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I looked through these 99 photos of U.S.D.A. prime (U.S. Department of Ass), and if this is as good as it gets, then something's wrong. Years ago I would have been drooling like a cow chewing cud, but now I was nearly emotionless and unmoved. Granted, there are a few amidst the bevy I wouldn't kick out of bed, provided they were also sweet and interesting, but knowing the true nature of these spoiled gringas, that's unlikely.

Perhaps it's my age. I remember Dustin Hoffman once making an off-the-cuff remark to the effect that, yes, there comes a time when enslavement by one's dick's demands finally ebbs a bit, to where you can function as a rational man. (I used to think that would be a fate worse than death, which it's not - it's actually liberating). Perhaps my current status with someone real leaves me a bit cool when looking at these girls trying to appear desirable. But if anything is "wrong" (and that's a big "if") it's only that the thrill has taken on a new dimension.

The mere sight of ass, or covered ass, no longer rules. When young and cocky, I tended to be one-dimensional, with ass being the goal of my encounters. The irony now is that I'm past the years when youth alone is often enough, and I like the game. I like to play. That's back assward. I should have done more of the mental shit when a whippersnapper, and now be a perverted lecher. But then again, some young women like older guys, and I suppose that's one of the reasons why (after money). Girls describe it as older guys "go slower."

Knowing what I now know and reflecting on experiences over the years, looking at Playboy is just not the same, let alone gringas in silly cheerleading uniforms. I need more. Yes, Dustin is correct about developing more control and perspective as one moves through youth, and that's part of the story. But the analogy to fine wine is also relevant. Get used to sipping on 188-year-old, $2000 glasses of Chateau d'Yquem, and that Merlot never again tastes the same.

Ah, to have known all this when young.

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"...and if men didn't have this unquenchable desire to have sex with women, then they wouldn't have anything to do with women at all. I certainly wouldn't..."

All the same...sign me up for 11, 15 and 42 (also same girl in 46)

I concur with many of your sentiments Jazz. Now that I have the longest term, most successful relationship of my life with a consistant, vibrant Colombiana...it is harder to get "harder" about many of these images or "chicas of the night". It has become too easy to look at simply paying for a couple hours of pleasure...and as the BB King blues song says..."the thrill is gone"...

I applaud you on your current relationship with the Braziliana. Sounds like it is working out nicely and providing new levels of experience relationally for you...similar to my experience of recent years. Hope it continues to work for you. If not, you will always undoubtedly find your way and learn from the myriad of experiences.

I still gotta get to Brazil someday though...

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JM, I do not think that is about age but more of the quality of the loving that you get. Once you get a hot uninhibited Latina under the cover and she shows you what a woman can do for you, it will be hard to compare to gringa love. I still score plenty of poon here on the states but I’m drawn more and more to CR, and Medellin coming soon.

Once you taste a higher level of loving is just harder to get excited for a lower quality, unappreciative sex partner.

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#42 is so right in my wheel house it's rediculous. As some of you know I'm not really as taken with the latinas as much as a gringa.

I guess at times that's why I can seem indiferent towards the chicas in latin countries. Don't get me wrong I get down with them, but it's just not my first choice. This may explain why I never mind going back to the hotel empty handed if I didn't find anything.

Gringas get bashed here on this board a lot, and yea I get it, but it's just something about the fine american girls i.e. dancers, waitresses, girls out in a dance club etc.. with thier blonde hair and blue eyes with retarded hot bodies that win for me over a Colunbiana, Tica, Nica etc..

