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To All the Current & Former M Men

Well, I’ve been around this board for some time and I have experienced the M Men club mentality and lately have come full circle back to being the complete pig that I know that I am. I like women. I like the variety of women; I like the hunt, the chase, the negotiation the close. I like the action the unknown of what will come next tonight. I like the strippers, the cocktail waitresses, the bartenders, simply stated I am a dog.

I have been on both sides of the street, from the sport phucker to the relationship guy serious to only one during the last 5 years of my escapades to CR and other places. For me I’ve tried to have relationships with the “Semi Pro” to relationships with ex ******* & strippers never a full time HDR gal. I don’t care how good they have been to me, how much I enjoy them being next to me in the AM, how much I rather have someone who cares for me laying next to me, I still like the all of the aforementioned.

What does that make me if not a puto myself. Is there something wrong with me? If I started to analyze that I may never go out again. Bottom line as much as I wanted to be an M Men, I couldn’t do it. I could not rid myself of my philanderers’ ways. So the question presented to all the past present and current members of the M club. How do you feel now? Have you reverted back? Have you stayed the course? Have you started to slip but just haven’t fallen down. Inquiring minds want to know. I know for one that well, I am a dog.

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The Boss of All Bosses!!! Hey I'm a drunk alcoholics go to meetings!

Great post ... this reminds me of two conversaions with 2 CRTers.

1) This person was in a GFFE type relationship. When she was mad of his philandering ways he reminded her that when they met she was a working gal and he was a dog ... nothng has changed

2) The second story is of someone who said they have been married a few times. Nothing wrong with the ladies they were great ... he just wasnt the marrying kind ... or for that matter monogomous kind.

Personally when I think back to high school and university I was never the type that needed more than one. Id rather let the one run its course and see where it goes. At the same time many friends liked to juggle and had several on the go at once. When they settled down, they were faithful .... for a while

I guess look in the mirror each and everyone of us. Some like variety, others like 1 on 1 .. (or as VB said he likes maonogomous relationships .. but should have several in parallel)

Once you look internally and see yourself for who you are and realize in the words of Popeye "Yse am what yse am" you will be happy.

For me my first few trips to CR I tried the 2 - 3 - 4 different gals in a day .. and while dont get me wrong it was very interesting ... it just wasnt for me

Good luck to each person .... the secret to success is for your mind and heart and penis to all agree what type of guy you are

Welcome to my world! For me it is the only way to be. Reality is, I think most eventually will join us. Do not beat your self up. There is nothing wrong with understanding the way you are.

Just because we except our lust LOL it does not make us wrong.

I am the luckiest man on earth. I am currently in me second marriage. After the first I thought I'd never get married again. My current wife is an ex-stripper who completely understands the person that I am. We spoke about the type of person that I am before we took the plunge. She adopted a don't see don't tell attitude. If she doesn't see it and I don't tell her about it, IT didn't happen.

I told her and she knew I was a DOG when she met me and I'll be a DOG till I die. We actually have a very good relationship my forays enable me to get rid of needs that she cannot satisfy. Like the need to hunt, thrill of the chase, the capture, and the climax. Well she can take care of the climax but I have an inherent need to be a DOG.



Xman

Xman,
You are INDEED a lucky man. Hopefully, your relationship will stand the test of time.
Mikey-B

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You ALWAYS have an option ....... "NEXT" !!!

Capo,

Interesting and honest post. First of all, no - there's nothing wrong with you. As mentioned many times here as well as in a number of scientific journals and "relationship" books, it is simply the ancestral and evolutionary role of the male of the species to want to spread his seed as much as possible. Simply put, it's in our genes, and there's nothing we can do about it.

However, like with most everything in life, you have a choice. And if you have a Latina novia, you pretty much have to make a choice, given their notorius jealousy. Though I'll admit to the temptations being very strong while in Costa Rica (hell, I can walk into the bar any hour of the day at Sportsmens and see several or more girls I've been with previously), I'm choosing to stay the course. Though it isn't without it's challenges, I LIKE being in a relationship, I LIKE the fact that someone I find to be very sweet and beautiful genuinely loves and cares for me, and I LIKE the higher level of intimacy it adds to the lovemaking.

But if you want to be a "dog" as you put it, don't beat yourself up or feel any guilt about it. That's a legitimate choice as well. I think the problem occurs for some in this hobby when they confuse mongering with the quest for genuine affection. It sometimes felt weird when a girl with whom I'd just had a fantastic "GFE" session preferred to just "take the money and run", instead of staying the rest of the night with me, but it's all in the nature of the game. And to be successful in that game and avoid getting hurt, you really have to learn not to feel. But then, that's part of what makes us human, isn't it?

You are INDEED a lucky man. Hopefully, your relationship will stand the test of time.
Mikey-B[/quote]


Mikey,

we've been together 14 years now and we really don't have any problems. Financially we are fine, we're good friends and have an active sex life.

I'm just a DOG with no leash.


Xman

If you guys don't mind, I have to put my two cents...

BOW WOW

Everyone has a valid point and should be respected as such for everyone's situation varies.
Thanks everyone for the valiuable insight.

muff

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Respectfully,

Muff

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To be totally honest I like women. I like their smell, their smile, their hair, their cute, tight butts and their perky breasts.

I like to hold them, dance with them, travel with them, kiss them and make love with them. I also like romance and passion.

I don't like FAT CHICKS.

I also don't like bitchy, unreasonable, demanding, selfish, childish, overbearing, judgemental women.

Even though I've been known to partake, I don't really like a "relationship" founded on a strictly economic basis.

Therefore, I prefer to be in a monogomous relationship.
I'm 52 and really don't need much variety anymore. I've been married 3 times and have no Ch*ldren. I DO NOT have the need to "spread my seed" which is my I am currently divorced.

All I want is one woman I can share my life with. Someone who will look at me as I look at her. Someone who believes in me and respects me.
Of course some hot mutual sex is always a plus.

I travel NOT to have sex with as many beautiful, young women as possible. That is merely a very nice byproduct. I would give it all up (again) for the right women.

I will be continuing my search later this year.

In the meantime, NEXT!

Like Whitling, I'm up there in age. I am one who has to admit that I'm in a monogomus relationship. The "comfort zone" with a chica is important to me. After searching and searching, I feel I finally found what I want - so why search anymore? Bottom line is that I'm happy and I want to keep it that way. No changes.
LVSteve

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Just an old horney, fat gambler.

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Pura Vulva! Wandering through the dark, I am El Ciego.

Oops, my calibrated proofreading eye missed that one. What would Dr. Freud say about that?

Note to LVSteve: Who said I was "up there in age"? I still think I'm 35.

I'm not searching any more...but...if it finds ME...what can I do?