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 Post subject: The interview process.
PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2015 10:28 am 
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At times I wish Costa Rica was more like PI. There you tell the mamasan what you are after and they will bring out the girls who will service your particular needs or kinky activities. Want a BBBJ, culo, bondage, etc. and the girls who do so are lined up for you.

In San Jose, each girl requires an interview and negotiation which can be tedious.


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As I understand Costa Rican law, the "mamasan" role as you describe it, is probably unlawful as a third party in the p4p relationship. I could be wrong but that is how I see it.


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Definitely illegal in the eyes of Costa Rica law.

I was mainly just bitching. Sometimes I feel like I'm negotiation for a used car with these girls. USED being the key word. But then again they all tell me that they have never done this before and I'm their first.

Maybe they should get menus like a Nevada whorehouse so you know what they will and won't do.


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Some advice , since I have been down your road......I have found a few girls ( one that worked most nights at the sportmen , the other both day and night at the rey) both were girls I never took or even wated to ...but both were cool and sweet , I would share with them what I wanted , what I would pay ....in exchange , I would pay for some drinks or a few times dinner.....both had hooked up with wings of my group ( maybe without me having conversation s that might have never happened)
Of maybe the 6 or so set ups ...no disappointment s on my end.....sorry to say the sportsmen girl is out of the business.....
If you go looking for such a set up .....they are there....but expect some bullshit before you find one that will pay off


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Years ago there was a guy in CRT that had an interview sheet with about 15 questions. I believe it is on the forum somewhere. Myself, Sincity and Bulldog and a few more were at the table in the BM and received them. I remember Sincity gave one to a girl and she said yes to all but # 2 I forgot what #2 was and off they went.


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Maybe it's just my way of thinking, but the time spent "getting acquainted and flirting" seems to usually enhance my fun in the room. Now if I'm at Zona and just wanting a BJ, I may be more direct about my interests, but the girls there seem to expect just that. I can't imagine having good luck using a preprinted interview form to select one chica over another. It seems insulting, dehumanizing and naive to me. :shock:

Perhaps it's dependant upon your personal negotiating style. If you are abrupt and demanding, you can't be surprised if she's the same way. If you treat her like a special lady in the bar and in the room, most will respond positively and tell the other girls in the bar what a nice guy you are regardless of the $$ you give her. A free toothbrush and a bottle of Summer's Eve goes a long way. :lol: :roll:

If she gets bitchy or crazy acting at any time I just cut her loose and wish her the best. That's my way, but if your way works for you, then stick with it. If you want the cheapest nookie that you can get for the least amount of time expended, then you have no right to complain if she's bitchy, cold and mechanical. If you were to treat your accountant or attorney that way at home you would likely get the same result. :P :roll:

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Lennydo, +1000 on your post.

I am happy to know there is another person who thinks there is a better way than being so crass with a bunch of questions, either written or spoken.


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viewtopic.php?f=1&t=7397&hilit=+Interview

These were fun interview questionnaires to use. Even used them in Tijuana and Thailand. Some very funny results.

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bigmikeinkc wrote:

In San Jose, each girl requires an interview and negotiation which can be tedious.


I disagree. If your in the SL, for example, It doesn't have to be strictly an interview. I like the conversation, the getting to know the girl. My advice is take your time, relax, chat, laugh a bit, have some fun! Ask some questions during the conversation to establish ground rules, yes. But enjoy the give and take a little. Youre in exotic Central America potentially living in a Graham Greene novel, chatting up a puta, how cool is that?! It's why I like KL so much, you have to have some game and can be a lot of fun pretending to "chase."

Don't be in a hurry and don't make so much about the interview. (YMMV especially in the MPs)


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what kind of game to you need in KL ? The one game that works the best are the dollars or colones in your pocket.


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You miss the point. Why not pin a $100 bill to your Hawaiian shirt?


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Dave, that was a good bump of an old thread.
It was interesting to read the opinions of various members who have now fallen off the radar screen.
What was also very interesting was the fact that even though the posters had varying opinions about the interview list and also the CIEN question NO ONE jumped up and flamed anyone else.
Seems like we have too many opinionated, rude posters on this board today.

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I've never done an 'interview', and I very much doubt I ever will. Sure I have been disappointed sometimes, but surprisingly not very often. But then, my tastes are pretty mainstream.

I'm all for having a few drinks, maybe dancing a bit, getting to know her a little. I think I'm a good judge of people and I usually get it right. Sometimes I pick one that I don't really have chemistry with, just because she's so damn hot, and sometimes I get very pleasantly surprised. I'd say more often than not actually.

But of course, I've had my share of mediocre experiences, total waste of time and money. But I have the luxury of being here full time, so a lost night is no big deal, unlike those on a short vacation.

I'm just happier having a good time, acting like it's a normal night out, who cares if she doesn't want to put on a maid's outfit and pretend she walked into the wrong room.

Honestly, my worst experiences have been with women I choose when I am good and drunk, and I foolishly settle for an average looking one (6 dressed up as a nine), and I figure well, she's really keen and she knows I live here so she'll put in some effort, but noooooooo.

And although it's been said 1000 times before, I'll say it again, speaking Spanish is a huge benefit.

