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I posted my first couple of pictures yesterday, but a question was asked if I had asked permission to post the pics. I wanted to know if that is the norm. Should I have asked permission before posting?

Yes you have our permission.

Thing is the chicas will probably see the pics and if they have a problem with it will drama all over you if you return soon.

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Pictures must be posted in the photo gallery, not in the body of a thread.

Please ensure that you have the girls' permission to post her pic on the internet prior to posting. This will avoid major hassles for all of us. Thanks.

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Funny about all this "permission" stuff. If you took the photo, you are the owner of such photo and you can post it all you like ! If the chica does not like it, so what. She should not have allowed you to take the photo to begin with. Since when do the chicas determine what is posted and what is NOT posted about them? Sounds like a whole other thread of discussion !

Here are a couple of very good reasons:

1. Is she of age? One member recently posted a picture proudly proclaiming that he had done a certain chica; problem is she was 17 when he took the photo and he documented his activities on the internet. D'OH!

2. I take a lot of pictures/videos and the #1 reason I get for "no pictures" is that some moron may post her pics without permission. Thanks, to all the morons out there!

3. When she finds out you have posted her picture on this website she will be way pissed. (Yes, they have passwords and view the gallery as much as we do...). Do you think that just maybe she has a few friends in CR who might be willing to work a gringo over for a little money or to get into her panties? You bet they do and I have been involved in trying to keep a girl from putting a hit out on a monger for posting her pics.

4. What's in it for you? In other words, who are you trying to impress by posting pics of girls on the net? Really, we believe you did a "10" by your scale in CR. There is no need to "prove it" by posting her pics.

In summary, many of these girls are doing this part time or for a short time and would just as soon be able to go on with their lives minus proof of their past documented on the internet. To me, it is a basic sign of respect that we honor their privacy.

To put it another way, how would you feel if they started taking pics of us and posting them on the internet along with descriptions or what we did and paid? Any girl with a cell phone could get our pictures pretty easily. Does that sound like a good exchange to you?

A little respect goes a long way!

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I just posted your naked picture on http://www.cheatinghusband.com and http://www.pervertedcoworker.com. I hope you don't mind that I did that without your permission. Of course, you and I aren't the first people to post compromising pictures of other people without their permission, but regardless of what the "norm" is for other guys what does your own personal sense of ethics and common sense suggest the proper course of action should be.

Some chicas kindly (or naively) agree to let guys take their picture on the foolish belief that it is just for that guys later personal enjoyment (a momento of their private session). Say what you will about the wisdom of such thinking, you can imagine their later anger and chagrin when that naked pic winds up on a public (or semi-public) monger site where, theoretically at least, their novios/esposo/familias could find them. Of course, there are certainly some chicas who have no problem at all taking that risk, but then if that is the case there is no harm in asking their permission to do so first.

If they say yes, then fine post as much as they allow. If they say no, respect their wishes and save the photos just for your personal enjoyment (or perhaps to show your friends over drinks). If you don't ask there may not be any problem if they really don't care (or if they never find out). However, if you don't ask and they really don't want the pics getting out (as many don't) and you then post and they find out (as they often will due to the chica-grapevine), then it can have huge negative repercussions on every other guy who comes after you and really does just want to take a few pics for his private collection (plus on yourself if you ever want to session with that chica again).

Already, many if not most chicas are extremely wary about guys taking their pics because they (or else many of their friends) have been burned by the less responsible guys amongst us. More broadly, it fosters the impression of us as a group as being guys who can't really be trusted in general whether it is for taking pictures, paying as promised at the end of the session or whatever. We already have that impression of most chicas. Shouldn't we at least try to stay on the high moral ground in our dealings with them?

RE: Palynx's latest comments, posting postive or negative review commentary is one thing. Even posting pics of another person in a public setting (ie probably fully clothed) is another. However, posting easily identifiable pics of a someone in a compromised position that was taken in a private setting is something else altogether. In the US, it is legal to post descriptions of what happened in a private meeting. It is legal to post pictures of others taken in public (as in the celebrity paparazzi scum who technicaly don't break any laws). It is also legal to post mug shots of guys arrested in prostitution stings (although most would not like it very much). But, generally it is not legal to post private photos taken in a private setting (or setting where a reasonable expectation of privacy could be assumed). Nor is it even legal to post a private audio recording where one side was unaware they were being taped.

