Divorce in the US is out of control. Most every guy I know tells only stories of lopsided decisions by judges. It's truly a case of biggest liar wins. The judge assumes that both sides are equally lying, so he does the King Solomon "split it down the middle" - so biggest liar wins.
Guys talk about attorneys fees (both sides), family evaluator fees, Ch*ld psychologists (each Ch*ld), school counselors, mediators, accountants, asset appraisals, real estate & auto appraisers a;; wanting to be paid. In Florida, the Judge is charged with ruling on the fairness of the financial split and the "in the best interests of the Ch*ldren" concerning the decisions on Ch*ld support, visitation, education, medical, musical lessons, sports, vacations, holidays, college funds, etc. It sounds nice, but when there are this many professionals to advise the court and then resolve their differences of opinion so the judge can rule, it is even more costly and time consuming than I remembered from many years ago. "Of course," the Judge must hear the augments and recommendations from all parties before they can render a decision.

It's a true clusterfuck and most every guy who is forced to endure this says....."never again."
