First - Just Say No! However, those of us who are newer to this game may find some wisdom in the following-- I credit Brothers Phoenix Rising, Pacifica55 and BangBang57 for the persperation, er, inspiration from the thread "
send money TICA found me again " in this forum-
The following is from an old post that is comparing the relative value of a girl in a massage parlor (MP for short, a current example of an MP would be Relax)
Phoenix Rising wrote:
Kented wrote:
I lived in Costa Rica for seven months as well as made over ten trips. I personally never felt like I got any added value with the BM girls but in reality the difference between a 5.000 chica at Jet Set or 70E and a 30.000 to 40.000 one at the Del Rey is that the more expensive girl pretends to actually like you.
IT IS HER JOB and if she does it well, she feeds her Ch*ldren. If she doesn't do it well, she works at 747, gets laid eight times a day and earns the same money. There are definately some "relationship worthy" girls at both places but the money they earn is adicting. A successful chica earns more than 90% of Ticos and she genuinely will want you to replace her income.
Ultimately a relationship will cost money. You just don't want to be sending money to the wrong girl. And if you think of this transaction as buying sex, it is always cheaper to just buy the sex. I have learned to enjoy when they kiss me and pretend they actually like me and I do the same thing to them. Just don't confuse make belive with the real world.
A buried gem from the past! Thank you Kented, wherever you may be!
and the following was posted in response to PR's post and the RFM process in general
Pacifica55 wrote:
Since this was resurrected I guess I will comment on the RFM process:
- Women want security but are on the lookout for weakness.
- When we show weakness, we are immediately eliminated as a potential mate and are relegated to the "walking wallet" category.
- Giving money to women that they haven't earned is seen to them as weakness.
- If a woman sends an RFM you can bet that she sees you are weak. Otherwise she never would have made the request. Nobody likes to be laughed at!
- An RFM is an attempt to draw you into her reality, for her to "paint the picture". If you play along she controls the "reality". Instead, quickly let her know that she has you confused with someone who is stoopid enough to send money. The request is humorous to you: She read you so incorrectly that you find it funny.
- Now look at what you are projecting and make the changes necessary so that the next girl does not see you as weak.
The RFM is cause and effect based. She obviously has the impression that you want her more than she wants you. Regardless of your "attraction quotient", you must always act with indifference. If she gets the impression that you hold her in higher regard than you hold yourself (you put her on a pedestal) then she will see herself as having a higher social status than you and she will make demands. If, on the other hand, she sees herself as trying to reach your level, she won't. JMHO.
We need to always "be the man" and remain in control of ourselves in order to avoid "Rolltide Syndrome". For those of you not aware of this disorder, please reference the many and lurid threads that were spawned from Rolltides' sad tale of weak woe.
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