I know exactly where you are coming from with all these questions. What you will find is that you have to go with the flow and do what you want. You can read and read on here all you want but what matters is what is right for you.
There are no and I mean no specific answers to your questions. The only real answers come from experience and what works for you. You will only learn this through experience. It's a great way to learn.
From what I get from your posts you are looking for a little more. That is someone you can hang with and have fun with. Again, that's not what everyone wants. But if it is then wait till you find one you enjoy spending time with and talking to.
You have to find what works for you. Florida is the master. If you ever see him work there is nothing like it. Other guys can't do what he does. So what.
If I understand you are looking for one to spend a lot of time with. Forget everything you are supposed to do and be yourself. Keep meeting girls and you will find one you really like. Some guys will say sure but wait you got to worry about "this" you better do "that". Hey that's what this forum is for. Believe me I may not post much but I have been reading this forum and the one even before it for many years. You get the basics but after that you have to learn and make mistakes and find what works for you.
For example: You mentioned will she only do one pop and go. I don't know, but yes it is common. Still if you take the time to find one you like she may stay as long as you want. You are a day guy so if you like her and have a good time offer to take her to dinner. This also goes with the do I pay for a taxi, get her a taxi whatever. Well they can get their own taxi or if you like walk her back, play some pool at key largo with her. The answers to everything will come by doing what is right for you. Everyone is different, both the men on the board and the women in the bars.
You mentioned you are older. I assume you have found in life that you can read all you want but you learn the most by doing. I think you got this. Now just learn by doing.
Cheers and have fun.
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