JazzboCR wrote:
The main thing, and I believe a good thing, is you won't look at any Gringa the same way, will be impervious to their surface and spurious charms. I'm not talking dislike, just that there will now be something of a wall, a stepping back before you succumb to the curves, the smiles, the bending towards you. You'll see it for what it it is--sometimes desparation, sometimes a need to control the situation--but always in a sense needy of something I won't provide anymore. Friendly yes of course but I won't be under their thumb nor let themselves put themselves under mine. We're equal or we're not at all. And in 99% of the situations, that's not at all. I have a ready alternative--too bad about them. I didn't make this world the way it is, I can't change it, I just opt out of it.
And Bingo was his name-o
Couldn't agree more, I still take the occasional date here as well, but it's amazing at the response passive indifference can generate when she's wondering why you're not phoning.
I'm fine first date, maybe even 2nd, I'm good even till we hit the sheets
But if she opens her pie hole ONCE about my job, the fact I work nights and weekends, the fact I do have a PS3 that I enjoy, feel free to mention my obsessive DVD collection, talk about my wardrobe or the fact I can sit and eat donuts in my underwear for dinner and it's Toooooooooooodles
This hobby has not only given my balls back, it has completely done away with any level of drama or stupidity I'll tolerate. If a girl wants to treat me well, giddy-up, if she pulls the attitude early on....See ya!