Does her consent to being photographed really amount to a consent to your doing whatever you want with the photo? If you think so then I guess you can explain why professional photographers, who could naturally be assumed to post their photos out in public, are required to get signed "model release forms"? But regardless of the legality, there is the basic concept of ethics and the golden rule "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." If you would have no problem with chicas posting naked pics of you or can't even understand why other mongers might have a problem with that, then by all means post your unauthorized naked pics of chicas. Just don't wonder why on your next trip, all the chicas have become so wary of letting you continue to take their pics.

Not on one side or the other, but a person is not very bright to let someone take nude photos of them. I mean come on. How long have the chicas typically known the guy when the photos get taken... Maybe I've got trust issues, but I don't think I've ever trusted anyone after a few hours.

True, TW, but they get a lot smarter after one of their friends points out the pics on the web.

But hey, maybe its just me. Maybe the next time a really pissed chica with fire in her eyes and a razor in her purse asks which MoFo is responsible for posting her pics I should just say "that's him with the hat".

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Hey P55 did you get permission from that chica in your avatar after you tied her up?

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IMO, Polijo's above quote sums it up in one simple sentence. No rocket science here!

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Like I said, this is one of those topics that could go on forever. Always many sides to the subject. I will always do as I do and you will always do as you do. You can talk till you are blue in the face, you can sugar coat it, provide all kinds of reverse personal moral issues about it or attempt to be logical in the application to the self, do whatever makes you sleep better or happy with your life, pics will be taken and posted or they won't.

I suppose Palynx is correct, legally speaking. I do think there's a difference between taking a photograph as a memento and posting the photo on the internet saying, in effect, this girl is a prostitute. If I have some reason to post a picture, I ask first. I don't post many primarily because of the snarky, negative comments that almost any picture will get from a certain subset of our so-called 'brothers.' But that's another issue. The girl trusted you and let you take a picture. I don't think that means she gave you permission to advertise the fact that she's a prostitute. If that is your intention, ask first. If you don't know how to ask in Spanish, I'll be happy to help.

Let's put the shoe on the other foot. A 'brother' monger takes a picture of you groping some chica. You are having fun and don't give it much thought. He decides to post the pic. Some enemy of yours ends up with it and decides to send it to your family. Would you be okay with that or feel betrayed?

I treat the girls with respect and consideration. The 'golden rule' applies even to prostitutes. At least it does for me.

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You are absolutely right on that point but who ever said most of these chicas were that bright? They're already trusting all of us to pay at the end even though there are some scumbags amongst us who don't. And, for that matter, how bright are some of our monger brothers who foolishly trusted the chicas when they've received an RFM? Just look at guys like RollTide who presumably graduated from U of A. And it surprises you that there are chicas who don't stop to think what could be done with such photos or else accept the insincere assurances that the pics will only be seen by the guy taking the pic? Finally, their intelligence or lack thereof is really irrelevant to the question of ethics of posting their pics. If anything, taking advantage of another person's naivete makes the action even more deplorable.

Even just suggesting that somehow the stupidity of the victim is justification for anything you might want to do to them is a pretty poor rationalization.

Here are some similar situations, that some of you might be better able to relate to. If a person is sold a house they can't afford (and should have known they can't afford) and later wind up in foreclosure, they might "deserve" what happened to them, but that doesn't excuse the actions of the realtors and mortgage brokers that profited from their stupidity and sold them that bill of goods. If you bring an escort to your house (or hotel) and she does a cash and dash, you'd be incredibly stupid, but that does happen and who would you consider the real villain in that scenario. If your government tries to convince you that another country possesses WMD that places your country in immediate risk but offers nothing but undisclosed confidential intelligence sources as proof and you believe it and back sending your sons and daughters to war, you may have been duped but who was really the one most responsible?

Okay, that last one may have been a little too political but you see my point. We can ALL be pretty stupid at times but that doesn't justify other people taking advantage of our stupidity.

I will agree with Palynx on one thing. No amount of logical or ethical reasoning is ever going to convince the guys who just don't care about what is right. There will always be some who continue to post pics regardless of their subjects' wishes on the subject and who will continue to rationalize their actions. He may call it "sugarcoating" and ridicule it as "reverse-morality" but I don't see any logic at all in his rationalizations. He and others certainly will continue to do whatever they want and then portray it as a personal choice issue, but we all pay the price when the chicas wise up and refuse to let ANY of us take private pics any more or when it feeds into the chica's perception of us as just some bunch of scumsuckers who they can't trust thereby negatively impacting our sessions with them in general.

Oh sh*t. Here we go. Now you've really done it. You had to go THERE!!! I'm afraid to see where this thread goes from here! Hang on fellas!

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LMAO! This really should be a whole other thread