El Ciego wrote:
I did four TLNs last trip.
In each case, we agreed to an hour, typically around $75.00 more or less. The girls then each decided that my SL/Casa Vino bed was more comfortable than her own, the TV better, the bath nicer, especially with its hot water and fluffy towels. We never once discussed TLN, but in four cases, the chicas just made themselves comfortable and with my permission, stayed the night.
I never seek a TLN. Some girls you just want to leave after an hour. If the TLN thing is a good idea, both she and I know it, and it just flows from there.
The thing about whether or not she has young'uns to take care of is a biggie. Most of the girls have offspring, but many have built=in ch*ldcare from sisters, mothers or girlfriends. One tica told me that she and three of her del Rey colleagues alternated nights working, so at least one of the four was available to care for the others' k*ds. YMWV, and it does depend on the girl.
My take generally on overnight stays is...why? Why should I pay triple for all night, when I'll probably only get to do her twice? Furthermore, I really prefer to sleep alone once the horizontal struggling is done. Of course, you might have different desires and needs than I. I won't pay a centavo extra for TLN, but I will buy her a nice breakfast if she stays, pay her cab fare home and probably give her a reasonable propina, but I do not negotiate TLN in advance.
Great advice. Making first trip next month. And I've pondered this question too. And I've decided to not negotiate for a TLN and just let it occur in a natural manner.
Besides, out of all the working girls I've been with, I would probably only want to do a TLN with 5% of them. The rest I couldn't tolerate for more than a couple of hours.
And why would anyone want to pay money to have a chic do a TLN against her will. It's a better experience when both want it.