Cujo'S wrote:
I agree %110 Orange that's why I give as much resistance to P4p that I can. But it comes time on this board where the straight dope needs to be said sometimes and matters like TLN's, GFE's etc.. def require this type of attention..
I think (because) its p4p guys in general expect performance, never knowing its not the money that's going to give them the session they want..
Cujo
Very true, Cuj. So what happens when the guy is 20+ years older and not really very physically attractive? Resign himself to business/mercy fuggs? Not hardly....
Guys, remember that her motor gets cranked differently than yours. Men are visual animals while women are attracted to a host of things besides youth and physical attributes.
Quite possibly the best CRT post I've ever read. Very useful stuff here.
If you are looking for a GFE and you're not Cujo:
- Ask her name, then remember it. Call her by name and with a smile, like you are happy to see her.
- Treat her with respect, like a human being not a "puta".
- Talk to her about things that make her feel good (not "so how long have you been a whore...do you like it?"

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- Don't be scared off by her sob story. She isn't really asking for you to fix it. She just wants a sympathetic ear. Talk about how that must make her feel and give her reassurance that things will change for the better. Cheer her up and move on to another subject.
- Let her know that you genuinely enjoy her company.
Then, there are other less honorable things you can do to ensure best service:
- Ask her about the beach. Which is her favorite? Is it possible for her to get away for a few days? (Make no promises...this is exploratory.)
- Tell her you enjoy the party scene but would like something more real. (Hint that you are looking for a girl friend...no promises.)
- Ask if she has her passport...can she travel the world. (Again, you are exploring options...let her fantasize about what you might do and where you might go).
- Tell her you are thinking of moving to CR. Where are the best neighborhoods? Where should you live? Where is the best shopping? Would it be okay for you to have a younger girl friend living with you there? Let her connect the dots...no promises.
You don't have to be young and fit (it certainly can help). You do have to be clean and well groomed and look like you might be able to afford the fantasy you lay out. Good luck.