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Jagged, regarding "the last chica seen"
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Author:  Ruffnutz [ Mon Jan 10, 2005 4:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Jagged, regarding "the last chica seen"
Jaggededge wrote:
It seems the last girl I see in CR before going home always tugs at my hearstrings. This hapens even though they might not have been the best I had while down there. Why is that ?


Jagged,

I really enjoy your posts and insights, and when you wrote this, it was something that never occurred to me... but when it did, it made perfect sense. I became quite infatuated with my last one, and she just happened to be the best and the prettiest, IMHO, but the fact that she was my last experience before starting the post-CR-depression makes for a deep thought... Had she been my FIRST experience, would I still remember her in the same light that I do now? Does the last person you bang become the one freshest in your memory as it is the most recent experience. Do the feelings of depression as you leave paradise inadvertently elevate or heighten those felelings of your most recent experience? I for one have only been there once, so I have no real basis to justify any theory, but it was very true on my most recent (and very first) trip that the one that felt the most special was the last one I was with.

Since I was feeling the impending end of my vacation well into the next-to-last day in CR, maybe I just appreciated and savored every moment more so than on my first few days. Those moments with this one were not outrageously stellar by any means, but the way my memory plays it back in my head sure makes it seem like she made the angels sing and the mountains crumble during my every leche with her.

Hmm... I have just accidently bamboozled myself into thinking I really appreciate and miss someone!!! I have scammed myself!!

Ruffnutz
Author:  Jaggededge [ Mon Jan 10, 2005 7:37 pm ]
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Thanks Ruffnutz,

I was wondering if that has hapened to anyone else.
Author:  Zhallart [ Tue Jan 11, 2005 9:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Last One
HI

Hey Jag

Yes it happens quite often that the last is the best.

Not sure why and I don't think it is a state of mind.

It happens on my trips to Th. also and S'pore this time as well.

One reason for sure is that there is no time to find another 'best one'.
So that last 'best one' was best... up to that point -
Would another have come along?
Would you have kept the 'best one'?

Then there is the time element of not being able to run the course.
You are still on the 'hunnymoon', no time for reality to set in.

Did you fine a new 'best one', last day, on your Dec. trip?

Zart
Author:  Jaggededge [ Tue Jan 11, 2005 9:22 pm ]
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Z,

As a matter of fact , I found a couple.
But there was this one ........... oh never mind :roll: :roll:
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