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This is an interesting topic I have been researching. Some may think that the gal really loves you. Well lets pretend she does .. haha ... while she has another guys d*ck in her mouth why should she be bothered that you are with another. Other lines of thought are that she is really missing your wallet. Personally, although I am sure there are many reasons, I think the most likely is that it is a human nature response. she looks at the other gal and wonders to herself, why the hell you would rather be with the other one when you could be with her.

I wanted to post this topic because a few of our "MAWGs" (aka married to a working gal" have stated they cant go out to the DR or hang with the boys or are afraid of being caught.

One word of advice. As with all "relationships" you need to actively set ground rules. If you want your balls in her hands then let her set the tone. If not, once you think you want to see her a lot, establish what YOU will accept, and what you wont.

You missed at least one other choice in your poll;
ALL OF THE ABOVE

Women, like government, don't have to make sense or use logic.

Whatever crisis a bedwarmer has is her problem, not mine.

Once you accept that fact, life becomes simpler.

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It is cheaper to pay now and get it over with.
It is also easier to get them to leave.

hmmmm interesting, i know mi novia does not want any girls enjoying my 2 inch d.ck

I think alot of it has to do with the duration of the "relationship." I'll assume that in the original post that the relationship is relatively new. If that is the case then I think the answer is a combination of #2 and #3. Everyone wants to maintain self esteem, including working girls. But, my vote, given only the details present in the original post, is for missing the wallet.

dapanz1

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Paradise= Sitting outside the Bodega in Panama City about 1 am. Drinking cool Balboas with cool friends and blazin' hot Colombianas. I want to be there..RIGHT NOW!

I agree with Dapanz. I'd say it is mostly wallet with a little ego thrown in mostly as a secondary motivation. If love is a motivation at all, it is only because they can sometimes become as deluded by the BFE as we are by the GFE. When you dig deeper our attraction between old gringo and young chica is mainly based upon lust and greed respectively with perhaps a touch of emotional fondness thrown on top, but not real love.

Come on... Let's be realistic. If she really loved you, she'd stop phucking for money.

I don't buy into this whole concept that they are "forced into the life" because of hardship. My maid doesn't screw for money, and she's got as tough a life as any girl I've met. (Most) of my Nicaraguan friends don't screw for money, and they're a lot worse off then most of these Tica providers I've met.

Let's face it: They do it because it's an easy buck. IF hot chicks would pay me to have sex with them instead of having to work a real job, I'd do it too.

Wanna know why they get pissed off when you go with another girl? Because:

A.) They're kooky. A+B= W to them. Who cares that they're phucking 10 other guys and you should be 100% faithful to them. There's no logic in those beautiful little heads.

and:

B.) Wouldn't you be pissed if your client started doing business "on the side" with one your competitors-- all the while assuring you, "No problem. I love the quality of your product!" -- You'd probably be a little freaked out, too.

(Sorry-- I realized I just created my own poll responses.)

It's sounds easy. But, what if fat ugly chicks would pay you, would you want to have sex with them? Not so easy then.

-Orange

MMmmm.... yeah. I probably would.

Is there a propina involved, for good performance?

"Oy, Mami... Que Rica!"

I think I can do this!!!

I think women are always in competition with each other. Their biological baggage makes them this way. It just becomes obvious in p4p situations.

Rolex......after 4 trips (a total of 30 nights over 5 months... back last night after 8 nights) and much observation and experience I'll concur that you're 100% correct. I have yet to meet one chica that I believe is being forced to do what they're doing. It's the money. They tend to live for the here and now and want to suck the wallet dry all at once if possible. They forget about tomorrow in many cases. Repete business is an unknown concept at times as well. I'll add 1 more observations.

Sometimes, they actually do enjoy your company. When you see another chica they get miffed because they are still women with feelings who feel some rejection when your attention is directed elsewhere. A great example is Angie and Sharon. I'll write up a report asap to explain.

Kooky??? Not only that, but moronic, stupid and brain dead on occasion....LOL!

Berk......

I agree for the most part with Berk and Rolex. As far as whether I would do it, I also agree with Orange. Let's face it, most of us are not the male equivalent of hot chicks. The fact that so many of them are willing to have sex with many not-so hot fat ugly guys while you or I probably wouldn't has got to be for some reason. I'm sure there are some gender and cultural differences that account for part of it but I have to think economics play at least some part too. That said there are also plenty of chicas that don't resort to prosititution. Bottom line: not the greatest job in the world or even the easiest, but easily the most financially rewarding for the least amount of time and effort. In a country with only about 5-7% unemployment where plenty of people manage quite well without having to resort to selling their bodies it is hard to argue that anyone is forced to do this. What happens is that some balance the pros and cons and choose to do it while others weigh them differently and choose not to.

What I really wanted to add to the discussion is this. If anyone here really feels that these girls are doing what they do because they are FORCED to and have no other options, than they really need to evaluate what they are doing because that would mean that they're taking advantage of (aka exploiting) these poor women.

