jonny99 wrote:
I find it to be quite interesting.. the dichotomy of guys who are (at least for the time being) taking a major break from 'relationship issues', and seeking out destinations where they (for a price) can gorge themselves. On the 'flip side'... guys who (seem to) abhor the thought of having sex without a trickle of some kind of 'real connection'.. and anything less would maybe make them feel like 'they wasted their lives'. I liken it to how most people view politics (one side or the other). For me, it is just simply my life.
seriously sorry if i hijacked your thread
but i don't abhor anything about the lifestyle far from it
anything that makes life less tedious is good
frustrating that even though i took great pains to say i could be the guy on the barstool next to you on occasion that you interpret it that way
my point was and is that to immerse yourself in this lifestyle ONLY isn't exactly normal and without a price
i didn't get a nickname like devil being in relationships all the time
but i'll take the times i've been in those close relationships over random sex everytime
random P4P is always out there when you want it, oldest profession in the world
just seems a tad shallow to make it your only outlet for whats a pretty amazing human experience
please tell me you get where i'm coming from
you comparison to politics is apt because people just polarize and stop listening
i'm not looking down on anyone