with Adam Sandler as a regular guy and good father, married to crazy American bitch, falling under the spell of gorgeous Latina, Paz Vega. (actually from Spain)
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0891895/
Probably not a good idea to watch with esposa or S.O., as director/writer James Brooks seems to have some of our point of view on which way Sandler ought to go. Pretty painful to watch Tea Leoni's over-the-top portrayal of the nutzoid "soccer mom," in contrast with the noble and passionate housekeeper.
This one really hits someone like me, whose perspective is shifting more Southward by the month. Again, thanks to all Brothers here who are helping me see the possibilities and pitfalls of it all, and get up to speed in record time, for me anyway.