I'm glad the DR isn't stocked with girls like #42 or even the fine ass gringa in my signature block. I'd have to go every other weekend

Cujo

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Well, I guess my dick is still enslaving me. I didn't see any on there that I wouldn't love to do. Obviously, some more than others. I agree that attitude is important. But it's also important (for me) to have some hottie underneath me..or on top of me...or to the side of me...etc. Sometimes it's even more fun if she is a real bitch.

dapanz1

Tman, thanks for the good wishes. Success in relationships, or at least efforts toward that end, is not a popular topic on this board, nor should it be. This site is about going to the promised land, CR, and banging your brains out until you're raw. I know this and have certainly participated. I remember when I discovered Rio, with all the perfectly tanned asses and bikini lines, to say nothing of the girl-next-door sweetness, and thought more than once I just might leave my dick behind.

I didn't mean to start another thread about gringas, either. It's really more about shifting priorities as one moves through life. These days cheerleaders don't carry the symbolism they once did. I don't think it's entirely explained away by age or being jaded, because there are some cool mature dudes in Miami paying 3K a night for gringas in cheerleading outfits. Or take Hugh Hefner, for example. He still reads reality into cheerleaders.

Perhaps the, "been there, done that" morass comes at different points in people's lives, while others die well before it happens - thankfully, some might argue. For me, I'll always enjoy picking off sitting ducks in the DR, or propositioning perfect pu*sy on Copa beach. I'll always enjoy a weekend trip to Cali, phucking hot, unspoiled Colombianas for lunch. But I trust it will not be my main diet again, and that point is brought home these days when I see girls trying to look sexy - gringa, or otherwise. What turns me on these days? Ramming it hard into a hot Latina who's begging me to phuck her silly, as I hold her down by the hair. She's got to want it...really.

Oh, and lively conversation. That, too...

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"Don't never trust a woman, till she's dead and deep....One day she'll say she loves you, next day she'll throw you on the street."

"...and if men didn't have this unquenchable desire to have sex with women, then they wouldn't have anything to do with women at all. I certainly wouldn't..."

LOL...the lively conversation is VERY important .

Actually, I would suggest from MY observations at least that while we men are big on talking "sportsfucking" and being mongering dogs...underneath the surface I would suggest that a large percentage of guys I know on this board would respond positively to a "real relationship" if they could find it. What I mean by THAT is having a woman you can TALK to when you're not phucking, someone totally trustworthy, and yes, someone who is successful in their own right whether it comes to profession, motherhood or otherwise. To me this means a relationship of equals though difference. It means having an educated woman, not just a maid, sharing your life and your bed. Someone of your own class if you want to put it that way.

I know...some hardasses here won't admit it...but most of us are real softees under our hard macho exteriors ...

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Well, let me be the first to admit it. It's just that it appears my hormones still control my actions. Although not to the extent it did when I was 20 or 30.

dapanz1

Sounds like you are jaded from your travels.

[quote="Jazz Musician Success in relationships, or at least efforts toward that end, is not a popular topic on this board, nor should it be. This site is about going to the promised land, CR, and banging your brains out until you're raw. I know this and have certainly participated. I remember when I discovered Rio, with all the perfectly tanned asses and bikini lines, to say nothing of the girl-next-door sweetness, and thought more than once I just might leave my dick behind.

I didn't mean to start another thread about gringas, either. It's really more about shifting priorities as one moves through life. These days cheerleaders don't carry the symbolism they once did. I don't think it's entirely explained away by age or being jaded, because there are some cool mature dudes in Miami paying 3K a night for gringas in cheerleading outfits. Or take Hugh Hefner, for example. He still reads reality into cheerleaders.

Perhaps the, "been there, done that" morass comes at different points in people's lives, while others die well before it happens - thankfully, some might argue. For me, I'll always enjoy picking off sitting ducks in the DR, or propositioning perfect pu*sy on Copa beach. I'll always enjoy a weekend trip to Cali, phucking hot, unspoiled Colombianas for lunch. But I trust it will not be my main diet again, and that point is brought home these days when I see girls trying to look sexy - gringa, or otherwise. What turns me on these days? Ramming it hard into a hot Latina who's begging me to phuck her silly, as I hold her down by the hair. She's got to want it...really.

