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Author:  KGK [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 1:25 pm ]
Post subject:  General question on posting girl photos

Hey guys. Got a question. Not sure if I should be posting girls photos on here, and wanted to get your opinions (just not sure how this works). Ok I have numerous photos (only a few that I can post though!), and not sure if I should post. We of course asked the girls if we could take their pictures, but now that I think about it we never asked them if we could post them. So in your opinions is this ok to post? Just do not want to post if I shouldnt. I was guessing it was ok, but again do not want to do this if its not right. Let me know, and thanks for your help! KGK

Author:  Crazyhorse0017 [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 2:35 pm ]
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KGK:

Please don't post unless you have explicit permission from the ch*ca in the photo.
Thanks,
CH

Author:  Orange [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 2:37 pm ]
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I believe that most of the chicas that allow photos to be taken are doing so under the assumption that they are for personal viewing only, not for the world to see. With that said, there are some who don't mind their pictures posted online (especially if clothed) but the majority wil not allow photos under any circumstances because they've been burned before or have heard about others who have. Most that do allow pics will explicitly say "NO INTERNET". Yet, there are douchebags who will post them anyway.

If you haven't gotten the ok to post (didn't ask), but also you have not been asked not to post, that's kind of a grey area. Some would say that if she didn't say no, it means yes. :roll: It's up to you, but I wouldn't post.

Author:  Cujo's [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 2:40 pm ]
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And while were talking about this lets include CRT guys in there as well. There's plenty of guys on this board that don't want their faces posted... :idea:

KGK we apreciate the question for sure..


Cujo

Author:  KGK [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 2:47 pm ]
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Thanks guys! I will not post. I did not want at all to post these if the ladies are assuming that you dont do that. Next time I know better and will ask! Thanks for replies. KGK

Author:  Jamrock60 [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 5:50 pm ]
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KGK wrote:
Thanks guys! I will not post. I did not want at all to post these if the ladies are assuming that you dont do that. Next time I know better and will ask! Thanks for replies. KGK



Good choice most girls will not say to you taking a picture or two. but definitely don't like them posted..... :| :| :| :|

Author:  Tazman [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 10:58 pm ]
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kgk kudos to u finally someone that gets the idea. its fine to take pics of the girls for your own memory. at least u asked before just taking it upon yourself to just post pics of girls without permission like some others have. unless the girls says ok and even then not a great idea as girls change their minds. its best to just keep them for yourself and show close friends at home.

Author:  KGK [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 3:24 am ]
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Thanks for all of your replies. Glad I asked the question. Wanted to make sure that the girls were either ok, or not ok with posting pics. I will not be posting any pictures at all. I will be enjoying them for myself for some time to come! Again thanks for all of your input! KGK

Author:  Jamrock60 [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 9:06 am ]
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KGK wrote:
Thanks for all of your replies. Glad I asked the question. Wanted to make sure that the girls were either ok, or not ok with posting pics. I will not be posting any pictures at all. I will be enjoying them for myself for some time to come! Again thanks for all of your input! KGK


By the way there is nothing that say you cant share them with us privately.... 8) 8) 8) 8) 8) 8)

Author:  Irish Drifter [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 11:04 am ]
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Jamrock60 wrote:
By the way there is nothing that say you cant share them with us privately.... 8) 8) 8) 8) 8) 8)


That not a lot different then posting them publicly. Once someone, other then the person who took them, has them you have lost all control of them. If she allowed you to take them for your personal use that means your personal use not for the use of of others.

Author:  Nishnawturner [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 4:13 pm ]
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Post away you paid for it

Author:  Pacifica55 [ Fri Jan 29, 2010 11:08 am ]
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Nishnawturner wrote:
Post away you paid for it

You paid for her time and her services. You did not buy the right to expose her profession to the known world. :shock:

Author:  Prolijo [ Fri Jan 29, 2010 1:41 pm ]
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First of all, I'd like to say how pleased and surprised I am to see so many of you taking the position you have on this issue, with only 1 poster taking the opposing view that it would be okay to post without explicit position. Whenever this issue has been raised in the past, there has been far less consensus and far more people rationalizing their "post away" position.

