Boinker, welcome....
what can be more powerful to shut down the BS radar than that magic pu*sy, attached to a girl who otherwise pushes all the right buttons, says the right things, pulls the right strings of your heart...
A force to reckoned with, no doubt, even for the most cynical....
I almost got my ass kicked for allowing my BS radar to break down...
I had a girl from Panama come to my town, to come for english classes for 9 or 10 weeks... I was the lucky guy who she chose to date first, and until close to the end, I was the only one. I know this because outside of her classes, she was with me constantly. She was fine as hell, a true spinner, with almost no sexual experience, but a willing student. Not too far in to our time together, she began to profess her love for me. Not just I love you etc.... but stuff like... You are the only one on the earth for me, you are THE one, and if I can't be with you, the rest of my life will be a disappointment. Wow. she gave me her all, and she was so hot and sexy towards me, its enough to make a grown man cry. I was 34, she was 24. She was also a great girl in many other ways, absolutely adorable.
After years of being with an unappreciative, cruel, bitchy, overweight gringa, I was an easy target for her latina magic.
My BS radar should have already been going off, but honestly, I have heard this love stuff before. In fact, I would have been surprised NOT to hear it, since after all, I AM a sexy bitch.
I am thinking to myself, I already determined to go to Latin America to seek a suitable mate, here I have this little goddess eating from my hand, I should not let her go! Only a fool would let this girl go.
Problem is, she would either need a direct commitment from me, or she would have to go back to Panama after the schooling. So, commit to marrying her in less than 2 months, or lose her.
Well, I decided I could not make that call under that circumstance. Something just told me, it was not cool. These things can work, but there was an intangible red flag I could not ignore. Finally, I sadly had to break her heart, and send her on her way. Tore me up! I must be a fool, I think. But, though the heart may influence me, my brain must also have a say, and my brain could not line up.
With a heavy heart, I say goodbye, forever grateful to this little vixen, for giving herself to me, for the glorious sex, the sweetness. She cured me of many things still tormenting me from my marriage / divorce. I still am grateful, after all, she gave me the most erotic moments of my 35 years.
Her last week or two, she stopped coming around, and that was fair enough, after all, I rejected her. Shortly after her departure date, I get a call from the lady she had been living with. Lady says that one of the other students has spotted her, downtown with another guy. No doubt it was her, she says.
This girl was gringo hunting.
You can't blame her, I would do the same in her shoes. She is certainly not the first. But what will happen to that poor guy? will she "love him forever" genuinely?, or will she vanish after her SSN comes.....? Will she place demands that he send money to Panama family, or even ship them up here? Will she take half his stuff?
If I ever marry again, I do not want a gringo hunter. Their motives are not love. If I wanted a conniving bitch, I would have stayed with my ex.
Though my BS radar was MIA, somehow I dodged that bullet.
So few of us, though, are truly immune to their powers, and I don't know that I want to be immune, totally.
I think in the end, time tells all, and if I have to make a snap decision, it will always be no. If a guy falls in love, foreign girl or not, there is NO advantage to rush, for him. Everything tends to come out in the wash.
The heartbreak that comes occasionally, and the game of "spot the bullsh*t" is an interesting one, and keeps me playing....
VB still has a fair approach.... "fall in love with a new one everytime", and curing heartbreak with "go phuck 5 other girls real quick then see how you feel"
There is still a part of me that may take the plunge, especially for a certain Tica at this moment....hey, you only live once, right?
Those real dolls from the link on the last post are hilarious! If they could get one to say a few spanish phrases, I would get one and never leave the house. "fuerte, que rico"
Any single guy needs to do all he can to keep his BS radar at full tilt, knowing that right when we think we are invincible, it is then that we are at our weakest, because we drop our vigilant focus....
Funny post! Welcome Boinker! Anyone else got a story?
-KS
on the internet and she was already married to a much older guy. She was 24 and I was 41 and her husband was older than me. She told me that she didn't love him and that he was oppressive - she was with him so her daughter was cared for. She didn't work because he wouldn't let her (oh yeah! - radar fail on this one big time). Eventually, he allowed her to come live with me (really) - oh my God this is embarrassing. (This girl was never an official working girl - she gave it up for support but never sold herself to my knowledge.)