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Jazz,
I can understand and relate to your sentiments. I was just a short time ago in the same boat you find yourself now and the ultimate decision of what to do was extremly agonizing for me. Good luck to you and your lady and best wishes to you both.

Cujo,

I agree with you that there is alot of gringa bashing on this board. Some of it is justified and some is not. Many here would be bashing any woman;
gringa o latina if they were only in a relationship with them long enough.
I too once was of the mind that my failed relationships with gringas here all would have turned out much differently if I would have only been in them with a sweet, loving & unspoiled __________ (Colombiana, Tica, Nica, Venezuelana etc., etc.)

Truth of the matter is that they are all women and they are all more similar than different. Mongering is most about fantasy fufillment. We go to the places where we are most able to stack the odds in our favor. Every once in a while we lose one of our CRT brothers to the fantasy of " a happy ever after with the perfect Latina". Hey, Im not flaming anyone it almost happened to me ! But look how quickly we return to this board. We can never totally let go of the mongering lifestyle even if it is only by offering advice to newbies.

Cujo, I commend you for your success with the gringas/latinas but as you enter our 40s and 50s this may not always be the case. That is why I will always encourage you to go forth and explore new places while you are able to do so with youth and vitality. You can find wingmen to party with everywhere !

CR will always be here. Sorry for all the mixed thoughts on various topics that JM's original post brought out in me.

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Rainman - I think you should continue to do exactly as your gut tells you. You're clearly not ready to give up or even modify your mongering for any girl. When/if you arrive at a place in your life where the benefits of being with a particular girl outweighs mongering, you'll know. There are tradeoffs to be sure. That's why I played "Fantasy Phuck" for the past five years. I was starting to think this would be it for the rest of my life. And for some, taking it out with mongering (only) is quite enough, thank you very much. I'm just not among them.

Regarding giving up mongering or writing on this board, or traveling, or visiting my son, or heading up to NY to see friends - it's all open. We'll do plenty together, too. If I modify my activities, it will be because I want to, not because I have to. As far as having working girls in my place (let alone my bed) when home, I've never liked that. And I was never into having real girlfriends when married. When it comes to traveling, my girl knows too much - like my weaknesses. But we've talked and nobody's perfect, including her. She knows I'll never change, that I'm safado, but she also knows just about every other Brazilian guy is also, without the benefits I bring to the table. The table is the table, never forget. She may not relish the idea of my taking a weekend jaunt to Colombia, or taking day trips to Copa when we're at her place, or even hanging out in Copa for a week while she's in Minas visiting family. But it's me, I'm safe, and she knows what I'm doing.

One thing I learned doing all the "research" was I had to resist thinking with my little head. The lessons came hard at times, falling for some unsavory types, including non's. It's not easy giving up short-term or long-term situations with 23 y.o. non's who look like models, especially when they get attached (which happens easily). But it would have been almost as crazy as marrying a "ho" because these girls have no life experience and I don't have patience. (And what would my family think - like I care?) So I waited and am glad I did. By the way, she's on the sofa in the same room as I write this. She knows I'm among the multitude of pervs on this board. But she's counting her blessings anyway, and so am I.

I'm not afraid of divorce after having had two with gringas. But I should have had the pre-nups with them, not the sweet Latina lying on my sofa in a g-string.

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"...and if men didn't have this unquenchable desire to have sex with women, then they wouldn't have anything to do with women at all. I certainly wouldn't..."

Jazz I agree that these photos do little to get the blood moving. Maybe we are losing some libido but that doesn't seem to be the case when we go south. For me I have been there & done that with way to many Gringas & all I see in these photos is more pain & suffering than fun.

The older I get the more I like to rent my fun the further away from my backyard the better.

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Spunk glazed Chicas are the building blocks of the universe!

Boy don't I know it

I'm holding on as long as it lasts. I'm sure when I'm older I'll monger much more. Just wish there was a monger location closer to my tastes...

Cujo

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Cujo...Havana bro, just give it a few years