I WON'T comment any further on the issue of posting without explicit position since that issue seems pretty much settled (in this thread any way) and because my on position on that issue I've stated many times before and should be well-known to most of you (or at least anyone who have read past threads on this subject). What I WOULD like to comment on and take PARTIAL exception to was this post by ID:
Irish Drifter wrote:
Jamrock60 wrote:
By the way there is nothing that say you cant share them with us privately.... 8) 8) 8) 8) 8) 8)

That not a lot different then posting them publicly. Once someone, other then the person who took them, has them you have lost all control of them. If she allowed you to take them for your personal use that means your personal use not for the use of of others.
I think a distinction should be made between sharing them by SHOWING them physically to other guys when you meet with them privately (such as on your digital camera's playback screen or the pics that you have uploaded on to your own netbook at CRT chapter meetings) and sharing them ELECTRONICALLY (such as by sending the image file by e-mail attachment to those other guys).

Perhaps ID feels that even the former case steps over the ethical limit. After all, technically speaking if you want to be precise personal use means personal use. OTOH, if you only SHOW your photos without actually sharing them electronically, at least it can't go any further than the visual memories of the guys you've shared those photos with (and who presumably you know and trust). Personally, I look at this sort of sharing as being more of gray-area/white lie sort of thing. After all, presumably you're only going to be showing those pics to guys you've actually met and know and not to someone who might be say their father or brother, so what is the real harm if there is absolutely no way they'd ever find out. I suppose one of them might tell your chica that you've shown them your photo, but why would they do that and, even if they did, it would just be their word against yours. Or, I suppose, you might wind up showing it (accidently or on purpose) to their gringo novio who THOUGHT she was no longer in that business and thus it might get back to her in that case, but then have you really done such a bad thing or gotten her into hot water that she didn't really deserve anyway?

OTOH, ID is absolutely right that, when you send someone an ELECTRONIC copy of one of your private chica pics, you never really know what they might do with that file (even if it is a guy you THINK you can trust and you made it clear you didn't want that pic reposted). And, if one of those guys went ahead and posted your pic (or forwarded it on to yet someone else who did) and your chica happened to catch wind of it, it wouldn't really matter so much to her WHO posted it as much as the fact that YOU were the one who took the photo and let it out and that, whereever it came from or who posted it, it was out there.

I confess I made that mistake once only to later see that pic posted on-line (on another Forum). I asked him to remove it, but wound up having to contact that site's admin to get everything removed. Thankfully, I don't think the chica involved ever discovered that the photo I took wound up on-line or, if she did, figure out that it was one of the ones that I had taken. OTOH, I will never really know how many other guys I don't even know might have downloaded that photo while it was still up and what they might have done with it further. Needless to say, I'm much more careful now in regards to how and who with I share any of my photos, let alone posting any of them on-line.

Author:  Nhhank [ Fri Jan 29, 2010 5:14 pm ]
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Briliant.... Raise a glass

Author:  Irish Drifter [ Fri Jan 29, 2010 6:36 pm ]
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Let me be a bit of the "Devils Advocate" here. :)

There appears to be a very strong consensus that if the chica says the pictures are for your personal use and not to be posted on the internet that it is definitely unethical to post them.

Here is the hypothetical. You take a chica back to your room. You have a good time and take a few pictures of her. She says, before she agrees to pose, promise me that you will not under any circumstances post these pictures anywhere. You agree and promise her no one but you shall ever see them under any circumstance. You pay her she leaves. An hour or so later you find she has left taking along your Ipod which you know you had when you and she came back to your room.

The question: is it now permissible to post her picture in the "Scammers, thieves & con artists" section of the VIP gallery? Remember you promised "no one but you shall ever see them under any circumstance".

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