Thanks for the replies, I was hoping to hear from our 3 wise men, and residents of CR.
First off VB,
I am nowhere near M-men status.

This is just a girl that I hooked up with 4 times in my 5 days in February and we seem to have "clicked", whatever that means. We've been emailing each other almost every day and no RFM yet.

I think this may the real thing.
I told her that I would be sending her a gift and she said that, if anything, I can give it to her when we see each other next. Would a real pro refuse a gift?
I won't be sending it because of the duties mostly, but also I heard that they "lose" packages. I used to sell on Ebay a couple years ago, I had a part-time home business for about 6 months. I once sent an $12 item to Canada and it cost the person like $25 duty to pick it up from UPS.