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"Man, she was so hot and I thought everything was going great. We rolled around on the bed shedding clothes like the first time in the backseat. What a turn-off when I bent down to kiss her and she turned her head so I ended up with my tongue in her ear!"

So, what's up with the "she won't kiss me" deal? I believe it's cultural. Generally speaking (HDR actresses aside) if a Latina kisses you it means more to her than if she phucked you! Seriously, they kiss guys they like and, if they have a boyfriend, they kiss nobody else.

I found out the hard way that a quick "hello" kiss on the lips to an old favorita is in no way acceptable to my novia. She may share the rest of me without complaint but kissing is reserved for her, only.

That's my take. I would say don't take it personally if she won't kiss you. It is also a good "truth serum". If she is telling you that she looooooves you she should be anxious to kiss you. Her body language on your approach is a dead giveaway. Just my opinion based on living with it. Take it for what it is worth.

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Pac
you make me feel good
Last trip mucho besos y brassos

Yes....alot of truth in that post. It's a deal breaker for me if they won't kiss, but most of my regulars know I want it and expect it, and it's never a problem.

"....Sex without kissing, is like eating a fine meal without salt and pepper."

most fine meals shouldn't need salt and pepper that's what makes it a fine meal

I think you get my drift.

ditto!

Kissing, particularly passionate kissing is almost the ultimate indicator in your connection. Not so much a CR thing to me as it is human nature. But some guys don't care about kissing which is fine..

To me it's a necessity, doesn't always have to be all lovey dovie. I'm down with grabbing a chicas head back by her hair and spittin' in her mouth or it being reciprocated . That's some Rocco Siffredi shit right there

Cujo

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why don't you guys go get a room?

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- Aldous Huxley, Brave New World, Ch. 16

I must be a professional... I have told a number of working girls, no thanks, I don't do that. Have gotten some funny looks.

I agree with you CUJO, "Kissing, particularly passionate kissing is almost the ultimate indicator in your connection. Not so much a CR thing to me as it is human nature."

Good topic, Pac! We need more open discussion about these cultural and emotional indicators -

My take - There is much wisdom here - I know that the comparison between kissing here and in Rio, for example, are like night and day. In CR, my limited experience has been that MP girls avoid it but they have never refused it while higher end girls are a 50-50 proposition. No one in my memory has refused it but it is obvious when the are not down with it.

Rio is a polar opposite in many respects - Passionate DFK before undressing is the rule.

The art of having this information, I feel, is how we use it to our benefit when we try to relate to them.

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Poco a poco la vieja sube el coco.

Make her *want* to kiss you.

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Sí Señor, Estoy de acuerdo.

Not many, but some girls just don't much like to kiss. I had a GF years ago who was that way, and here in CR I have a girl who is very cuddly in all ways except I can tell she doesn't much enjoy kissing. I check my breath, by the way, and at least as far as I can tell, it's not too bad. I really do believe some girls just don't enjoy it.

ON THE OTHER HAND... I think in most cases it is a good litmus test. If your tongue ends up in an ear, probably best to start looking elsewhere.

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IMHO – If a girl does not want to kiss, I might as well just do a handjob to myself and save the money. This is one of those deal breakers for me. In all my negotiations I let them know from the start that DFK and DATY will be the norm for the first hour. If the balk, then next, so far 100% compliance.

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