Jaggededge wrote:
the first few overnighters with her were great, then she pulled back and became sort of cold. Seems that many of these woman can turn it off if they need to to protect themselves. Is this common?
I have seen this happen quite a bit Raggededge, I had a Colombiana and the sexo just got better every time, she was having orgasms and we had a blast together, she even invited me to come stay at her apartment for a trip, but then one night it was just as if she'd flipped the switch, no emotions, in an hurry, focused on the money and getting back to work at the DR. What happened I wondered, I think she felt herself getting too close and indeed "flipped the switch." Which in the long run was really the best thing for both of us. They are great actresses and can move on to the next guy without even looking back, you have to wonder how they can do it sometimes, it obviously gets easier for them very quickly working in the DR.
Astro made some good points concerning this in the other thread...>
Astro wrote:
To understand the chica mentality you have to look at the way they were raised. From an early age they are tought to USE their sexuality to get what they want. Most of them have no fathers in the home. They learn about males from their Tico boyfriends. These fine gentlemen train our latinas that they are good for one thing....screwing. They teach them if they want something, they gotta flaunt their sexuality. They learn to lie, cheat, and steal to survive. They learn that the sluttier they dress, the more attention they get. They learned that the pu*sy is their most powerful device, and it can be used to get almost anything. They learn that the prettier they are, the better chance they have of getting what they want. They learn that turning it on and off is just a game. They learn that the Ticos they are taught by really will never love them for them, but only for those short encounters of sexual activity. These encounters are usually uninspired, and over quickly....and the Tico moves on to his next chica. Eventually, they take this attitude to the Del Rey, and use all they have learned against helpless gringos that do not know how to play the game. These gringos become putty in their hands and are easily abused. Sadly, some of them like it that way, but the smart ones wise up, and learn to play the game. Hopefully, so will you.