Gweiss wrote:
I m up for being corrected. I do put the word tica in place of chica, by mistake, often. I do not see the negative in the use though. I could use nica in the same way. I am talking about ladies I meet, and they are all pretty, nice and willing. I mean no negative to any lady or race or culture. Maybe it is seen as a slap against the local ladies by the resident ex-patriates?
So sorry if I am offending, but the tica will slip. I like ticas, nicas, colombians, and whom ever else can wrap her lips about my pickle.
That's why you have much to learn, grasshopper
To Costa Ricans, the term used interchangably with prostitute is
highly offensive, and you can understand why - it simply means female Costa Rican. In fact, there have been mentions on the board of guys who, in Tico bars, have gotten into fights over the use of the term, and true or not, shows you how offensive the use is to many people.
You posted:
"Maybe it is seen as a slap against the local ladies by the resident ex-patriots?"
Doubtful they use the term, b/c they know better
I blame the board somewhat, calling itself "Costa Rica Ticas" - Simply meaning CR girls, but its understandable some would think it means prostitutes - but not the case. And you are certainly not the only - nor will you be the last - to use the term improperly.
You could use the term "Nica" but that would be ignorant too - it simply means someone - yup, male
or female - from Nicaragua.
You might ask why I care, and why its a peeve - I think everyone - especially Americans - who travel to CR is looked at, good or bad, much the same as we might view tourists (I live in Miami so we get a ton of Latin tourists) visiting America. Why go out of your way to offend someone - its really preventable stupidity. Be aware and don't use the term.
(You could question why I care - even though I've explained why - but you really can't quarrel with what I've posted).
I responded with a fairly detailed explanation, b/c I think from reading your posts you are a good guy (even if you have some strange and weird ideas about blow jobs under the table in public places

) and you joined the board (welcome, BTW - good move

.