringly high.

For years I knew very few that were not or would not cheat every chance they got, including a lot of young (25-30) guys with very attractive gringa wives. And if I had had to live with their gringa wives, I WOULD HAVE BEEN CHEATING ALSO . C*m to think about it, I did cheat every chance I got; guess that is why I never could stay married

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Old and retired but still bang, and bang, and bang!!!

You are probably right on the money (no pun intended). However, I have many single friends who envy the fact that I have a successful marriage. I envy them because they can go wherever and do whatever they want whenever they want. It's kind of like "the grass is always greener" concept. My married friends say that their wives too needy and would like some space, while my single friends feel as though they need a woman around to fill the empty space.

Thus becomes P4P.
You pay for it one way or the other, might as well rent.

dapanz1

Sounds like it would be easier just to get a divorce.......

That's been kinda my point all along.

dapanz1