Prolijo,
Really prolijo I think you are reading way too much out of my post? I really see it as fairly simple. Would love to sit down over a couple of beers & really cover a lot more ground quickly on all this.
I am not even referring to anything in your post. When I started typing my reply to darren17 your post wasn't even here yet. I am responding back to Darren17 & that is why his name is at the top of my post not yours. I didn’t even read much of your post so I don’t know where & how you came up with your statement that I must have misconstrued your original post Really that simple??? Maybe this is why you are so confused. If I was referring to your post wouldn't I have your name in there somewhere or one of your quotes? I am not trying to be a smart ass here but do you see any of that???
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Clearly women do not fall only into the black & white categories of saint or whore,
To me this is somewhat of a question about what categories of chicas exists in CR maybe you see it different. What I am explaining back to him is my findings as simple as that. Doesn't mean it is this way for everyone but I state these are my findings. Look I started going to CR many years ago & found out right away there where 2 kinds of Ticas.
You had the Ticas that made themselves available too you & those that didn’t. It was black & white too me & seemed to be nothing in between! I could phuck the one group but no way, not even with dating could I phuck the other group. It was obvious too me what I had to do at this point. I was looking for a serious relationship but didn’t like the prospects of this with a Tica that had K*ds as I had none. Many of the Ticas I met at discos, KL, Happy days etc seemed like they phucked around a lot to me. As I got to know many I found out why. This was ok for fun but could not see getting serious with this kind of Tica.
So I used them for fun & dated the real non-working class of Tica. I would have had a rough time just dating the non-working type as blue ball would have set in. So thank god for the working Ticas. I see it as playing both sides of the street & believe me I made the most of it!
I liked both sides of the street but didn’t like the major problems I saw with the working girls (putas) & we know how many they have. I started looking at all aspects of life in CR but I sure didn’t see much middle class there. It looked to me to be the haves & the have nots so it was again simple enough to me why fight all the problems I see with the have nots? The way I see it I was better off to spend my time going after the haves & that is where I put my big effort & it paid off big time!
I am not trying to boast here but I was very successful finding high class Ticas from families with money. I liked the fact that these Ticas were very educated, spoke multiple languages, had their own money, NO KIIDS and few problems if any. The only problem I wasn’t getting any PUUSSY! I have a very hard to achieve degree from a large university in the states & feel I would have been bored with a non educated type of TICA. Just trying to give you a little back ground of how I came up with my findings.
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I'm also a little confused by you're quoting Darren about things not being just black and white and then saying CR is "pretty much a 2 class society plain and simple". Are you disagreeing with him?
I don’t see what is so confusing for you? Darren17 quote:
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Clearly women do not fall only into the black & white categories of saint or whore
I am just letting him know what categories I have found there & describe the differences that I see. What is so hard here?
Prolijo you are far from stupid from what I have seen but to me you are way out in left field here to me? Now you have me confused.
The drug problem in CR I see as nothing compared to the problem we have in the US. You do not find the swollen hands from injecting there that I see here. I do not see needle marks or scars from this either. We could go into the drug issue but I don't have the time today you can argue what is a drug? Coffee is big in CR & caffeine is a drug. My point is the hardcore drug seen is not that bad from what I have seen not anywhere close to the US. The worst single spot for drug abuse I have seen is in the DR.
I do think from what I have seen & experienced that Gringotim has got the best handle on the class picture down there. I don't see much middle class at all & if someone does please point them out. All thru life I didn't waist my time going after things that were not rewarding so why do this in CR either. So I went after the upper class there & it paid off & to me was less work in the end than a problematic special out of KL. My experiences have shown me most guys go after the easy lay & never develop their true potential.
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I noticed much has been written about how easy it is to find Latinas for the purposes of marriage or prostitution, but I saw little discussion of a middle road:
I was trying to show Darren with my post that I have found little in the middle. You have the ones that phuck or the ones that don't. The ones that phuck, phuck a lot from what I have seen. You do have many poor girls that are not putas. They have normal jobs in stores but then again when I have been shopping in many of these stores they have asked me what are you doing tonight??? It is broader than what I posted but this was the short form. Darren17 only has 1 month. This is not long enough to me to really date a true non working girl & expect to get into her pants.
Just find really good working Chicas it will save you a lot of time. That is my take anyway.
Prolijo have you watched the movie Spanglish? If you have what are your thoughts on this movie? It is a comedy but wonder if you see many truths in this movie?
Gringotim,
I think you have it down about how the class structure exists in CR. You nailed it to me. This is exactly the way I see it. You have also stated in other posts I believe on your first few trips you saw these Ticas as simple & happy people & I see this just the same also.
One thing I want to throw in here since I have talked about dating upper class Ticas is that if you want to do this & be successful you have to win the mother & father over just as much or more as the Tica herself. It is hard to get accepted into these families & from what I have seen if her father doesn't like you, you are doomed!!!!!!! These Ticas will repect & honor their parents wishes over yours I have found!!!
Hope this helps,
Zippy
PS I do not like the words puta or whore as I have respect & understanding of the Chicas down there but it sure is a lot easier to type & clears up the meaning of what type of work a chica is doing.