DrRemulak wrote:
I am the guy in HikerTom's post. edit: WAS that guy, thanks to this place.
I suspect you're not alone.

Some of those guys have an even harder time with it, since they're been firm believers in monagamy and marriage; it's been rammed into them all their lives that marriage was "sacred", that any sex outside of marriage was a "sin". Now they come to a place like CR and (a) are going to have sex with a girl they are not married to, (b) she's a total stranger that they've never met or had even a date with before, and (c) they are going to PAY this girl for the sex. It's quite a shock to their system. Unfortunately some don't recover from the shock and turn into "save a ho" crusaders.