Amazing girl I met recently was telling me earlier in the night an American guy was trying to talk to her, and he was offering to fly her to the states (*cough*idiot*cough) or something, but she couldn't understand most of it, so she was very happy that I came along and could talk to her in Spanish.

It's not a deal breaker of course, and a lot of ticas speak great English, but every once in a while you probably let a good one get away for lack of Spanish. I particularly like the less hardened girls, and often they are the ones with the least amount of English (not always, but generally).


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 11, 2015 12:28 am 
bigmikeinkc wrote:
At times I wish Costa Rica was more like PI. There you tell the mamasan what you are after and they will bring out the girls who will service your particular needs or kinky activities. Want a BBBJ, culo, bondage, etc. and the girls who do so are lined up for you.

In San Jose, each girl requires an interview and negotiation which can be tedious.


BigMike, Wouldn't it be great to have an a-la-cart menu with photos/names and the options available. Easy pezzy! Guys always mention names on the boards and then you can't find them. Imagine, being at one of the main spots and calling out, "Donde estas Maria?" You probably have seven girls run up to you (not to mention a shim).

I can see you point BigMike about the process being tedious but if you are looking for a GFE with a little something something (extras). You need to put in a little work. If you go into a MP for me it's pretty cut and dry and the conversation is short as long as she has the right attitude.

This next trip I will be asking "puedo tomar fotos" (can I take pictures). What I learned from my first trip to CR was that I wanted to have a nice time and make sure she has a nice time as well. If she is able to meet my needs with a good attitude then I'm sure I'll see her again. As I will with Lucy (who you introduced me to).

My strategy has been is to make small talk with her and to compliment her (in a sincere manner - no need to do otherwise). Then I start to talk about what I looking for in a woman and wonder if she has that special touch. I've had two approach me at the DR that came on as "car salesmen" and I was out. Pluck, no one is doing me a favor. If you want to spend some time with me you need to come correct. I make sure they feel comfortable and let them know that if at anytime they do not, to let me know. It's all about communication and enjoying our company together.

Big Mike, you're a pretty smooth guy just work your magic with a nice drink in your hands and hers and it will all work. You're had some nice action so you must be doing something right. See you in a couple of weeks. And we will be tearing Sh&t up. LOL


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tikalika wrote:
I've never done an 'interview', and I very much doubt I ever will. Sure I have been disappointed sometimes, but surprisingly not very often. But then, my tastes are pretty mainstream.

Don't apologise - most guys are too

I'm all for having a few drinks, maybe dancing a bit, getting to know her a little. I think I'm a good judge of people and I usually get it right. Sometimes I pick one that I don't really have chemistry with, just because she's so damn hot, and sometimes I get very pleasantly surprised. I'd say more often than not actually.

But of course, I've had my share of mediocre experiences, total waste of time and money. But I have the luxury of being here full time, so a lost night is no big deal, unlike those on a short vacation.


By now, and I do get what you are saying - you should talk about your expectations - to not do so is a mistake - regardless of how much "game" you have (ita a board joke :P :lol: :lol: )

I'm just happier having a good time, acting like it's a normal night out, who cares if she doesn't want to put on a maid's outfit and pretend she walked into the wrong room.

Not what we are talking about at all - and you know it - or should, especially as a full time resident - you should negociate the fee AFTER, and what you expect - like an uncovered BJ, whatever - it does not have to be exotic - to do so will eliminate some - certainly not all - of the "Good in the bar and bad in the sack" experiences

Honestly, my worst experiences have been with women I choose when I am good and drunk, and I foolishly settle for an average looking one (6 dressed up as a nine), and I figure well, she's really keen and she knows I live here so she'll put in some effort, but noooooooo.

Why would you assume your geography would enter into it - plus when you act like a newbi, it does not matter where you live - if you want to drink, fine - just don't expect perfection when you are drunk - personally, talking with and being with someone who is drunk ranks up there as a bad experience for those of us who are not drunks - you wanna drink, drink - you wanna Phuck, Phuck - combo of the 2 gets tricky

And although it's been said 1000 times before, I'll say it again, speaking Spanish is a huge benefit.

Yes - agree 100% - but having a clue is also important

Amazing girl I met recently was telling me earlier in the night an American guy was trying to talk to her, and he was offering to fly her to the states (*cough*idiot*cough) or something, but she couldn't understand most of it, so she was very happy that I came along and could talk to her in Spanish.

It's not a deal breaker of course, and a lot of ticas speak great English, but every once in a while you probably let a good one get away for lack of Spanish. I particularly like the less hardened girls, and often they are the ones with the least amount of English (not always, but generally).

When you refer to working girls as "Ticas" it bothers me - you say you live in Costa Rica - you claim to be able to speak Spanish - then you must know "tica" simply means Costa Rican female - and frankly, given the 2 facts you include in your post, you should know better. And no, while some Costa Ricans speak great English, I think its safe to say not that many working girls do - I do assume that is the thrust of your comments - about working girls you are wrongly referring to as "ticas"

I am sure you are a nice guy - and you did not write your post as a strident "this is how you have to do things" I think you shared experiences, that frankly struck me as the post of someone doing some basic things wrong and who could - with a little work - improve his experiences



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