the first few overnighters with her were great, then she pulled back and became sort of cold. Seems that many of these woman can turn it off if they need to to protect themselves. Is this common?

To understand the chica mentality you have to look at the way they were raised. From an early age they are tought to USE their sexuality to get what they want. Most of them have no fathers in the home. They learn about males from their Tico boyfriends. These fine gentlemen train our latinas that they are good for one thing....screwing. They teach them if they want something, they gotta flaunt their sexuality. They learn to lie, cheat, and steal to survive. They learn that the sluttier they dress, the more attention they get. They learned that the pu*sy is their most powerful device, and it can be used to get almost anything. They learn that the prettier they are, the better chance they have of getting what they want. They learn that turning it on and off is just a game. They learn that the Ticos they are taught by really will never love them for them, but only for those short encounters of sexual activity. These encounters are usually uninspired, and over quickly....and the Tico moves on to his next chica. Eventually, they take this attitude to the Del Rey, and use all they have learned against helpless gringos that do not know how to play the game. These gringos become putty in their hands and are easily abused. Sadly, some of them like it that way, but the smart ones wise up, and learn to play the game. Hopefully, so will you.

Isn't that enough?

Dear Astro,
I saw Jaggededge in his underwear last week. Please, do not ask for the details, but I think I am psychologically scarred for life. Would shock treatment be the best therapy to burn that image from my brain?
Sleepless in Seattle