Okay, a few thoughts. I don't believe FORCED is an accurate word. I would say, instead, that many of them are doing it RELUCTANTLY. I know several who work in the sex trade not to get rich, and not because they are nymphomaniacs or drug addicts, but because it provides a better life for their Ch*ldren. There are definitely others who are out to get rich or love to party every night, for sure, but having gotten to know many of these ladies rather well, many would not be doing this if they could find a job that payed even as much as Walmart.

In these cases, my attitude is this: I don't have the resources to hire even one of these girls into a 'regular' job. The best I can do is to treat them with respect and kindness. I feel no guilt in paying them in an hour what they would earn working in a shop all day. If they can go home to the little buckaroos and spend time with them, so much the better.

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Prolijo has a good point. I think (especially the gals from other countries) CHOOSE to do this. for example, the smarter ones (and I use that term very very loosely!) will look at a tour in the DR as a way to work for a few months for either themselves or their families. I know 3 Paisas of whom i have met their families. The K*ds (each has only 1) are very well behaved and seem to be educated. Some gals (again not the norm) look at this as a way to get a beter life for their K*ds.

I dont think they are forced, but they simply look at the options and decide this gets from point A to B with the most cash .. and I agree the easiest

My thinking is the exact opposite. We have all heard of the Colombian cartel where the girls are imported and "controlled" by a madam. In this instance, I would call it force. True or not, I don't know. Dominican Republic, please. Security guards at the airport make $100/MONTH. They may not be "forced" physically to work as prostitutes. But, what are the alternatives? I have seen the face of poverty in the Dominican Republic. Imagine trying to support a mother, father and Ch*ld, extended family making those kind of wages. The coercion may not be physical but trying to make those kind of wages in the DR or Colombia is impossible. Techinically, did they CHOSE to work as a prostitute..yeah, I guess. But, really, there is no choice.

Now, not to offend anyone. But, the Ticas have a family structure in Costa Rica to assist with the raising of the young ones. They have a familiar environment in which to live. I think the Ticas are more the ones that CHOOSE to work. Am I condemning it?? Obviously not since I support the cause everytime I am in CR. I mean, what do you guys think is the draw to Costa Rica for the foreign women? Prostitution is legal in the Dominican, Colombia etc... But, supply and demand always meet. The provider will get what the market will bear. The market demands much higher "wages" in Costa Rica. Think about Cancun. In the early days it was a haven for North American men. Now, what will $100 get ya in Cancun????? The women follow the North American/European male. For example, we go to Sosua..the women follow.

Revelation coming..... the girls from foreign countries are not thrilled to be living and working in CR away from their families and friends and familiar surroundings. Anyone surprised by that? It is just that the circumstances of their homeland will not provide sustenence for an entire family. I'm convinced that the natives are the ones who choose the line of work.

dapanz1

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A few comments:

Why do working gals get mad when you go with another gal. My personal opinion is that these girls look upon what thay are doing as a job.
That job is a girlfriend for hire. In their society and for that matter in this one if the person you are seeing is not being faithful you're supposed to react in a certain manner. So logic would follow that once you've paid them to be your girlfriend if they see you with another girl they must react in a jealous way. That is what you've paid them for. The jealous retraction is a fulfillment of their contract.
Lee

Forced or seduced by money:
What I really wanted to add to the discussion is this. If anyone here really feels that these girls are doing what they do because they are FORCED to and have no other options, than they really need to evaluate what they are doing because that would mean that they're taking advantage of (aka exploiting) these poor women.

If it was not for the paycheck and the benefits would I get up and go to work each day? No I would not. If I had someone who would pay me to stay home and play on my computer all day I would be doing that and not going to work. Now does that imply I am forced to work. I decide that the paycheck and the benefits are worth what I am doing.

These girls are making a choice. They are deciding to show up at the BM and let us pay them well to do what her boyfriend are husband would not pay them so well to do. Yes it is unfortunate that they live in an economy where there are not more opportunities. It goes back to the story of why do people rob banks that is where the money is. I get up to go to work each day because they pay me the girls show up the BM because their is money to be made.

Lee

I'm convinced that the natives are the ones who choose the line of work.
They all choose this line of work. The process that led up to that choice is different. Access to the best markets for your product is more difficult depending on your location of origin. On a related subjects that is why the Colombians charge more because they have more overhead. They must support themselves in a foreign country where the locals do not have to. Increased cost will increased price.

To say that these girls are forced to do with thay are doing implys unwillingness. Yes most of them would like to be doing something else. But to say they are forced would be to say there is someone back at their home with a gun to the head of their Ch*ld waiting for them to return with the money. That ain't happening.
Lee

The fact that so many of them are willing to have sex with many not-so hot fat ugly guys while you or I probably wouldn't has got to be for some reason.
Man are attracted to sex appeal and beauty. Women or attracted to wealth and power with looks a distant third.
Lee

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