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Well, I wanted #400 to be of at least a little interest so here it is:
I have been spending most of the past few months with one chica that VB introduced me to. I pay most of her bills (after all, it is her casa and I get 3 meals and laundry service along with fantastic and frequent sexo) but I don't give her cash-except for a few mil colones here and there.
Last week, I stayed in and took care of the 2 k*ds so she could spend 2 nights with a regular gringo who was in town.
Funny thing was, when she came home each morning, we had great sexo and it didn't bother me at all.
Does this make me a "cuckhold?"

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Think the $$ she is saving on babysiters

Nahhh, a real cuckold is a guy that lets his chica screw around on him but doesn't get any of his own on the side. Um, that's not you is it? Of course, the novias don't quite see it that way since they get paid for it and you don't, so you have to keep any of your extracurricular activity on the low down (not to be confused with "down low" which I hope does not apply to any of our black brothers here). In latin cultures it is just expected that guys will cheat, and its okay as long as they're discreet and don't do it in the girls face. Its "need to know" and they don't need to know. OTOH, its a double standard and most ticos would not approve of what your chica is doing unless they got a piece of the action. Be thankful she's being straight with you and not doing it behind your back as many chicas would.

Anyway, IMHO, if I were in your position it wouldn't bother me either. Whatever it takes so that I don't have to pay all the bills. I would make sure she was taking reasonable precautions though and not succumbing to any pressures to go bare F/S with any of these guys. For that matter, I wouldn't be going bare F/S with her either. At least if you don't want one of those rugrats to be one of yours in a few years.

Well i have only one question for you...How does the other gringo taste?

LOL, Lou that wasn't very nice!!!
Sparky

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Almost legally single again! Voy a Colombia otra vece!!

No need to be rude. I had the opportunity to meet scuba with my brother earlier this year and he is a great guy. No need to be disrespectful.

Scuba is a home boy. S FL. baby...or whats left of it
Sparky

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Almost legally single again! Voy a Colombia otra vece!!

It's no different with swinging. People do it all the time. And if you are over 25 it has been along time since somebody else ain't been there. As a matter of fact I did read about a swing club in CR. Don't know if it is tourist or local. Comunail hot tub therapy goes back awhile to. Gringa's allways say that they don't want to be treated as a possesion. But I think they do. But if a woman is not a possesion then just like you can not tell a male freind who He can Phuck. What gives you a right to tell Her. I will say that it is real hard to beleive what a woman tells you about this stuff. I would suggest you spend your time on your feelings.

I could be wrong but I'd be very surprised if this were either. It is probably for gringo & gringa ex-pats. Like I said before, extracurricular activity is common if not even universal among tico men. Tica women may cluck their tongues and shake their heads and laughingly remark what dogs all us men are, but it is what they expect. What they don't like is to be directly confronted with it or shamed by it. Their guys are expected to keep their infidelities well hidden or discrete. I can't really say if its common for tica women to cheat like the men, but I'd guess that it is much less common. Their are 2 types of ticas - wives and mistresses - and never the twain should meet. The double standard is strong in the latin culture and I'd be very surprised to hear of a tico that would put up with his wife being with another man for one instant whether it were out in the open or she tried to hide it from him UNLESS he was getting some money for it. The only way I'd see him possibly bringing any woman to a swing club would be if it were his mistress but never his wife.

Scuba,I promised you that I would no longer be drawn into your dramas. What you choose to do with your life isn't my business. However one thing puzzles me with your latest post here. When you say that you stayed home to babysit her Ch*ldren so that she could go out with a regular Gringo,what do you mean by that? What's a regular Gringo?Do you mean that he is having two days of sex with her for money or for free. You are obviously different from the MMen. They see one novia in an exclusive relationship. You see one novia,but she sees other men. Obviously she ISN'T AN MWOMAN.

Hey chunk,
What makes you think i don't know him? If i post something to him, it is to him, not to you. I know the man, met him and he's a great guy. It was a joke dude, so do me a favor and mind your own business! Sure i post something on here it is everyone's business, however, i was asking him a question. Know the facts first dude!
Lou

Superman....

Come on, you post something here, and it is fair game..Also, I was very tempted to say something about your post prior to Chunk, as in the context of what my our good pal Scaba posted, I certainly took your post as a really bad joke, or D*Cky sarcasm. Of course, you will now say that this is none of my business, and that is your right as well. Yet, when a very experienced member is honest and vulnerable with what has been going on for them, they deserve the respect of a dignified challenge (i.e. VB post above), support, or saying nothing. But, that is my opinion, and you can respond back to me as you wish.

As I do not know you, I will assume it was just a joke that came across in a manner other than it was meant.

Beer on me if with meet.

Psychman

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He's had his fill with mine.
Scuba, Scuba my good buddy. We need to chat. I'll PM you later.

dapanz1

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Guys- I wasn't offended in any way by Superman. He is a great guy and to answer his question: She tasted pretty good! No evidence of anyone else having been there-except for a freshly shaved papaya (which she claimed is all he did but I'm not buying that one. I couldn't resist going down on that!
VB- this is the guy from NY that sends her money regularly. I saw a WU for $400. The LAST thing I would do is to come between that. In fact there are a few regular customers that live here. The phone rings daily. I wouldn't mind a chance to hang with the boys more often, but enless she is pissed at me, she blows them off.

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Psy, the joke wasn't for you so it really doesn't matter that it "came across in a manner other than it was meant" to you.

And yes sir, i will take you up on that offer for a beer, not a Imperial or Pielsen either, some nice Corona or Heiniken will do.

Scuba, long time no see, i hope you are okay. I will be in costa in a couple days, anything you want me to take? Hit me up man, i think you have one of my cards, if not PM me.
Lou