Scuba1 wrote:
(Oh....about the Japanese exchange student - you have lots more to tell, I think

Inquiring minds want to know

Assuming it was a female <save the story if not please> exchange student

lets hear it! )
Well, I was in seventh grade so about 12, just really starting to notice girls especially the cute cheerleader that sat in front of me in Texas History. Very slim, blonde, blue eyes, ivory skin etc... Ended up on/off with her for the next 5 years. Anyway, same year my family hosted a female Japanese exchange student who was a senior and 18. As will happen with family living in the same house, saw her without clothing a couple of times and was just repulsed. She was so opposite of the girl I was 'infatuated' with at school that I think it just made a lasting impression that Asians girls just aren't sexually attractive. I see many and appreciate the beauty but wouldn't waste a minute of time in trying to pursue them even though many have what I seek most....extreme flaca (Spanish for skinny).
It's not really ethnic for me so much as other things. I love the slim girls (my steady is 82-86lbs.) and am not attracted to any 'larger' no matter the race/color/religion. I'd take a plain flaca like blonde Monica at SL over a beautiful, more voluptuous girl like Karen at HLH or Ana at SL any day...just how I am. Can't explain it, sometimes wish it weren't that way but it is...brain is just wired that way.
Other thing is attitude. Two beautiful Colombians used to work DR 4-5 years ago and I referred to them as tiny and tinier. I bet I talked to them 100 times but I always got such a cold, business like attitude I never pulled either of them. And they aren't the only examples of that.
Then we could get into how heterosexuals are prejudice because they aren't attracted to men and the reverse how homosexual men are prejudice against women because they aren't sexually attracted to them but we know that is utter rubbish.
Just wanted to make the point that a sexual preference doesn't have anything to do with a racial stereotype, it's just how one person's mind (male or female) is wired and what they find attractive in a potential lover/mate.