www.CostaRicaTicas.com

I agree with the great advice all the above Bros gave you. One thing: Care to share which terrif friend of yours pointed us out to you? Big debt of gratitude, I'd say, 'cuz everybody here wants you to succeed beyond your wildest fantasies. Don't kick yourself for waiting; your new life starts NOW!

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"A man accustomed to hear only the echo of his own sentiments, soon bars all the common avenues of delight, and has no part in the general gratification of mankind"--Dr. Johnson
"Amen, brother"-ED

There's no life like the whoring life

Tyler,
While I was reading your first post I was thinking the same thing that Seabreaze posted. Find a guy to approach the girls for you first. He might be able to "soften" any initial shock they might have if they have an idea what to expect first.

Also there are many, many great adventures in Costa Rica that don't include paying girls for sex. Zip lines, rain forrest tours, volcanos, white water rafting, etc. I suggest you plan an all-around trip and not focus just on the girls.

There are always CRT member in the gulch. When you get your travel dates confirmed try to touch base with a few before you go. There are all types here and most are good guys.

I hope everything works out for you on your trip.

Wit

Exactly. I highly recommend going with Bro EdB--great guy and he can break any ice. You may be surprised to find the Chicas vying to be with you, especially when it's cherry-popping time.
Yes and please do get out of the Gulch and SJO itself. There was a writer here named Prolijo, who wrote well and deeply about other stuff. He's still on TA. On subsequent trips, you'll find this of interest. This time though, it's pu$$y til you can't breathe anymore and you think your heart's gonna explode...then the right one's gonna put it on you just a wee bit more. Bury you in a matchbox but with a "can't-get-that-grin-off-his-face-with-a-cold-steel-chisel" expression. I don't even joke.

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"A man accustomed to hear only the echo of his own sentiments, soon bars all the common avenues of delight, and has no part in the general gratification of mankind"--Dr. Johnson
"Amen, brother"-ED

If I remember correctly I was actually led here by a youtube video I saw and a comment mentioned this forum...this was back in February I believe, so I have been toying around with the idea of a trip for some time now. The reason I started seeking out info on trips like these was because someone on the escort message board I used the one time told me that I would really enjoy Thailand and to consider at trip there, but I am not sure I am ready to go across the world yet, and CR seems like a decent middle ground.



I appreciate the support and reassurance guys, I don't want to put all my eggs in one basket but I am just hoping this trip is a good experience for me..I really need it, and just having something at all to look forward to is doing wonders for me. I can't remember the last time I was genuinely excited about anything. I am at a weird stage in my life now where I am starting to see my high school/college friends and family members who are around my age getting engaged/married/moving in with their SO's, having Ch*ldren, etc. and I just feel like I missed out on every key rite of passage or landmark experience that a normal person experiences at certain points in their life. It is hard to even feel like an adult/man without having experienced certain things. I accepted long ago that life can be unfair and that I can't change the past but I really am completely missing out on a huge aspect of life. Even if I didn't take this route and I was ever able to date or attract a girlfriend who was accepting of me, I would still have absolutely zero experience, which at my age is probably unforgivable. I feel so bad for the chica (presuming I am able to find one) who will have to endure my most likely beyond terrible and clueless performance. I know a lot of people here say it shouldn't be too much of a problem finding a girl, but I guess it is just hard to shake 30 years of low self-esteem. Again, I appreciate everyone genuinely wishing me the best. When I have some concrete dates (looking like somewhere in the first 2 weeks of december) I will post them. Thanks again.

Tyler84, Mother Nature gave most of us a gift - the ability to know what to do with our sexual organs. Just do what feels natural to you. I don't think the chicas are going to think of you as "beyond terrible and clueless performance". Your first experience may not produce fireworks in your head. In fact, you may wonder why all the hype about sex. That is what happened to me, but it didn't take me long to understand what all the hype was about. Try not to be apprehensive, just have a good time. The chicas are not looking for Don Juan. The bottom line for them is the money, but some of them have a way to make you think that money is secondary.

Tyler 84.....

You need to move the hardest eighteen inches in a man's life, from his head to his heart.

Your head thinking is retarding your growth. If you are not thinking the highest thought for self, change that thought immediately. Your words seem very good at predicting the future for yourself, which you seem to constantly paint as failure. You are what you think. Do not continue to waste your precious time on this earth with negative thoughts about the future. Who was the first to paint the picture of self you now carry? You are no longer that little boy, and do not have to buy into another's thought about you.

What is in it for you not to change those thoughts to positive/loving thoughts of self?

You mention about your school mates having many of the things you dream to be desirable. How many of them are really happy? How many of them will be divorced in 5-10 years. Do not look at others and paint such a glorious picture of them, and equate that to failure on your part because you do not have the same. If you achieved them would you really be happy anyway? Choose what will make you happy and follow that path wherever it may take you. It can be a very frightening journey, but the reward in the end will be well worth it.

You are missing out (your words) because you are choosing that path. You are only one thought away from taking a different path in your life. You can change that this second. Your thought (ego) doesn't want to let go because it has helped you to feel safe. While you may have felt/been safe, it has not been a good place for you. Your ego (I do not mean that in a bad way) wants you to stay where it knows you. Changing self is the hardest thing I have ever tried to accomplished. I have been really working on it for 12-15 years, and my ego is still constantly calling me trying to get me back to my old thought process that was not good for me.

It is never too late to begin your new "rite of passage". It will never be as others have done, but it will be your passage. It is not too late to honor yourself for all the goodness that you have in you. That you have chosen not to have sex with a woman at this point in your life is honorable, and not to be scoffed at. Why would you feel "less than" about something so wonderful?

You are only one thought away from being whatever you choose. IMHO, I would ask you to choose to believe in yourself, you are worth it.

Health & happiness

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It's not the size of the wand that put the rabbit in the hat, it's the magic in it!!!

This gorgeous song by Stevie Ray Vaughan should put some pep in your step and hope in your heart.: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSWM2nV ... re=related

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"A man accustomed to hear only the echo of his own sentiments, soon bars all the common avenues of delight, and has no part in the general gratification of mankind"--Dr. Johnson
"Amen, brother"-ED

Jazzbo, since you spend so much time on the Internet, why don't you do a little fact checking before you post something. Many of those women are either from the U.S. or Europe.

Do you have that song with a BG of all Ticas? Then post it O/W quit being chickenshit and STFU.

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"A man accustomed to hear only the echo of his own sentiments, soon bars all the common avenues of delight, and has no part in the general gratification of mankind"--Dr. Johnson
"Amen, brother"-ED

Your bleeding-heart liberal passion is showing through just a tad!

I will not shut up.

I am not the one who posted a link to a video, claiming to show Costa Rican women, that shows a few Ticas mixed in with other nationalities. So, don't expect me to fix your blunder.

Alright, you two, stop it before yet another thread is high-jacked over some stupid shit.

All JazzboCR said about the video was it "should put some pep in your step". If the video is misrepresented does it really matter? It is a nice tune with many lovely ladies. That page also shows other videos to be enjoyed.

Like this one:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7HVVEMBXq30

Have fun.

Wit

Yeah like Mr Limpy.

Not only ugly but a Limpdick

Glad he got banned for messing with you Scuba1.

Go to CR and enjoy. Just dont marry anyone there. Also if in doubt Calle 6 always open!!

I highly doubt that was the reason - I certainly never complained to the Admin.

I didn't know he did - I'm not - as a general rule - in favor of bans - I do have the feeling all these tools - Vegan Bob, Hangman, Uncle Herman, the one you mentioned - are the same guy.

All I will say is that they are not as funny as they think they are