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Author:  Solamente [ Fri Jul 22, 2005 2:04 pm ]
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Funny article about the poor fat gringa and the poor slob married to her

http://women.msn.com/988650.armx

Makes me thankful for single life....

KS
Author:  Solamente [ Fri Jul 22, 2005 2:07 pm ]
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one more...

http://women.msn.com/955396.armx
Author:  RemoveB4Flight [ Fri Jul 22, 2005 6:53 pm ]
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i didn't read the whole thing, well only one paragraph, but what i though was funny is how the one woman calls her fat "pregnancy weight", and it's been TWO years since she gave birth. After a month to recouperate any wife of mine better be hittin the treadmill...

But seriously, at least her husband is honest with her about what he thinks of her... funny that women spend so much time worried about what their man thinks, wanting him to be honest with his feelings, and wondering what they can do to make the guy more attracted to them... and here the guy is laying it out to her in no uncertain terms: "You are too fat, i think you should lose weight" Boom, there it is. But instead of rejoicing in his honesty, she blames him, her parents, her K*ds, society, and anyone else that comes to mind as to why she hasn't gotten off her fat ass to drop the pounds.

I'm out on the singles scene all the time, and i'm a magnet for single moms, a lot of whom i'm sure at one time were hot chicks. Then they met the wrong guy, got knocked up, got screwed over, now they are out looking for a "real man", yet they are still carrying that extra chub from pregnancy as well as the post birth, post breakup depression period. It's not the K*D half the time that turns me off about the deal, it's knowing that this girl has already started to let herself go. Red flags, buzzers sounding.... next!

I told my 5'1" 105 pound ex-girlfriend a couple times i thought she was getting a lil chunky in the belly, and she promptly went down to an even "cien".... ah the power of persuasion

you want to keep a hot chick loyal? keep her self concious
Author:  Goal [ Fri Jul 22, 2005 6:59 pm ]
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Thanks for posting Gawd I am exhausted just reading all her whining.

It wasn't till I started traveling that I realized how Phucking Phat Gringas and Americans in general are...
Author:  Coxslinger [ Sat Jul 23, 2005 12:33 am ]
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SubAtomic wrote:
I'm out on the singles scene all the time, and i'm a magnet for single moms, a lot of whom i'm sure at one time were hot chicks. Then they met the wrong guy, got knocked up, got screwed over, now they are out looking for a "real man", yet they are still carrying that extra chub from pregnancy as well as the post birth, post breakup depression period. It's not the K*D half the time that turns me off about the deal, it's knowing that this girl has already started to let herself go. Red flags, buzzers sounding.... next!


Well said SubAtomic. I have been caught up in this situation at least half a dozen times. In addition to letting their bodies go, another problem I have observed deals with a single mother's mental health and behavior.

There are several things or factors that I want to know:

1. Is the bio-father still in the picture? Do they share custody? If so, this is a huge headache for us because of the logistical demands of tranporting the banned word back and forth. The mom will also try to con you into crossing paths with HIM to show off that she has a new man... Wants to show you off like a trophy. Never, never, never give into this request. Nothing good can come of it.

2. Her comments about the banned word's dad can be a good indication of her personality. If she blames him for all her problems, you can bet your ass that she will blame YOU for everything before you know it. A significant percentage of single moms are single for a reason. Most of the ones that I have gotten to know have some form of Personality Disorder (Dependent, Histrionoic, or Borderline). It is in our best interest to do a little research to know the signs and symptoms.

3. How much is she jacking the guy for Ch*ld support? This is usually an easy topic for her to discuss because what ever it is, it is never enough. Each state has different regulations. Also ask the momma if the bio-dad is paying for health insurance. My last single mom has the best health insurance money could buy (through her job), but she was still punishing the guy that "abondoned" her by making him pay $115 per month for the K*d'z health insurance that was totally unnecisary.

I will post more of my thoughts later. Thanks for letting me vent some of my frustration!

Coxslinger
Author:  Coqui [ Sat Jul 23, 2005 10:49 am ]
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Ive dated all types of women some skinny and some chubby. Lately its been chubby since it seems like local skinny women who have no K*ds want everything handed to them on a silver platter.

For a while i was dating single moms. It was great at fist, they were needy and by default your the best thing to ever happen to them. But theres always a flaw, in my experiences i would either get them dropping everything for the jerk of the father or trying to take out their anger with me in essence punishing me for crimes i didnt commit. Im sure over time they would get over these "issues" but im not looking to be a thearapist.

Im a hefty guy and i got to tell you that the reason im hefty is because i dont excersize and i eat junk. This is not the result of mommy or daddy. This is not the result of not getting love or assosiating food with comfort. Its because im lazy! its because I dont feel like not picking up ice cream or potatoe chips.

If this woman truely wanted to loose weight then she would cook one thing for her husband and have a salad for herself. If they went out she would pick up a low fat meal while her husband chowed down some fat greasy pasta. I quit soda almost 6 months now. If my friends and i go out they drink soda do you see me following in suit? no i buy a water.

But see heres the kicker these women they blame their husbands for not being understanding and berating them for being fat but lets be honest the men wouldnt bring it up if they wouldnt stop complaining about their boddies or making a sad face when they see a skinny woman walking down the mall or on tv.

If you have a weight problem that you want to change then buckle down and deal with it. But dont sit there whinning and fighting with your partner. No one chooses what goes in your mouth. Only you do.
Author:  Gopher [ Sat Jul 23, 2005 6:54 pm ]
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Depressing article. It bothers me when I hear people say "its my Mama's fault that I'm fat. Pass the fried chicken."
Author:  Solamente [ Sat Jul 23, 2005 11:30 pm ]
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hilarious!
Its truly is a case in point of the insanity of women when they get fat and don't take full accountablility. Isn't it just like a woman, especially a gringa, to behave in any way it pleases her from moment to moment, and then blame everyone else.
You can tell Coqui is a guy because he is perfectly direct about it. Why can't the girls be that way. Do something about it, or shut the phuck up, girls. Women should also, after all these years be able to recognize that while men can get away with an imperfect or heavy physique, women can't. Everyone KNOWS men are more visual. Women should do WHATEVER IT TAKES to maintain their appearance, or accept that their romantic future is now crap, probably for the rest of their lives. Age is not kind to anyone, but especially folks who aren't diligent about their appearance. (including me, a little).
As for single moms, if you can talk a little bullsh*t there are a million of them that will sleep with you. They are an endless resource. A couple problems tho... even tho they are not MY ex-wife, they are someone's.
That puts the girl in the same boat as the girl I fled from....and I'm NOT getting back in the boat. There other thing is that they are almost always overweight to some degree, and they are a dime a dozen. I may have to phuck one from time to time to get by, but there aren't going to be any wedding bells. Even a hot Latina would need a miracle to get a ring from me, and I LOVE them.
It's my mama's fault I'm fat. Pass the fried chicken. LMAO!!!
My ex did this.... smoked cigarettes, ate whatever, would try to quit unhealthy things for like a day, bitched about me not 'meeting her needs' then ate a whole phucking cake, and capped it off with a smoke.
Of course honey, I still love you (uhhhhhh...... :roll: ) Then of course she would top it off by being shocked and VERY offended if she thought I glanced at any girl that looked any better than her, which many did...
Things like this make CR that much more appealing... and might I say, that if anyone has gone through this kind of thing, they could be more vulnerable to the "falling in love w chicas" thing because it all sucked so bad in the past, and they can be SO sweet.
Thanks for letting me vent... its all so funny to me now, but when I was married... not so much
KS
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